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RE: what do you want? - 11/26/2010 6:50:21 PM   
Twoshoes


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Status: offline 		OP, keep in mind:

Being a woman does not automatically make you interesting or attractive to every single guy in the world, guaranteed. You may need to actually put some positive effort into it.

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RE: what do you want? - 11/26/2010 6:57:24 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Focus50

Does that even work - a *48*yo seeking someone wealthy (sugar-daddy, I presume) to keep you? Seems like those who can afford it and have a mind to stray aren't doing it for the conversation and companionship etc and so tend to gravitate toward something young, hot, lithe and transparent. Emphasis on young and hot for trophy value....

Focus.


Not only that but she just called a Dom "old" for being 53 on her 2nd post here and she is 48?? lol....really?....

I'm 43 and my man is 60 and he is far from old brizzz..or whatever your name is. Wow.




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RE: what do you want? - 11/26/2010 7:43:22 PM   
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Status: offline 		You all just amaze me.  Rather then get to the root of the question you choose to hang the OP out to dry.  The question was about "fakes, wannabes, married vanilla men seeking a bit on the side, misogynistic abusers, promiscuous men who have sexual addictions"

Wouldnt it have been easier to tell her to use the search button? 

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RE: what do you want? - 11/26/2010 7:45:31 PM   
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Brizz clearly stated elsewhere that she wanted to come to CM and "stir up the regular punters". 

As I said elsewhere.  I appreciate it when the jack asses put a big neon sign around them that says "I'm a jackass."  Makes my life so much simpler.


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RE: what do you want? - 11/26/2010 7:54:14 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Souvenir

You all just amaze me.  Rather then get to the root of the question you choose to hang the OP out to dry.  The question was about "fakes, wannabes, married vanilla men seeking a bit on the side, misogynistic abusers, promiscuous men who have sexual addictions"

Wouldnt it have been easier to tell her to use the search button? 



But does this not stem from who you're attracting via your profile? So it seems logical to me to start there so that one could perhaps see WHY she is attracting those types. Once you look at that it's hard to take anything seriously in this case.

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RE: what do you want? - 11/26/2010 11:09:48 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Twoshoes

OP, keep in mind:

Being a woman does not automatically make you interesting or attractive to every single guy in the world, guaranteed. You may need to actually put some positive effort into it.

this!!
I heart Twoshoes


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RE: what do you want? - 11/27/2010 12:36:42 AM   
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ORIGINAL: wandersalone
this!!
I heart Twoshoes


Thanks for the positive feedback.

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RE: what do you want? - 11/27/2010 12:57:24 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Kana
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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop
Perhaps they've read your fetlife profile and posts?

Took your advice GT.
Wow. Just wow.

*Smirks*
On the bright side, I found out that I'm a "wannabes, vanilla MMs, tight-wad traveling salesmen seeking insta kinky sex in their travels."

I feel all warm and fuzzy, like a pair of pink dice hanging from a pimps rearview mirror.

Yep, that was an eye opener.  Especially the entry by some past members here who admit they have about 10 sock puppets over here, just to stir the shit.  Sure explains some of the posters in P&R.

ETA:  You (Brizzz) already have a master.  Are you looking for a poly situation?


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RE: what do you want? - 11/30/2010 1:13:46 AM   
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Status: offline 		Thanks guys and gals for the advice.

@ CaringandReal: you are right and I've deleted the first written profile. Guess it gets kinda hard to stay 'real' after a few bad experiences with the con doms out there.

@ NaughtyNick is a good bloke.

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RE: what do you want? - 11/30/2010 1:19:44 AM   
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RE: what do you want? - 11/30/2010 5:21:53 PM   
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Status: offline 		Nick?  Whew.  I've read his posts on fet...there must be a whole new definition for "a good bloke".

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RE: what do you want? - 11/30/2010 5:48:49 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Souvenir

You all just amaze me.  Rather then get to the root of the question you choose to hang the OP out to dry.  The question was about "fakes, wannabes, married vanilla men seeking a bit on the side, misogynistic abusers, promiscuous men who have sexual addictions"

Wouldnt it have been easier to tell her to use the search button? 

Actually, her main question was:
quote:

What do you masters want?

She got two very good answers to that question.  If the question posed was rhetorical, well, then she didn't want an answer at all, did she?

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RE: what do you want? - 11/30/2010 6:13:23 PM   
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RE: what do you want? - 12/4/2010 7:10:49 AM   
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Status: offline 		I don't claim to be a Master.  I don't claim to be a Dom.  Any person who submits to me will make up her own mind about our relationship.  To one person I have been a Protector, to another a bit of an 'evil uncle' -- in both cases there was no relationship.  I neither believe in titles nor do I want respect just because of some perceived 'rank'.

But I know this...

To take responsibility for the growth or development of another person, you must first be the master of your own life.  Before you counsel someone about their own problems, you better solve your own first.  Before you use a whip on another person, you had better know the sting from your own hand.

And I also know this...

It is too easy to have an internet M/s relationship where you don't see the tears in their eyes.  It is too easy to guide someone who  needs guidance and wants guidance and who believes every word you say. But someone who really doesn't need guidance -- someone who is already strong within herself?  THAT is the challenge, the real test of a Dom or Master -- helping someone who wants to be submissive, but on her own terms.

Now Brizzz and I have not always gotten on well (on FET I am known as sadistic_prick) but I understand where she is coming from, and I appreciate her candor.  I believe the question was legitimate, and without any modesty at all I hope she one-day finds someone at least as good as me.  And I hope he appreciates the interesting journey upon which he will embark.

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RE: what do you want? - 12/4/2010 7:15:09 AM   
GreedyTop


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define GOOD. 

what is good for ONE PERSON may be SHIT to another.

just sayin.

And her 'candor' has been self-professed shit stirring.

again, just sayin.

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RE: what do you want? - 12/4/2010 8:01:35 AM   
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ORIGINAL: brizzz

What do you masters want? I'm dead keen to be a slave but don't seem to get very far. In a former profile, all I got was fakes, wannabes, married vanilla men seeking a bit on the side, misogynistic abusers, promiscuous men who had sex addiction.

So I come back and do up another profile but now, not one reply showing real interest.

Please help.



Just read it, and I wouldn't be interested either.

Why? It's negative, narcissistic, victim-playing, defeatist, and just plain lazy. There's nothing there whatsoever to entice, in fact, not even to interest. Nothing about you, who you are, what you might seek--just whining by an anonymous girl. Pass.

Further, I suspect strongly that even if anyone did reply, not matter whom, you would might a reason to reject the overture.

Happiness is an inside job.

Get to work.




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RE: what do you want? - 12/4/2010 8:48:16 AM   
GreedyTop


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how ya been?

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RE: what do you want? - 12/4/2010 10:35:46 AM   
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Status: offline 		Hey Greedy! *warm hug*

Hanging in there. Working a bit too hard...


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