Phoenixandnika
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Joined: 4/22/2005
From: Aberdeen Maryland
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ORIGINAL: LadySonelle
I'm slimming and have been for two months. now. I began slimming as a Lenten discipline and now the results are showing!
I decided that if I was ordering My slaves to slim, then it was not fair that I'd not made a similar effort. All the reasons are the same: for health, for attractiveness, for ease of movement, but most importantly, for self discipline! A Dominant deals with power. How can one weild power over others when she cannot exercise it on herself? I am applying the basic tenets of BDSM to slimming. I *know* it works for slaves and submissives, because I earned My Old Guard leathers by interning for a year as a slave and a seciond year as an apprentice TopWoman before I could earn the right to wear leathers. My current effort has worked!
I've gone from 248 lbs down to 200 and have lost four or five inches from waist, two from hips and three from bust. I began with 10, then 20 and now 40 minutes on the treadmill at least three times a week, usually four, with an hour and a half of bicycle, bench presses, rowing machine, weight machine and elliptical trainer as well as floor exercises. I try for a minimum of 6 hours a week. Combined with this is dieting and taking Hoodia Gordonii.
Have others here used BDSM either to slim or to encourage your submissives to slim? Or have your Tops encouraged you subs and slaves to slim in this manner? What techniques work for you?
Lady Sonelle
First of all congrats on your weight loss.
I dont know if I would say it's using dominace for sliming but Phoenix does require I eat a certain way and maintain a certain amount of activity. When I deal with submissive or slaves in my collar I do the same. I am considered a BBW however, for me it is not because I do not eat healthy or excersice it is because of medication and other reason. I think often times people assume its the first and forget there can be other causes.
I am not sure forcing someone to loose weight is healthy or realistic. Someone has to want it like anything else. I have seen husbands call their wifes pigs, oink as they walked passed or entered a room with the idea that this would help them loose the weight.
I think it is a personal preference and one you should be honest about upfront. If you want a 100lb domme or submissive be honest but that doesn't mean you have to be cruel.
Sorry if I was rambeling.
Nika{Phoenix}
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..I don't need to lose weight..ppl say i need to gain weight (that's my granny UGH :P ), but I'm happy with myself..not too thin not too fat just..average..ok maybe slightly thinner but whateva..but I heard about this army training at gym..gosh I so want to go..they put the weight on discipline and just..um yes army atmosphere I SOOOOO wanna go but it starts 1 of may n i'm still in my finals
hope it will be again sometime later..
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