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subcoupleNH -> Bondage parties (11/10/2010 4:25:33 PM)
Do a lot of female slaves go to bondage parties with doms that are not their husband? I was told a lot of "couples" at bondage parties are married but not to each other.

frazzle -> RE: Bondage parties (11/10/2010 5:20:05 PM)
The answer is probably Yes, as not every slave/sub is married to their Dom/Master. As to, if some are in poly relationships, you'd have to ask the individuals involved.

pinkieblue -> RE: Bondage parties (11/10/2010 6:19:35 PM)
You're asking a very broad generalized question that has a very broad generalized answer. You'd get better results if you took a poll at these parties.

subcoupleNH -> RE: Bondage parties (11/11/2010 2:57:56 AM)
At the party we went to it seems to be common. I was wondering if it is in other areas of the country.

Madame4a -> RE: Bondage parties (11/11/2010 6:47:12 AM)
How would you know? I don't ask, or assume anyone's relationship status but my own. It none of my business, or anyone else's unless they are involved with the person. By "bondage party" do you mean a general play party in a dungeon? If not, perhaps bondage brings out the nosey married people doing things with people other than their spouses? Now.. that's really the question.. is THAT true?[;)]

MollyTroubletail -> RE: Bondage parties (11/11/2010 7:02:04 AM)
Yes. It's extremely common for people to have Doms or subs and be married to other people.

subcoupleNH -> RE: Bondage parties (11/11/2010 8:20:20 AM)
there are times i get to talk to other people i was told i am lucky to have a husband like mine because they said they were married to a guy not interested and came with someone else

DesFIP -> RE: Bondage parties (11/11/2010 10:22:43 AM)
It's also not uncommon for people to play with friends while their spouse plays with someone else or just socializes.

subcoupleNH -> RE: Bondage parties (11/11/2010 8:18:40 PM)
our friends are not into any wild sex

BurntKitty -> RE: Bondage parties (11/11/2010 8:39:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: subcoupleNH our friends are not into any wild sex That could explain it. The dungeon/play parties I attend doesn't allow sex/penetration there. Are you attending a private party then?

subcoupleNH -> RE: Bondage parties (11/12/2010 7:51:57 PM)
the bondage night clubs have limits but your right at the private parties pretty anything goes

BambiBoi -> RE: Bondage parties (11/12/2010 9:30:34 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: subcoupleNH Do a lot of female slaves go to bondage parties with doms that are not their husband? I was told a lot of "couples" at bondage parties are married but not to each other. Lots of married couples come to the realization that one person can't be the other person's everything. To account for this, all sorts of relationships get formed. Whether it's sex or bondage is really irrelevant. Many people are open with their partner about the lifestyle. Many people lie. As a matter of rhetoric, does it matter if the couple at a bondage party is married, collared, or dating?

BurntKitty -> RE: Bondage parties (11/12/2010 10:45:44 PM)
I prefer the play parties at dungeons, as I'm not into casual sex. "Casual pain", yes. I know, I may be an odd bird here, but I want to find a compatible sadist before a lover.

BambiBoi -> RE: Bondage parties (11/12/2010 10:54:45 PM)
I should specify.. I come under a lot of fire for bunking sex and bondage and pain all together. When the issue is "married people playing without the spouse" I don't think the act is any excuse. Either the person is lying (flat out or by omission) or is honest. If they are being deceitful to their spouse, its all infidelity. If the arrangement is honest, then the act doesn't really matter: Go get whatever jollies you want.

subcoupleNH -> RE: Bondage parties (11/15/2010 7:49:33 AM)
yes we have been to parties but mostly watched thank you bambi for your comment

Kana -> RE: Bondage parties (11/15/2010 7:52:18 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: subcoupleNH Do a lot of female slaves go to bondage parties with doms that are not their husband? I was told a lot of "couples" at bondage parties are married but not to each other. Hmmm, in general, I file that one under the "None of my business" category.

DesFIP -> RE: Bondage parties (11/15/2010 8:39:14 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: subcoupleNH our friends are not into any wild sex So you're going to these parties and having wild sex with people, yet you don't talk to them before or after and developing any friends with the other people there? Odd.

subcoupleNH -> RE: Bondage parties (11/15/2010 9:24:46 AM)
i talk with some of the gals and hubby with some of the guys we are not having sex there well yet anyway

daddysprop247 -> RE: Bondage parties (11/15/2010 10:09:24 AM)
wow i feel sheltered...i have never even heard of a bondage party, lol.

AnimusRex -> RE: Bondage parties (11/15/2010 8:52:13 PM)
It happens quite a bit, maybe because for married folks, playing at a club is their only outlet, since they have a spouse at home. I don't know any ratios, but it is common enough that the question ("is that your legally wedded spouse you are sodomizing?" ) is not usually asked, out of tact.

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