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Dommes who ask for money - 11/18/2010 1:10:11 PM   
subjeremy2


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Status: offline 		has another one today, expecting me to send her money so I could see her photos, which she has probably stolen from someone else. I really don't know why these people bother with their con tricks and scams I suppose they must get some victim otherwise it wouldn't be worth their while but it does piss me off having to deal with them.
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RE: Dommes who ask for money - 11/18/2010 1:17:07 PM   
stef


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Status: offline 		Another day, another new thread whining about people who ask for money online.

*yawn*

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RE: Dommes who ask for money - 11/18/2010 1:18:45 PM   
LadyConstanze


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Status: offline 		Oh it's been a whole week without one of them threads....

Would you like me to forward you all the mails I get from idiots, admittedly not asking for money, but spamming me with laundry lists of what they want me to do to them, of course always for "my pleasure".... Would you be happier getting those?

As to having to deal with those mails, how so? I mean apart from using the block and delete feature that was generously provided for all of us?

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RE: Dommes who ask for money - 11/18/2010 1:38:04 PM   
jj292


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Status: offline 		Scam #9 - Requests for "tribute"
This scam is typically perpetrated by persons (male or female) claiming to be dominant women. Commonly, the scammer will claim that they are inundated with messages and that you need to send them a "tribute" (money) to prove your sincerity before they will speak with you further. Typically, but not always, they will request that you send the money via an Amazon Gift Certificate. Not uncommonly, once the money is received, the scammer will stop responding to messages or delete their account. So, before sending anyone 'tribute', remember that your only reward may be a lower bank balance.

http://www.collarme.com/personals/scammers.htm


Simple solution....just don't send money to people you don't know.

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RE: Dommes who ask for money - 11/18/2010 1:42:46 PM   
Jaybeee


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quote:

ORIGINAL: subjeremy2

has another one today, expecting me to send her money so I could see her photos, which she has probably stolen from someone else. I really don't know why these people bother with their con tricks and scams I suppose they must get some victim otherwise it wouldn't be worth their while but it does piss me off having to deal with them.


I've read a few of your posts and you strike me as the kind of nice polite guy that is targeted by these predators. Fellas, I KEEP telling you, the recession has turned millions of girls who dream of our cash into those active wallet-stalkers. Turn the scummy money-grubbing whore into the CM management and let them deal with it.

Or, you could take matters into your own hands, meet up with the little gold-digger, and see if she likes switching.

HARD. Medi-FUCKING-eval.


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RE: Dommes who ask for money - 11/18/2010 1:46:07 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		You don't have to deal with them.  Hit the "next" button on the profile page and it's finished.

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RE: Dommes who ask for money - 11/18/2010 4:03:28 PM   
LadyHugs


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Status: offline 		Subjeremy2,

Unfortunately, for decades the BDSM, D/s, M/s and or S&m community has had to deal with people who only think about the 'me' side of the interaction of the afore mentioned areas of 'kink'/'fetish'/alternative lifestyle choices.

Those who want to take the 'easy' way, will be as lazy in their efforts as they will in their practices of their scams.

I am of the opinion, that beginners/new folks are ripe for this type of scam, as they do not know better, being fed on Hollywood erotica and BDSM based fiction.

Like any 'act' that people see in the BDSM circles, the vanilla and wanna-bes don't see all the trust, communication, the 'training/discipline' that goes into a scene.  They also do not see that invisible line crossed going into a 'humiliation' scene and exiting of that 'humiliation' scene.  Unknown, is that in a real 'honest to goodness' relationship transends any financial gain and a truth bound relationship is priceless and or irreplacable.

Hopefully, those who stumble and clumsy ways, who really want to learn and or be a part of this larger community, will have someone with a kind soul, give them the real 'scoop' of what the lifestyle is all about--with its many flavors and varities.

Just some thoughts.

Respectfully,
Lady Hugs

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RE: Dommes who ask for money - 11/18/2010 4:19:32 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		how is it a con or a trick? She asked you for money for a service. You have the right to pay for that service or move along and find something else to spend your money on.

Ya know I'm seriously thinking I should become an online pro-domme. Seems pretty easy from all the posts here all the time.

Ask for tributes or money to see pics lifted from online porn sites and voila...instant money. I could use it right now.


< Message edited by littlewonder -- 11/18/2010 4:21:50 PM >

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RE: Dommes who ask for money - 11/18/2010 4:37:15 PM   
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RE: Dommes who ask for money - 11/18/2010 4:38:12 PM   
CerVeza


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Status: offline 		sure send them monopoly money! or bills with o'bama's picture on it.

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RE: Dommes who ask for money - 11/18/2010 8:06:09 PM   
FriendlyMuppet


Posts: 171
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From: Corpus Christi, Texas
Status: offline 		They do it because people respond to them and give them business. I really don't get bothered by them myself. Not my thing, but it might be somebody else's.

I do get a bit annoyed when someone I don't know emails me and acts interested, but then I discover it's just someone trying to convince me to send her money because that's all she does. But getting upset over it is really worthless, so I just delete the thread and go on with my life. There are so many other worse things to be concerned about than that sort of thing.

Like squirrels. Man, those things are scary.

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RE: Dommes who ask for money - 11/18/2010 8:08:06 PM   
UmbraDomina


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From: SE Michigan
Status: offline 		I ask for gold bars myself...... saves on that pesky monopoly money.............LOL


just joking....... unless someone has a few spare gold bars laying about they don't know what to do with....lol

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RE: Dommes who ask for money - 11/18/2010 8:12:45 PM   
FriendlyMuppet


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Status: offline 		I use my gold bars to throw at squirrels. Makes them run away faster.

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RE: Dommes who ask for money - 11/18/2010 8:16:31 PM   
dreamerdreaming


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Status: offline 		Wait- what?! People try to swindle other people online?

You're kidding, right?



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RE: Dommes who ask for money - 11/18/2010 8:37:42 PM   
Hillwilliam


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Status: offline 		Step 1. Read

Step 2. Ignore

Step 3. Go on to nicer people that you actually WANT to interact with

Repeat as necessary.

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RE: Dommes who ask for money - 11/18/2010 8:40:41 PM   
anniezz338


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Status: offline 		I agree with who said they are just looking for business. Times are tough for alot of people. And there are types that works just fine for.

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RE: Dommes who ask for money - 11/18/2010 9:35:03 PM   
subjeremy2


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Status: offline 		Interesting, I assume that the people who are bored by being told about fuckwits trying to rip people off have seen it all before and don't need telling or they are just plain ignorant, however other people may not be aware of the problem and even as you read this are planning to send money to someone who has no interest in them other than their money.

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RE: Dommes who ask for money - 11/18/2010 9:38:00 PM   
LadyPact


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RE: Dommes who ask for money - 11/18/2010 10:04:43 PM   
stef


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ORIGINAL: subjeremy2

Interesting, I assume that the people who are bored by being told about fuckwits trying to rip people off have seen it all before and don't need telling or they are just plain ignorant, however other people may not be aware of the problem and even as you read this are planning to send money to someone who has no interest in them other than their money.

In BIG RED LETTERS, above every email you read, it says DO NOT SEND MONEY TO OTHER USERS FOR ANY REASON! and below it is a link to common scams.  If people ignore a warning from the site itself, why would they heed the warning of some random user here with zero history and zero credibility?

Common sense.  Get some.

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RE: Dommes who ask for money - 11/19/2010 3:28:10 AM   
LadyConstanze


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quote:

ORIGINAL: subjeremy2

Interesting, I assume that the people who are bored by being told about fuckwits trying to rip people off have seen it all before and don't need telling or they are just plain ignorant, however other people may not be aware of the problem and even as you read this are planning to send money to someone who has no interest in them other than their money.



We don't want to read a threat about it every other week, and you are over 18 or you wouldn't be on this site, so I ask you who is ignorant? The people here who think it's A BAD IDEA to send money to strangers or somebody who will complain that somebody else might want to send money to them... If it helps, most of the guys who send money to them possibly also have no interest in the people they send money to, they just want their kink fulfilled (yeah, I know, that makes them so much better...)

If it is any consolidation, I have no interest in you, not even your money. I hope you sleep better now.


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