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SlavepetEnslaver -> RE: Domme or switch? (4/29/2006 11:36:26 AM)

To me it sounds like with her husband, its not....even a D/s relationship,it sounds equal where everything is 50-50, it sounds vanilla, she sounds like a dominant...in the end that is what matters...I am one of those dominants whom does believe a domme should bottom or switch to know what its like to take one to subspace...or to go through what a submissive, through so perhaps this is her chance to know (not to submit,never submit) but to bottom to see things if her lover is willing...and it appears he is...

By the way being 22, I notice many vanilla relationships (I don't know about people involved in older...ones) But with people in my age bracket,its much about kinks and fetishes...in the vanilla relationships, what your friend has sounds similar to that.



theRose4U -> RE: Domme or switch? (4/29/2006 2:18:51 PM)

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ORIGINAL: thetammyjo
Most people who are brave enough to call themselves switches whom I have met are not 50/50 split at all. Many are split 80/20 or so in either role often being in the minor role only with one individual or for specific reasons. But they, just like me, have to define themselves.


Yup what tammyjo said...they need to name their own flavor.
I label as switch just for truth in advertising. However there was one and only one that I ever felt was worthy of being my Dom. Anyone else trying to "switch" me is likely to get the wrong side of an angry Domme.



OnyxGoddess -> RE: Domme or switch? (4/29/2006 7:03:11 PM)

Ok...where does it say ANYWHERE that ALL women want to submit?  I want to write the author and slap him / her in the face for thier stupid sexist view.  I like it rough so if a man wants my submission he has to take it from me and only when I allow it do I submit to them.  And that has happened.....um.....once.  But we got divorced! LOL!!!



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