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TexasMaam -> RE: Hitachi or Eroscillator etc. for anorgasmic girl? (12/5/2010 11:43:44 AM)
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Your inability to orgasm is not a lifetime verdict! It’s a journey of self discovery. Don't get discouraged. Give yourself the time and experience to learn about your own needs.
I had spent most of My adult sex life with the 'average' American or European male, had always enjoyed sex and had always gotten aroused but for years never had an orgasm during sex. I could climax from clitoral stimulation on my own, masturbating in a particular way, but never had a vaginally stimulated orgasm during sex. There's a difference.
I still remember the first man I ever had sex with whose penile girth nearly made Me faint. He was about 15 inches long and larger in circumference than a beer bottle; when he took off his pants and that schlong fell out, I gasped at the thought of shoving that thing into Me... how would I ever manage?
We took it slow that night, and when I was ready he eased, rather than shoved, his cock into Me. As he stiffened and grew harder and even more voluminous inside of Me, I suddenly realized I could 'feel' the blood pulsating along the veins of his cock. With each and every withdrawal and slow thrust he 'pushed' my uterus further and further back, gently stretching My vagina along with him like an accordion. It took my breath away! I kept feeling as though I would pass out.
At last, when My vagina would stretch no further, he began to rhythmically stroke with the head of his cock beneath and beyond My cervix, every backstroke pulling the head of his uncircumcised cock down along the backside of My uterus, and Oh God Stop the Stars in the Skyyyyyyy 'WHAM'!
I was reeling at the peak of frustration when the sensation started like a low rumble, a quiver, a shake, that finally shook Me so hard it felt like an earthquake - but it was a "Me" quake! I was the one shuddering and shaking, not the planet! The climax was shattering, physically, emotionally, and psychologically. I cried out blindly and began sobbing, melting into his arms like a silver puddle of 'Odo' on Deep Space Nine metamorphed into a pool of silver in a bucket. There was nothing left of Me, only time, and space, and the world stopped spinning right there for one long, infinitely endless moment.
I was 27. I had been sexually active since I was, well, much too young. It took me well over twelve years to have that kind of orgasm.
We enjoyed a hot, heavy, headspinning affair after that, until it finally fell apart for many reasons.
After that, I was happy to learn that the sensitivity I discovered with him was JUST as viable with a man blessed with a much smaller penis, I just had to learn to coach, encourage or teach a new mate *where* to find My G spot.
I'm thrilled to report that I never had to teach manthing where that G spot is, he always knew how to find it, and he's not 13-15 inches by 6 inches in circumference, either. He can get Me off with a finger anytime he's in the mood and he can reach My G spot with his cock every time we’re intimate, so NO, it's not about size, it's not even about love, it's about circumstance. In my case it took an experience with man of size who knew how to gently stretch the vagina until he ‘found’ a G spot. Not all men know how, or where to find YOUR G Spot, nor do they know how gently or forcefully to apply pressure to it to get you off. I was lucky to stumble across a man who knew these things.
I can't tell you where that G spot is in your anatomy, or what it will take for you to find it, but you will.
Experiment. I suggest you buy some ben wa balls, wear them, follow some online instructions (they are even on You tube), work on kegel exercises, perhaps buy an outrageously long, large, or wide dildo and just experiment.
Hitachis, Eroscillators, or lickin’ lizards are really not as important as a man who can use his hands and his cock to find your G Spot and then set about satiating you with the right phallic implement of orgasmic destruction.
Find your G spot, alone or with a ‘friend’. Find a mate who is willing to take the time to probe, using his hands, and different dildos, not just his cock, until he finds that nerve ending to do the trick.
From there, all you’ll have to do is relax and have fun! (and maybe train a guy now and then…..)
All the best,
Texas Maam
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