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Trouble getting there - 11/22/2010 1:49:09 PM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		Master and i have a wonderful relationship. We are very much in love. Something strange happend to me and i don't know why. Master never has any trouble getting me to climax. It seems if i am wearing my glasses though it is much harder for me to get there. I recently turned 41 and i have been wearing glasses since i was 35 so it is not something new. I don't know if it is physical or mental. I am thinking it is more mental because my glasses don't interfere with anything he is doing to me.

Does anyone else have a problem similar to this? I hope i am not the only one.

Matt's littleone
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RE: Trouble getting there - 11/22/2010 3:01:50 PM   
dreamerdreaming


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Status: offline 		Okay forgive me but have you isolated the problem to the point where you're sure there's a causal relationship there?

If you don't cum, but you're highly aroused... And then you take off your glasses and cum- that doesn't prove that the one action resulted in the other, for example. It may just mean that by the time you got to the point of taking off your glasses, you were so highly aroused that your orgasm was imminent anyway.



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RE: Trouble getting there - 11/22/2010 3:13:39 PM   
NuevaVida


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Status: offline 		LOL I will admit, wearing my glasses distracts me too much.  I'm never wearing them when we're playing but I always take them off to play with myself. 

No, you're not the only one.  I've always been that way. 

PS:  No issue when wearing contacts, though.  Just glasses.  Those damned glasses.


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RE: Trouble getting there - 11/22/2010 3:14:56 PM   
kiwisub12


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Status: offline 		When my Sir and i play, i take my glasses off - it enables me to concentrate on sensation more closely, thus adding orgasm. I also close my eyes.  
I find looking at whatever is very distracting
Perhaps this is something along the lines of what you have observed.

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RE: Trouble getting there - 11/22/2010 3:32:22 PM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		I usually do take them off for somereason that time i had them on. I am glad i am not the only one who finds this distraction annoying. Thanl you Nuvea and kiwi.

Dreamer i never though about it but thanks i will have to ask Master if he noticed.

Matt's littleone

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RE: Trouble getting there - 11/22/2010 5:42:00 PM   
catize


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Status: offline 		I have always taken my glasses off for sex or play

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RE: Trouble getting there - 11/23/2010 12:25:49 AM   
phoenixmoonn13


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Status: offline 		i always take mine of too i would find them distracting and just not right to wear them.

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RE: Trouble getting there - 11/23/2010 1:55:56 AM   
ranja


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Status: offline 		I have no problem not getting there or not because of glasses,
sometimes i dress up secretary like with the tight pinstripe skirt and white blouse and stereotype glasses suit the image...
Sometimes i appreciate seeing in detail
but i find with kissing they get in the way sometimes
Sometimes He might grab me and turn me on and things get hot and bothered and He might be groping my privates, then i am not in the slightest bothered about whether or not i am wearing glasses and would not even think of stopping things mid heat to take of the specs...
However when naked spread eagle to the bed indeed glasses are somewhat superfluous and might be put on the bedside table... unless they would be Elton John type things for humor or humiliation purposes...

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RE: Trouble getting there - 11/23/2010 2:30:01 AM   
ownedbyPF


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Status: offline 		I don't wear my glasses all that often and I don't think I've ever had them on when he started really messin around with me. I have found that for me, little things annoying me can make it imossible to focus. Like if you're tied up and there is something slightly uncomfortable about how your leg is... boom, it's all I can focus on. It bugs the living crap out of me until I think I'm gong to lose my mind! Handcuffs, my wrists are small, they slip and slide a lot in the cuffs and next thing you know the metal is rubbing on the bone and it's all I flippin feel. It's like this little niggling thing that I can't get past. You would think whipping me harder or something would make me forget about that little pesky annoyance, but it doesn't... it just makes me unbelievably irritated until I want to explode with frustration! My Master isn't looking for this type of torment so He makes sure I don't have some little thing going on that's going to make me bugshit. (The list isn't very long, fortunately) I would imagine the glasses are doing the same kind of thing to you.
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RE: Trouble getting there - 11/23/2010 4:14:43 AM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		I find it's a lot easier to relax and orgasm if I'm blindfolded.
It may be related to perimenopause and the lessening of the hormones.


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RE: Trouble getting there - 11/23/2010 4:22:35 PM   
WestBaySlave


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quote:

ORIGINAL: littleone35

Master and i have a wonderful relationship. We are very much in love. Something strange happend to me and i don't know why. Master never has any trouble getting me to climax. It seems if i am wearing my glasses though it is much harder for me to get there. I recently turned 41 and i have been wearing glasses since i was 35 so it is not something new. I don't know if it is physical or mental. I am thinking it is more mental because my glasses don't interfere with anything he is doing to me.

Does anyone else have a problem similar to this? I hope i am not the only one.


I love Collarme for posts like these! I thought I was just some insane quirk I had until I read this, but I can assure you - you are not alone, this is an international issue that effects both sexes, it seems.

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RE: Trouble getting there - 11/24/2010 5:53:41 PM   
femdomlover72


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Status: offline 		I have always had difficulty climaxing. I wear glasses, but I don't think that is the cause since it is difficult with or without them. For the most part I like it, because it prolongs the pleasure for me. I can go an hour or longer before climaxing during sex or masturbation. The part I don't like is when my Mistress commands me to cum, and I can't! It angers her, but it is definitely not because she does not turn me on. She turns me on like no other woman ever has. I can be extremely turned on to the point I am very close to climaxing, and I can stay in this state for a while. I think I unwittingly trained myself to do this, because when I am in this state I don't want it to end and I have always  tried to prolong it. It has its drawbacks, some of my sexual partners have felt like they failed to satisfy me, when in fact I was very pleased. However, I would rather have it like this than the reverse.

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