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RE: Bathroom Rules - 4/27/2006 7:47:00 PM

ownedgirlie

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The house rules are , If I am here she must ask permission before going to the bathroom. Plain simple no fuss no muss, lol., except for one night about 3 am apparently she had been lying there for awhile trying not to wet herself debating
Do I just go and and try and explain later or
Do I wake him and ask

She didn't seem as amused as I when I suggested neither, just go where you lay.
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~chuckles~ been there, done that.

Once I joked about not having a pot to piss in. Guess what....?

I agree with Mr Discipline & Playful. The reason is, because He wants it. It is very place-putting.

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RE: Bathroom Rules - 4/27/2006 7:58:44 PM

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I used to have bathroom rules. I would have to ask if i could please use the bathroom Master and also was not allowed to close the door. His reasoning was i was his slave, that meant no privacy for me. Also would have to clean him after he went.

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RE: Bathroom Rules - 4/27/2006 8:17:13 PM

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ORIGINAL: PlayfulOne

The house rules are , If I am here she must ask permission before going to the bathroom. Plain simple no fuss no muss, lol., except for one night about 3 am apparently she had been lying there for awhile trying not to wet herself debating
Do I just go and and try and explain later or
Do I wake him and ask

She didn't seem as amused as I when I suggested neither, just go where you lay.
Thoughts,

K

..LOL...maybe cherished one should then of just laid on you and went..(grin)..Tempting

chuckles, now tempting do you really think that would have been the "best" choice

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RE: Bathroom Rules - 4/27/2006 8:29:12 PM

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Ok, Iam now missing the point...

What turn on is it to micro-manage someone's life like that? I dont get it.

I can see the need to ask permission to leave... but bathroom? does she also need your permission and approval to eat? drink?

after all, if you're acting the doorman, at one end, shouldnt you guard the other as well?

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RE: Bathroom Rules - 4/27/2006 8:31:05 PM

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You're right. You are missing the point. It is about exercising control. About humiliation. About the submissive/slave feeling his power. It is about so much more than the act itself...much like many other BDSM activities.

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RE: Bathroom Rules - 4/27/2006 8:36:16 PM

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Absolutely ownedgirlie..it's all about the control, the power, the humiliation ~smiles~

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RE: Bathroom Rules - 4/27/2006 8:45:43 PM

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personally, i've never used this method but it's one in the consideration bag. i generally tend to not want to know about bathroom needs.

the future is always open to variation, though.

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RE: Bathroom Rules - 4/27/2006 8:48:27 PM

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ORIGINAL: WeeIttyBitty

Ok, Iam now missing the point...

What turn on is it to micro-manage someone's life like that? I dont get it.

I can see the need to ask permission to leave... but bathroom? does she also need your permission and approval to eat? drink?

after all, if you're acting the doorman, at one end, shouldnt you guard the other as well?

you miss the pont of Power Exchange?

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RE: Bathroom Rules - 4/27/2006 8:51:39 PM

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Playfulone,

Straight as I am, I'm jealous of Yours. She's a lucky one.

Yours,

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RE: Bathroom Rules - 4/27/2006 8:53:13 PM

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I guess we can't expect everyone to "get it"

One of those"you'd have to be there" sorts of things.

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RE: Bathroom Rules - 4/27/2006 8:55:41 PM

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And embarrassing, and humiliating, and the lack of privacy....

Personally it's taken me a Real long time to be able to pee with someone watching. I'm too private to enjoy that. Except that losing that kind of privacy is kind of enjoyable. LOL

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RE: Bathroom Rules - 4/27/2006 8:59:32 PM

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I think that, depending on the person's plumbing, it could be quite....frustrating...to have this rule at night, or if one works out of the home.

I mean, it's something that I think is a good way to reinforce control when one is at home with one's owner, but when one is at work, or during the night, it seems that it's not super practical and could cause problems.

This is coming from someone with chronic UTI's though, and medication that make it -necessary- for her to drink copious amounts of water during the day.

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RE: Bathroom Rules - 4/27/2006 9:02:11 PM

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Its just funny that someone who claims to be into long term confinemnt and chasity would scratch his head over this "micro managing". He doesn't think anyone is controlling his bathroom gioings were he to be locked up for hours?

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RE: Bathroom Rules - 4/27/2006 9:03:58 PM

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Gets benji a big box of treats

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RE: Bathroom Rules - 4/27/2006 9:05:25 PM

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Pardon me?

Wherever did you get that,and who were you reffering to?

edited to add "never mind,I see you hit the wrong reply button"

And people bitching about back up's and uti'S?

Playful DID say she only has to ask when he is THERE.

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RE: Bathroom Rules - 4/27/2006 9:16:08 PM

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Reasonable,

You had mentinoed the some dont get it, and I was making a response about the one who claims not to get it.. I did see you actually noticed the wneh I am there part. others seem to have missed

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RE: Bathroom Rules - 4/27/2006 9:27:57 PM

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Sassy I could always go pee but I am shyer about pooping, pooping is a stinky personal thing for me. but when I have to pee my bf follows me into the potty and I play with him, or just talk to him quickly finish up wash n go on like normal.

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And embarrassing, and humiliating, and the lack of privacy....

Personally it's taken me a Real long time to be able to pee with someone watching. I'm too private to enjoy that. Except that losing that kind of privacy is kind of enjoyable. LOL

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RE: Bathroom Rules - 4/27/2006 9:40:09 PM

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Thanks for clearing the confusion up.
And yes, I pay attention to details-and ask for clarification before popping off like an utter twit.... (usually

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I'll give an example of how I used to do this. And why details mattered. I had a girl at one time here who had this slave fixation that would not stop. Lot's of theory,lots of posturing-no experience. I knew I had my work cut out for me when she boldly stated that she had no limits-whatsoever.

I replied that that was very kind of her-but that I preffered not to snuff, fold,spindle or otherwise mutilate her.

Standing hands on hips, I see her face darken with the "You aren't a dom" expression". And she turns to go to the bathroom.

"Where are you going?" I say. "To the can to pee,you want to watch or something "?,she replied.(knew me too well by now)

"Not yet"

"WHATT????"

" I said not yet,are you deaf?" ..."and leave the door open,when you do,after you ask permission." She began sputtering,so I just had to play the pride card with her.

"Real slaves do as they are told....."(put your money where your mouth is girlie) So she stands there at the bathroom door,glowering at me............but doesn't go in.and yet,refuses to ask....I smile, and go down to work in the shop for a while.

Some two hours later,this desperately dancing little creature is at my shoulder......"um um sir,I need to go to the bathroom..."

"Not yet,wait until I go on break." She blushes,says nothing and keeps dancing-but she doesn't leave either.

"Your'e distracting me,I'll be up in half an hour."

Angry look at me ,she blurts out............"And what if I just go anyhow?" (ahh,reactance now we have some fun,my sense of humor is aroused)

"That,Depends." ( I grab a white trash bag I was going to use for clean up from the workbench,and crackle the plastic theatrically between my fingers.......this girl has seen the entire toy room-she knows I have a *case* of medium diapers in there,and some are missing

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The shop is suddenly very quiet and empty one more. I finish the job,and go upstairs.....by the bathroom door again,she's turning all sorts of interesting colors..I just say "go then."

It takes her a long, long time......

maybe I'll say more later,maybe not

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RE: Bathroom Rules - 4/27/2006 9:46:17 PM

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Yes be careful of UTI's having a sick slave due to the fact she was afraid to go to the bathroom seems more then harsh or sadistic, it could be dangerous.

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RE: Bathroom Rules - 4/27/2006 9:48:20 PM

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Reasonable,

You had mentinoed the some dont get it, and I was making a response about the one who claims not to get it.. I did see you actually noticed the wneh I am there part. others seem to have missed

K

Didn't miss it, just was commenting on the other's who had made broader comments.

Again, like I said, take my reaction with a grain of salt, I'm especially sensitve in this area.

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