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RE: Bullshit rumors - 11/16/2010 8:50:49 PM

lickenforyou

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i wish someone would talk about me, good or bad.

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RE: Bullshit rumors - 11/16/2010 11:29:22 PM

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*pssssssssst I heard a rumor about licken..... He wants to change his screen name!*. Feel better now??

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RE: Bullshit rumors - 11/17/2010 3:14:40 PM

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ORIGINAL: Takeylarose

*pssssssssst I heard a rumor about licken..... He wants to change his screen name!*. Feel better now??

Thanks, Take

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RE: Bullshit rumors - 11/19/2010 2:13:03 PM

LadyHugs

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Langlady,

Life in general, is swarming with rumors. Because the BDSM/Lifestyle community is much smaller, they are amplified.

Deeds speak much louder than a bunch of rumors. If I was given a penny for every negative gossip mouth in the community, I would be really rich. The fact that you are a source of the rumors remains a sign that you are recognized for good or bad. How you behave has much to do with how these rumors will die a quiet death or have a life of their own.

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RE: Bullshit rumors - 11/19/2010 4:53:48 PM

Hillwilliam

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You've been here 12 whole days. How much of a clientelle could you have gained and lost in that time?

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RE: Bullshit rumors - 11/20/2010 10:19:11 AM

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The day the online nonsense carries more weight than people who know Me in real life, I'm hanging it up.

What the admirable LadyPact said!

I really, with all my little black heart, couldn't give a flying fuck what anyone that only knows me via the net, says or thinks about me.

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Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

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RE: Bullshit rumors - 11/20/2010 11:54:35 AM

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse
I really, with all my little black heart, couldn't give a flying fuck what anyone that only knows me via the net, says or thinks about me.

That's admirable, but I'm not as strong as you perhaps, or at least I'm not as successful at achieving the "couldn't give a flying fuck" part. Not long ago, someone I have never met made a post here that accused me of some things, and, instead of not caring, I had a negative emotional reaction to it. I realized that was unhealthy, so I stopped posting, or logging in, for a while. I think most people will care what online strangers think about them, especially if they invest a lot of their social interaction time on an online message board or chat room. For example, I bet I could make you smile by complimenting you. And yet, you and I have never met in real life, though I'll be driving by your place (yet again) in a couple days.

I think the best course of action is to steer clear of internet (and real life) drama, and to recognize when you are being drawn into it, and steer away double-quick then. "Don't care what they say," might be advice that almost nobody can follow, but, "Don't react to what others say," is something everyone can do.

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