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Dommes everywhere - 11/9/2010 4:29:49 PM

slavekal

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This is in response to a thread started by a man who was bitterly complaining about the dearth of dommes out there. A sub male has to be on the lookout all the time. Last week, at a Halloween party, I was dressed as a gladiator. Leather kilt, no shirt. A lot of women at the party aggressively felt me up and grabbed my ass. Always a good sign if you're looking for a woman with dominant tendencies. One in particular showed some serious Mistress potential. She not only felt me up a bit, but she started pinching my nipples and open handed slapping my chest. I have found that nipple pinching is a serious domme move. They just seem to all go right for that. If I were single and on the hunt, I promise you I would have gotten a few numbers and almost certainly have had a pretty fun extended encounter with Miss Nipplepinch.
Halloween is a fantastic night to gauge the dominant potential in the ladies. People let their real selves out when they put on their costumes and masks.

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RE: Dommes everywhere - 11/9/2010 4:42:22 PM

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Um. Were you at a scene party? Please tell me you weren't.

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RE: Dommes everywhere - 11/9/2010 4:42:57 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: slavekal

This is in response to a thread started by a man who was bitterly complaining about the dearth of dommes out there. A sub male has to be on the lookout all the time. Last week, at a Halloween party, I was dressed as a gladiator. Leather kilt, no shirt. A lot of women at the party aggressively felt me up and grabbed my ass. Always a good sign if you're looking for a woman with dominant tendencies. One in particular showed some serious Mistress potential. She not only felt me up a bit, but she started pinching my nipples and open handed slapping my chest. I have found that nipple pinching is a serious domme move. They just seem to all go right for that. If I were single and on the hunt, I promise you I would have gotten a few numbers and almost certainly have had a pretty fun extended encounter with Miss Nipplepinch.
Halloween is a fantastic night to gauge the dominant potential in the ladies. People let their real selves out when they put on their costumes and masks.

dear god. i wasn't complaining of any such thing- the fact that you could extrapolate such a thesis is mystifying (and particularly revealing of the literary skills of someone who is pimping a book with each post).

and so you hooked up on halloween... um, yeah... so did a lot of us.

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RE: Dommes everywhere - 11/9/2010 4:50:30 PM

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I am not even going to take that bait. Enjoy your solitude, dude.

Not a scene party..just a regular Halloween party at a club downtown.

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RE: Dommes everywhere - 11/9/2010 4:58:58 PM

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I am not even going to take that bait. Enjoy your solitude, dude.

you start a thread with no discernible purpose apart from criticizing what you mistakingly perceived to be the message of a post i started on another forum, and now you don't want to "take that bait"?

then, after purporting to take the high road, you offer a thinly veiled ad hominem attack??

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RE: Dommes everywhere - 11/9/2010 5:07:03 PM

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S22, we are all under the same impression as Kal.

Kal, so glad it was a club event! I was cringing at the idea of strangers mauling you at a scene party without permission!

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RE: Dommes everywhere - 11/9/2010 5:26:46 PM

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Hominem? Is that when two words sound alike?
Actually, my point was not to criticize. It was to illustrate one of the many opportunities there are to meet potential Mistresses in the "vanilla" world.
The party was a regular Halloween party at a predominantly black club in the city. Those girls were wild. When the nipple pincher noticed Ms. Mlicious, she apologized. I told her that she wouldn't mind...just ask her. Ms. Mlicious told her it was fine. They both grabbed a nipple and continued for a while. Good times.

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RE: Dommes everywhere - 11/9/2010 5:44:44 PM

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Hominem? Is that when two words sound alike?

its latin for "person", as in you were making an attack against the person (i.e. a personal rather than substantive argument).

anyways, apology accepted, i dont have any hard feelings..

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RE: Dommes everywhere - 11/9/2010 5:47:54 PM

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No...that's not it. Isn't hominem another word for grits?

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RE: Dommes everywhere - 11/9/2010 5:52:29 PM

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No...that's not it. Isn't hominem another word for grits?

no.

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RE: Dommes everywhere - 11/9/2010 6:45:04 PM

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Oh, it's Hom and his friends. Are y'all gonna bring Hom 'nem to the party?

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RE: Dommes everywhere - 11/9/2010 6:48:03 PM

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And sausage! You cant have grits without sausage!

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RE: Dommes everywhere - 11/9/2010 7:03:58 PM

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Oh, it's Hom and his friends. Are y'all gonna bring Hom 'nem to the party?

Helpful DommeKitteh provides a picture of Mr. Homm, from 'Star Trek the Next Generation' (yes, he was Lurch too):

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RE: Dommes everywhere - 11/9/2010 7:15:15 PM

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Right! And he was a helluva slave to Counselor Troi's mom. And Poise....I got your sausage...right here...oh!

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RE: Dommes everywhere - 11/9/2010 7:16:29 PM

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ok so you went to a halloween party sans bdsm scenesters. So some women touched you up and pinched your nips. Sorry dude but that's not gonna tell you if someone is a domme or not.

I've gone to tons upon tons of parties in my lifetime that are not bdsm ones and I have a lot of girlfriends who would have no qualms of pinching your nips and rubbing up against you if they were there. I can tell you each and every one of them would look at you and probably tell you how grossed out they are by the very idea of bdsm or kinky sex. They just happen to like to have a bit of fun at a halloween party especially after a drink or two.

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RE: Dommes everywhere - 11/9/2010 7:19:27 PM

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Definately good clues! Athough, like littlewonder mentioned, it's not a definate. I pinch guy's nipples sometimes. But I do the same thing as you. I pick out d-types by how they interact with me in vanilla settings and I'm usually spot on. It's so fun to play 'spot the kinkster'.

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RE: Dommes everywhere - 11/9/2010 7:19:57 PM

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Wow, my new fantasy sub: Mr Homm, in a Blood-and-Sand costume, avec responsive man-nips!

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RE: Dommes everywhere - 11/9/2010 7:31:19 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: littlewonder

ok so you went to a halloween party sans bdsm scenesters. So some women touched you up and pinched your nips. Sorry dude but that's not gonna tell you if someone is a domme or not.

I've gone to tons upon tons of parties in my lifetime that are not bdsm ones and I have a lot of girlfriends who would have no qualms of pinching your nips and rubbing up against you if they were there. I can tell you each and every one of them would look at you and probably tell you how grossed out they are by the very idea of bdsm or kinky sex. They just happen to like to have a bit of fun at a halloween party especially after a drink or two.

good catch wonder. it sounds more as if someone was aggressively flirting than asserting dominance. seems like the premiss is based on shaky ground.

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RE: Dommes everywhere - 11/9/2010 7:38:02 PM

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It's not a guarantee, but that is one of the good clues. Assertive, barely contained sadism (I could sense that), and the nipple pinching move is always a good sign. Those are the girls a sub guy on the hunt has to follow up on. It can work. I am not just using shaky conjecture. I have had pretty good success following up on clues like those.

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RE: Dommes everywhere - 11/9/2010 7:46:57 PM

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ORIGINAL: slavekal

It's not a guarantee, but that is one of the good clues. Assertive, barely contained sadism (I could sense that), and the nipple pinching move is always a good sign. Those are the girls a sub guy on the hunt has to follow up on. It can work. I am not just using shaky conjecture. I have had pretty good success following up on clues like those.

was it not said in the last thread you have been in a relationship for 7 years? how many clues have you followed up on?

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