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BoredandUnamused -> RE: A "hint" for Doms looking for subs... (5/2/2006 8:11:59 PM)
Ok here is one for the Doms, You go into a book store, look at the fronts of the books and pick one that looks nice. Without reading the back of it, or the preface, or any of the chapters, you assume the book is a murder mystery, set in England in the 1950's and that the secret gay lover killed the wife of the butcher. You also assume the age sex, sexual preference, nationality, and where the auther grew up. Of course your almost certainly going to be wrong about just about everything arn't you? The same goes for Doms that don't get to know subs, don't read their profiles, don't try to find out their interests etc. Read the book before you try to read the ending!!!

Vancouver_cinful -> RE: A "hint" for Doms looking for subs... (5/2/2006 8:18:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BoredandUnamused Ok here is one for the Doms, You go into a book store, look at the fronts of the books and pick one that looks nice. Without reading the back of it, or the preface, or any of the chapters, you assume the book is a murder mystery, set in England in the 1950's and that the secret gay lover killed the wife of the butcher. You also assume the age sex, sexual preference, nationality, and where the auther grew up. Of course your almost certainly going to be wrong about just about everything arn't you? The same goes for Doms that don't get to know subs, don't read their profiles, don't try to find out their interests etc. Read the book before you try to read the ending!!! I think that's human nature...We've become an instant gratification society. We'd all do well to take our time and put more thought into how we interact with other people. Cin

LOTUS3 -> RE: A "hint" for Doms looking for subs... (5/3/2006 12:04:21 AM)
My , Papa , who is not my Dom anymore , but I cannot call him anything other than that , took all measures to find out EVERY single little thing about me .. he is a wonderful man... Namaste' Lotus[:)]

Surrendering2u -> RE: A "hint" for Doms looking for subs... (5/3/2006 9:16:37 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: givemyall Sounds too damn hawt to me - im not used to the sun!..... burnt bits ouch lol quote: ORIGINAL: Surrendering2u quote: ORIGINAL: givemyall Don't tell me that you going to give me a patch in your backyard in Texas, so I can grow flowers - naked gardening is not something I want to hear about in the first email [/quote well it may not make a good first e-mail still sounds really Hawt lol] well let me rub the deep tanning oil on for you <evil grin >

givemyall -> RE: A "hint" for Doms looking for subs... (5/3/2006 9:22:33 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Surrendering2u well let me rub the deep tanning oil on for you <evil grin > Ohhh behave! You will have me blushing lol

midnitegirluk -> RE: A "hint" for Doms looking for subs... (5/3/2006 9:57:35 AM)
Well me being very new here, I finally got chance to catch up emails, and already 1 Invite from a master wanting to move in with me and suggested this weekend was as good as time as any, and also 2 replys asking if i wanted Spanking or Collarring. Nice to be direct, but if my profile was read, it would have stated I wasn't looking.

givemyall -> RE: A "hint" for Doms looking for subs... (5/3/2006 3:21:58 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: midnitegirluk Well me being very new here, I finally got chance to catch up emails, and already 1 Invite from a master wanting to move in with me and suggested this weekend was as good as time as any, and also 2 replys asking if i wanted Spanking or Collarring. Nice to be direct, but if my profile was read, it would have stated I wasn't looking. Give it time and you will get the full set lol. Within 5 weeks of joining I got just under 3000 messages (yes thats thousand) - The majority were from lovely people and I have remained on speaking/friendly terms with most of them - a quick hello, here and there and sometimes a lovely long conversation when time allows..... however I did also get lots of messages that within the first line of opening, I knew that they were going to be full of shite. I made the choice to put the messages into my journal in a humorous manner - it stopped me getting ratty to laugh at them instead. Everyone has different ways of dealing with them - I guess the ideal way would be the delete button! But have fun with them - you have got to laugh! Claire

Surrendering2u -> RE: A "hint" for Doms looking for subs... (5/4/2006 10:08:37 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: givemyall quote: ORIGINAL: midnitegirluk Well me being very new here, I finally got chance to catch up emails, and already 1 Invite from a master wanting to move in with me and suggested this weekend was as good as time as any, and also 2 replys asking if i wanted Spanking or Collarring. Nice to be direct, but if my profile was read, it would have stated I wasn't looking. Give it time and you will get the full set lol. Within 5 weeks of joining I got just under 3000 messages (yes thats thousand) - The majority were from lovely people and I have remained on speaking/friendly terms with most of them - a quick hello, here and there and sometimes a lovely long conversation when time allows..... however I did also get lots of messages that within the first line of opening, I knew that they were going to be full of shite. I made the choice to put the messages into my journal in a humorous manner - it stopped me getting ratty to laugh at them instead. Everyone has different ways of dealing with them - I guess the ideal way would be the delete button! But have fun with them - you have got to laugh! Claire Hmmm maybe i could be Mr 3001 ? should i even go there .... what would be the key line <thinking> talk about the women that has everything lol .....maybe iam just one more weed in her garden better e-mail that guy back tell him your gone to need more then a patch of land you have alot of weeds growing .....

Surrendering2u -> RE: A "hint" for Doms looking for subs... (5/4/2006 10:57:37 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: midnitegirluk Well me being very new here, I finally got chance to catch up emails, and already 1 Invite from a master wanting to move in with me and suggested this weekend was as good as time as any, and also 2 replys asking if i wanted Spanking or Collarring. Nice to be direct, but if my profile was read, it would have stated I wasn't looking. Ohhh my i have seen your profile and pic's your looking you just have not seen what you want is more like it stop lieing too yourself get real and maybe you will find what you truely seek!!!! and a few trips to the gym prolly wont hurt give you a nice brake from all them e-mails ....

midnitegirluk -> RE: A "hint" for Doms looking for subs... (5/4/2006 11:07:31 AM)
Actually I go to the Gym twice a week and swim 3 times a week, Yes I am overweight and guess what, its not due to over-eating, I do have a couple of medical problems which I have to take a lot of medication for and they dont help. Just to set things straight.

givemyall -> RE: A "hint" for Doms looking for subs... (5/4/2006 11:33:55 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Surrendering2u Hmmm maybe i could be Mr 3001 ? should i even go there .... what would be the key line <thinking> talk about the women that has everything lol .....maybe iam just one more weed in her garden better e-mail that guy back tell him your gone to need more then a patch of land you have alot of weeds growing ..... lol I love it - I should have copied that email for you, it was absolutely amazing lol..... Im reading my gardening books as soon as I have finished this lol

Surrendering2u -> RE: A "hint" for Doms looking for subs... (5/4/2006 1:05:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: midnitegirluk Actually I go to the Gym twice a week and swim 3 times a week, Yes I am overweight and guess what, its not due to over-eating, I do have a couple of medical problems which I have to take a lot of medication for and they dont help. Just to set things straight. well i can see you did not cover the looking part .... and just jumped on the overweight band wagon so we can see what is the truth DONT TELL PEOPLE YOUR NOT LOOKING when you are !!!

midnitegirluk -> RE: A "hint" for Doms looking for subs... (5/4/2006 3:24:19 PM)
I didn't say I was looking and even in my profile I don't say I am looking at all, What i do say Is, ''IF I were looking''..but I am looking for friends, But there again its all there in my profile. I haven't lied about anything.

Vancouver_cinful -> RE: A "hint" for Doms looking for subs... (5/4/2006 3:35:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Surrendering2u and a few trips to the gym prolly wont hurt give you a nice brake from all them e-mails .... You know, that's at least twice now you've made adolescent comments about a woman's weight in this thread. Grow up; this isn't high school. If you don't like large women then my guess is lucky thing...for them. So you think fat chicks are ugly? Fine. Just shut up about it, it's rude and ignorant and makes you look like you're about 15 years old. Cin

Vancouver_cinful -> RE: A "hint" for Doms looking for subs... (5/4/2006 3:39:09 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: midnitegirluk Actually I go to the Gym twice a week and swim 3 times a week, Yes I am overweight and guess what, its not due to over-eating, I do have a couple of medical problems which I have to take a lot of medication for and they dont help. Just to set things straight. Your photos are gorgeous. Do NOT explain yourself to him, he isn't worth it if he thinks he has the right to make such ignorant comments. No one forced him to look at your photos, and no one appointed him judge and jury on who is beautiful and who isn't. Screw him. Cin

MistressWolfen -> RE: A "hint" for Doms looking for subs... (5/4/2006 3:50:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Surrendering2u Ohhh my i have seen your profile and pic's your looking you just have not seen what you want is more like it stop lieing too yourself get real and maybe you will find what you truely seek!!!! and a few trips to the gym prolly wont hurt give you a nice brake from all them e-mails .... My goodness, very very strong words of judgment; bordering on hateful and vicious. How unfortunate that you feel the need to unjustifiably attack someone that was sharing their experience and joining in the general community. May I ask if this was the welcome that you received from the people that frequent this forum? It certainly has not been my experience, rather sad that you have lowered the tone.

MistressWolfen -> RE: A "hint" for Doms looking for subs... (5/4/2006 3:52:13 PM)
Welcome to the site and the forums midnitegirluk, I just wanted to tell you that your picture is lovely and you look absolutely delish. lewd wink

MistressLove999 -> RE: A "hint" for Doms looking for subs... (5/4/2006 4:47:32 PM)
Hello mindnitegirluk, I hope and pray you don't let 1 man's imaturity scare you off. The fact that you are honest and brave enough to post a picture is awesome. Pick on me fool, I am 5'5 1/2"@ 170lbs, and damn sexy according to my husband (of 20 yrs). I still find the behaviour of some of these people sad. I will again post here a writing I found in my travels on the net, it can be gender changed to fit,,,,,,,,, the author is unknown, but hopefully some may learn & grow from it, and stop with the childishness! A Master A Man who displays sensitivity will be a Master who is sensitive to you. A Man who displays humility will be a Master who will show you respect. A Man who is not afraid to cry will be a Master who understands your tears. A Man who is quiet will be a Master who will hear your quietest whisper, A Man who knows fear will be a Master who will not leave you to face yours alone. A Man who will listen to a child will be a Master who will always work to understand your words. A Man who can stand alone will be a Master who will not crush you under His weight. A Man who controls Himself with ease will be a Master with the ability to control you in the same way. A Man who does not have to prove His point will be a Master with many worthwhile points to share. A Man who never makes demands will be a Master who treasures anything you give. A Man who doesn't run after you will be a Master you will never need to run away from. A Man who is calm will be a Master who can weather your storms. A Man who has walked the path to peace will be a Master able to guide you along that path. A Man who does not shout will be a Master who will never deafen you. A Man who knows Himself will be a Master who will have time to know you. A Man with an open mind will be a Master who never stops learning. A Man who never stops learning will be a Master who never stops growing. A Man who always seeks to be the best He can be for you is the only Man truly worthy of being called Master.

sublizzie -> RE: A "hint" for Doms looking for subs... (5/4/2006 4:53:27 PM)
"Do NOT explain yourself to him, he isn't worth it if he thinks he has the right to make such ignorant comments. No one forced him to look at your photos, and no one appointed him judge and jury on who is beautiful and who isn't. Screw him." But why would she want to?????

Vancouver_cinful -> RE: A "hint" for Doms looking for subs... (5/4/2006 5:38:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sublizzie quote: ORIGINAL: Vancouver_cinful "Do NOT explain yourself to him, he isn't worth it if he thinks he has the right to make such ignorant comments. No one forced him to look at your photos, and no one appointed him judge and jury on who is beautiful and who isn't. Screw him." But why would she want to????? ROFL Exactly. Some people are just too full of themselves. Cin

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