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DMFParadox -> RE: What do you think about salves paying tribute? (11/11/2010 6:43:15 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: poise Darn it DMF. I was hoping to be your first! I'll be satisfies with some of your 'shooping, tbh. I'd value that more than a check. Though I take checks, money orders, paypal, Amazon wish list fulfillment, llama-deliveries...

poise -> RE: What do you think about salves paying tribute? (11/11/2010 6:58:32 AM)
Shooping.....hmmmm. Does that have anything to do with oooops'ing? Help a girl out here please.[8D]

Hotch -> RE: What do you think about salves paying tribute? (11/11/2010 7:43:20 AM)
Nevermind

DMFParadox -> RE: What do you think about salves paying tribute? (11/11/2010 7:47:59 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: poise Shooping.....hmmmm. Does that have anything to do with oooops'ing? Help a girl out here please.[8D] Photoshopping.

poise -> RE: What do you think about salves paying tribute? (11/11/2010 8:01:42 AM)
Ahhh...I'd be happy to give you the infamous claw hand look if you would supply the picture. To the Op.....I don't waste much time thinking about how others enjoy themselves, unless I'm expected to play a role in their enjoyment. In which case I'd say no thank you. good morning Hotch...sorry I missed your comment..darn those neverminds!

txurinal -> RE: What do you think about salves paying tribute? (11/20/2010 9:04:17 AM)
As one who has seeked the services of professional Dommes (both male and female) i have no problem offfering tribute for their time

DommeKeliDallas -> RE: What do you think about salves paying tribute? (11/20/2010 5:51:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lizi I think if they want to pay then let them pay, if not then they shouldn't. I wouldn't do it myself and I might not understand someone who wants to do it, but it's so none of my business what other people choose to do. Why is it that all of the MEN on here who complain about the "tribute" are OLD, bloated, and unattractive?

DommeKeliDallas -> RE: What do you think about salves paying tribute? (11/20/2010 5:59:49 PM)
Thank you. FINALLY, a man who isn't wanting a free ride at my expense! ...and it isn't even CHRISTMAS! Thank you!

LadyConstanze -> RE: What do you think about salves paying tribute? (11/20/2010 6:00:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DegradedCreature From my own perspective, a spell checker is the first thing needed. Secondly this issue is something that I feel just makes me know if I was put in a situation where I had to pay tribute, I wouldn't be in the situation being submission isn't something I should have to pay for as when I find someone to serve,its something I truly give freely. But I suspose I see where the professional dominants are coming from, if these men just came about, open their wallets, and gave out the money, I would certainly take it myself. I just don't see why some slaves are desperate enough to pay money like this. Would you be willing to serve somebody freely in the capacity she or he wants you to serve? Or is serving for you something to get your rocks off and you want to "serve" in a way that is gratifying for you and the dominant partner should pretend to enjoy it? A professional dominant doesn't just take the money out of an open wallet, they do offer their time and expertise and the fulfill your kinks and then you are free to leave again and resume your life, without all the pesky little things you have to do in a lifestyle relationship, like being available when the dominant partner wants you to be, doing stuff you really don't want to do, etc. Plus they have the equipment, the facilities and the outfits to make your fantasy as real as possible, all those things don't come cheap or free... Just a thought...

LanceHughes -> RE: What do you think about salves paying tribute? (11/20/2010 6:29:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: txurinal As one who has seeked the services of professional Dommes (both male and female) i have no problem offfering tribute for their time You might have misunderstood. IMO, a Dom/me exchanges money for services / time. IMO, "tribute" is freely given (by the sub / slave) without expectation of service / time. Think "tribute" to the Roman Emperor from conquered lands. In that instance, a bribe to not invade. Tribute is given as a sign of respect without expectation of reward or anything else. Payment to a Pro.... expected on both sides - a business arrangment. And that is what the OP is asking? Why would anyone just give money / gifts to a person they have not rec'd anything from? We have donations to churches and charitable organizations, so the OP is basically asking why would anyone donate to a charity? Well, obviously, the anaology breaks down..... Again, IMO, txurinal, you misunderstood. [And now you have C-Mail with a little further discussion.]

txurinal -> RE: What do you think about salves paying tribute? (11/21/2010 9:50:09 AM)
MASTER LANCEHUGHES has pointed out to me my ignorance of the terms payment and tribute. Payment is for services rendered and tribute is a gift with no expectation of anything in return. What i should have said is that i have paid for time spent with Pro Dominants. Despite the fact that it is a "business" arrangement, i have always conducted myself properly in their presence and have always treated them with the respect they and their position deserve from the likes of me

submittous -> RE: What do you think about salves paying tribute? (11/21/2010 1:38:46 PM)
Money, like almost everything around us can be part of someone's sexuality. Giving gifts, cash etc can be really important in how some people feel about themselves and the person their giving to.... seems to me it's their sexuality and they probably know what they need better than I do. As a Dom/me couple whose main interest in TPE M/s we would accept and usually expect total conrol of a slaves money just like everything else in their life but money isn't really a focus of our sexuality, power and control are.

Awareness -> RE: What do you think about salves paying tribute? (11/21/2010 9:28:16 PM)
I think it's the grubby entry of commerce into interpersonal relations. Basically these 'financial dommes' are whores. Nothing more, nothing less.

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