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In and out of hope - 11/14/2010 7:12:23 AM

PolyyCouple

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Is there any one that is a real female that isnt taken and here just to show it off.I thought this was a personals site not an im already taken look at me one????????

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RE: In and out of hope - 11/14/2010 7:51:54 AM

sunshinemiss

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quote:

ORIGINAL: PolyyCouple

Is there any one that is a real CHECK

female       CHECK

that isnt taken CHECK

and here just to show it off.       Not mutually exclusive.

I thought this was a personals site not an im already taken look at me one????????
   Whiner lover? Awww you were doing so well.

Good luck with your search.
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RE: In and out of hope - 11/14/2010 8:00:30 AM

DarkSteven

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Lemme get this straight. You joined a week ago and have a picture of some nature scene, and an almost-incoherent two line profile,and you expect to score a woman in that week who will overlook knowing nothing about you and is yet willing to become the third in an existing relationship?

Develop some patience, and expect to have to work for what you get. And know that the kinds of women you want are nicknamed unicorns because they are so rare, and the competition for them is fierce.

This is a social site. Some use it to look for soulmates, some for friends, and some just because their friends are here.

And a tip - whining about how hard life is doesn't help here, or much of anywhere else.

That said, welcome to collarme.

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RE: In and out of hope - 11/14/2010 8:16:47 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: PolyyCouple

Is there any one that is a real female that isnt taken and here just to show it off.I thought this was a personals site not an im already taken look at me one????????

Shows you how valuable preconceived thinking is.

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RE: In and out of hope - 11/14/2010 8:23:58 AM

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Welcome keep on the fidde!

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RE: In and out of hope - 11/14/2010 8:37:31 AM

Takeylarose

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Welcome and good luck..

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RE: In and out of hope - 11/14/2010 9:13:58 AM

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Is that "Never Meant To Belong" that you're playing?
Keep practicing, maybe you'll garner the attention of a music lover.

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RE: In and out of hope - 11/14/2010 9:48:41 AM

lizi

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Yikes...I've rarely seen an intro fail so spectacularly. If I were single and into poly I'd stay far far away from anything to do with this gigantic whinefest. You do know that potentials can see your forum postings from your profile...right? Way to represent yourselves

And way to go on projecting your own faulty reasoning out onto the submissive female population at large. Most of us taken subs aren't here to 'show off' ....

We might be here to communicate with friends or whatever. God, could you be any more nasty and negative?

This site exists for however the members elect to use it for the most part...use it for what you want and try not to make obnoxious and untrue generalizations about the other members and you might actually find what you are looking for. Use it to complain, accuse, and snivel, and you'll continue to be nonstop fail.

Lets start over shall we?

Me: Hi! Welcome to CM

PolyyCouple: Hey, great to be here. We'd like to find a female s type to add to our relationship. We enjoy movies and travel and have an interest in photography (stuff pulled from your profile). We can offer her some delicious gourmet meals (also from the profile) and long walks by burbling secluded streams (from your picture). We love long conversations by moonlight (pulled that out of my butt but hey...I'm extemporizing) while toasting marshmallows for smores (who doesn't love those?). We'd love to hear from you!

Next pull out the profanity and whining from the useless thing that is supposed to be your profile. Add some more detail as suggested by DarkSteven. Tell this prospective woman what you have to offer her and in general present a much better and more detailed picture than you have offered to date and you should be good to go...

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RE: In and out of hope - 11/14/2010 11:13:30 AM

January

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Hi welcome to CM.

You have a long road ahead of you.

You might want to look at the other profiles on this site, especially those of other couples looking for a third. Maybe you can compare yourself to these people, see what your competition is. And then, being empathetic, you can figure out why you aren't getting the response you want.

And to answer your question, I AM taken. I am here to participate on the boards. And no, I won't fuck myself.

January

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RE: In and out of hope - 11/14/2010 11:16:18 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: January
And no, I won't fuck myself.

January

If you change your mind on that, I want the video of it.

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RE: In and out of hope - 11/14/2010 11:18:25 AM

January

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You are naughty, Steven!

January

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RE: In and out of hope - 11/14/2010 11:20:10 AM

myotherself

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The profile says they're looking for a loving nun...

That's one pretty specific kink!

I'd say welcome, but my parents taught me that hypocrisy is as ugly as telling complete strangers to go fuck themselves.

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RE: In and out of hope - 11/14/2010 12:22:21 PM

VideoAdminTheta

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The show is over folks. Let's find some new entertainment.

Thank you!

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RE: In and out of hope - 11/14/2010 4:12:06 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: poise

Is that "Never Meant To Belong" that you're playing?
Keep practicing, maybe you'll garner the attention of a music lover.

Thanks for this post Poise! Interesting music!

To the OP (original poster): Good luck in your search!

< Message edited by hlen5 -- 11/14/2010 4:14:52 PM >

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RE: In and out of hope - 11/14/2010 4:19:48 PM

poise

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quote:

ORIGINAL: hlen5

quote:

ORIGINAL: poise

Is that "Never Meant To Belong" that you're playing?
Keep practicing, maybe you'll garner the attention of a music lover.

Thanks for this post Poise! Interesting music!

To the OP (original poster): Good luck in your search!