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I finally found my Mistress! - 11/9/2010 7:33:06 PM

femdomlover72

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I have met the woman of my dreams and her name is Mistress Amber (MistressAmber84). I can't say it was through Collar Me that I met her, but since she is a member I figure it is okay. I met her back in September of 2010, and after a week of wonderful sessons she informed me that she had to move hundreds of miles away! I was so sad, but I decided she is worth the drive and I have visited her 4 times so far. Last week my dream came true and we got an apartment together. Unfortunately I can only stay on the weekends because of my job, but OMG I get to live with her! I have to admit though, I am new to BDSM and everything has moved so fast my head is spinning. I want to be the best slave that I can for her, but it is scary sometimes. I don't always know how to act. or what to expect. I have given her complete control of my life, and I hope that our relationship lasts a long time. Is there a place in the forum to get advice on how to be a better slave?

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RE: I finally found my Mistress! - 11/10/2010 5:31:09 AM

slavekal

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Congratulations. I guess all the complainers and naysayers are wrong. You did it!

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RE: I finally found my Mistress! - 11/10/2010 3:02:39 PM

CynthiaWVirginia

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Congratulations to the both of you, femdomlover72 and MistressAmber84.

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I am new to BDSM and everything has moved so fast my head is spinning. I want to be the best slave that I can for her, but it is scary sometimes. I don't always know how to act. or what to expect.

Just...tell her this.

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Is there a place in the forum to get advice on how to be a better slave?

Each of us is different. Be sure you are listening to your Mistress when she tells you what she wants and needs from you...I had some problems with a sub I was interested in who kept running everything I said through a filter. He had his own idea of what I wanted, and it spoke so loud to him that he couldn't hear what I was saying.

Reading about this is a good thing, just don't let anything you read put up walls between you and your Mistress. There are lots of non-porn BDSM books. Ask your Lady if she has any preference and if she would approve of your reading one.

The message boards have a search feature, if you want to look anything up to see what others have had to say on the subject. Warning, each thing you look up might have hundreds of possibilities going back several years. Maybe your search within the message boards can include recommended BDSM or M/s books.

For Search:
Look to the top of this page for a row of flags, over the first one is Search. Click it.

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RE: I finally found my Mistress! - 11/10/2010 8:02:52 PM

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Congratulations OP! It does seem a bit hasty to be moving in together if you correctly typed Sept 2010 ... but sometimes things just feel right. I hope they work out. Cynthia gave you great advice, follow it! The most important thing is to be the slave your Mistress wants you to be, so look to HER for guidance.
Best wishes
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