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MissAsylum -> Things in the scene you wonder about.... (11/10/2010 1:53:24 PM)
Feel free to add questions that you have about the bdsm lifestyle that you may have gathered over the years. Not meant to be taken seriously.[8D] "No strings attached housework", is just that: no strings attached housework....right? Then why do people ask for playtime-like activities in exchange? Why complain about there not being any real slaves/Dom(mes) if you've only been here a week? So if a male claims to want to be changed/forced into a woman, why does it have to be a slutty caricature? Why not a classy figure of femininity? If a submissive (particularly female) goes to meet with a Dom, why is it typically assumed they have to have sex immediately? Do I really have to have sex with you if you paid for a foot worship session?[8D] How am I a prostitute if I don't have penetrative/oral sex acts with my clients? How can cheating on your vanilla partner(i.e.-they don't know and its assumed you are being faithful) with somebody involved in the BDSM scene be considered justifiable, just because your vanilla partner doesn't want to participate in certain activities? so there are my questions. Add your own! ETA: 8. Penis pictures. Need i say more?

LinnaeaBorealis -> RE: Things in the scene you wonder about.... (11/10/2010 2:08:25 PM)
I'm not sure that I have anything to add to these just now. You've covered it pretty well, MissA. Thanks for the laugh!!!

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Things in the scene you wonder about.... (11/10/2010 2:37:24 PM)
Oh #3 is epic!! Why do they never want to look like Grace Kelly, always Slutty McHooker!

soul2share -> RE: Things in the scene you wonder about.... (11/10/2010 3:50:19 PM)
Oh yeah, I've often wondered about #4. It sort of goes along with why are subs expected to call someone by "sir" or "master" from the first communication? Sorry, I'm not doing either!

ShaharThorne -> RE: Things in the scene you wonder about.... (11/10/2010 4:16:19 PM)
#3 has me up in arms a bit. The two subs I had would to be slutty but I want them to like educated ladies. I finally realize that they were Do Me and I was glad of it. I am not stressed out and my clothes are in good shape (they tend to attack my closet). I decided that I will not search for man to female. I prefer being friends first foremost. I will not respond to CM of people who wants to change my beliefs.

MissAsylum -> RE: Things in the scene you wonder about.... (11/10/2010 5:49:28 PM)
Up in arms? In a bad way? quote: ORIGINAL: ShaharThorne #3 has me up in arms a bit. The two subs I had would to be slutty but I want them to like educated ladies. I finally realize that they were Do Me and I was glad of it. I am not stressed out and my clothes are in good shape (they tend to attack my closet). I decided that I will not search for man to female. I prefer being friends first foremost. I will not respond to CM of people who wants to change my beliefs.

ShaharThorne -> RE: Things in the scene you wonder about.... (11/10/2010 6:20:37 PM)
#1 was a meth head. I would give him the money for rent and never tell me that he blew it on drugs, so my credit is shot. Of course he was doing sex sites and plead how he did not realize that they were that way. Divorced his ass after I finally got the nuts to do so. #2 was okay with me, but he wanted to share me without consenting me. The last time that happened, it slipped into a PTSD episode. I was not able to sleep for over a week and I upped my dosage on some pills when he thought that I was trying to kill myself...I just wanted some sleep. Mom took me in and got me on some meds and going to MHMR here in town. I don't have contact with anyone at this time. #2 wants me to come down, but it is tiring. I refuse to work TV/TG groups. I love to be in a group or 2 in the Austin area when I am down there. I do have a LD friendship going on and it is good for me.. (if we ever meet, we can figure out who is top). Things are fine with me. I just don't want a relationship at this time and I do get some CM mail off and on. Usually I delete them unless it is someone I know from the forums.

DarkSteven -> RE: Things in the scene you wonder about.... (11/10/2010 6:23:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MissAsylum ETA: 8. Penis pictures. Need i say more? I appreciate your request, MissA, and I'll do my best. Please be understanding of the fact that I am so well endowed that my cock pics exceed the collarme size limit for pics, so that sending them to you will not be easy.

MissAsylum -> RE: Things in the scene you wonder about.... (11/11/2010 3:43:33 AM)
oh dear. i understand the pills and just wanting to sleep. but i am so glad things are going better for you.

MissAsylum -> RE: Things in the scene you wonder about.... (11/11/2010 3:46:39 AM)
surprisingly, you would be the first male dominant to send me unsolicited penis pictures. i wish i had a trophy or something to give you lol

ShaharThorne -> RE: Things in the scene you wonder about.... (11/11/2010 4:02:13 AM)
trying not to laugh because I am eating a banana DS...you made me choke on my banana!!! you slut you

MissAsylum -> RE: Things in the scene you wonder about.... (11/11/2010 4:48:42 AM)
Pot, meet kettle. lol quote: ORIGINAL: ShaharThorne trying not to laugh because I am eating a banana DS...you made me choke on my banana!!! you slut you

DarkSteven -> RE: Things in the scene you wonder about.... (11/11/2010 5:50:26 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MissAsylum surprisingly, you would be the first male dominant to send me unsolicited penis pictures. i wish i had a trophy or something to give you lol There's a question of just how "unsolicited" it is at this point, but it's on its way to you. [8D] quote: ORIGINAL: ShaharThorne trying not to laugh because I am eating a banana DS...you made me choke on my banana!!! you slut you Hey, if eating a banana does it for you...

JerseyKrissi72 -> RE: Things in the scene you wonder about.... (11/11/2010 5:51:35 AM)
I can not begin to tell you how many "Doms" expect you to put out in less than an hour of meeting them[:@] That is not being Dom, that is being a slut

MissAsylum -> RE: Things in the scene you wonder about.... (11/11/2010 7:12:28 AM)
I thought as a female dominant I had it bad. I have a friend here who is submissive, she went to meet with a "Dom" and she told me that it was in 15 minutes that he was trying to direct her to give him a blow job. I'm glad i was her safety call that day.

LinnaeaBorealis -> RE: Things in the scene you wonder about.... (11/11/2010 7:38:48 AM)
Ok, I got one: Why do male dominants make a mad rush at a female submissive, telling them how much they have in common, how excited they are to take this further, only to disappear a few days later??? And before the actual meeting that they kept pushing for. WTF????

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Things in the scene you wonder about.... (11/11/2010 8:45:40 AM)
Male subs do that too!! Miss A, Steven doesn't need a trophy, just send cookies :)

Madame4a -> RE: Things in the scene you wonder about.... (11/11/2010 8:47:40 AM)
Sometimes.. I see people dressed a certain way or in a certain outfit and I wonder.. "Is that punishment? ... or a kink? or WTF?"

LinnaeaBorealis -> RE: Things in the scene you wonder about.... (11/11/2010 9:07:46 AM)
So Miss Hib, maybe this is just a guy thing?

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Things in the scene you wonder about.... (11/11/2010 9:09:19 AM)
It's prolly just a FLAKE thing , and not gender related at all!

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