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LadyPact -> RE: forced bi (11/22/2010 11:50:20 AM)
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ORIGINAL: stiv2009
Are we to take it then, that any kind of confusion regarding sexual orientation - is merely a matter of immaturity? And that all mature people by definition have left all that behind? No-one questions their sexuality once they're over thirty?
And regarding the OP, what kind of timescale do you recommend for his "growing up"?
I'm not going to speak for Focus. Instead, I'm going to address this as someone who enjoys what many people term "forced" bi.
There is a difference between what could be labeled as confusion about their sexuality and their lack of acceptance of the same. The latter can be an absolute minefield if someone chooses to engage in this type of play physically and not be ready to handle it mentally or emotionally. This can result in guilt and self hatred issues if the person can't come to terms with the fact that they wanted or enjoyed a certain sexual act.
Often, the key word (forced) can cover those who want to engage in a certain play, but have not yet come to the point that they are willing to take the responsibility for their own desires. For someone like Me who enjoys introducing males to m/m activities, this category of folks are usually the ones that I avoid. If they should have negative emotions about the scene after the fact, as the "director" they may shift blame to Me, which isn't pretty. I'm much more likely to engage in such scenes with those who are bi in their own right, have come to the point of acceptance where it is more of an encouraged bi scenario, or those who are engaging in the activity due to obedience.
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