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sub4all2use -> Hello from a male submissive-slave (11/27/2010 7:25:41 PM)
Hello everyone, i am new to this site, but not new to being a submissive-bottom-slave. I have served Doms and Masters, but have never served under a Domme-Mistress and i would love to explore that. i am very docile, submissive, obedient and a quick-learner. i am eager to please and have no real limits (i will try everything at least once ). In the interest of full disclosure, i am married to a femaale who does not about this side of me and who is not intereested at all in this lifestyle. i would love to meet and serve Doms/Masters and Domme/Mistresses who can use a submissive boi like me. Thank You all for looking. submissively and obediently yours

DarkSteven -> RE: Hello from a male submissive-slave (11/27/2010 7:31:46 PM)
Welcome to collarme. Just to clarify - your wife that has no interest in BDSM - is she aware that you're looking for a match?

sub4all2use -> RE: Hello from a male submissive-slave (11/27/2010 7:53:26 PM)
DarkSteven Sir, Thank you for looking and thank you for posting your question. She does not know that i am looking for a match. In the past i have served Doms/Masters w/o her knowing. i have tried "hinting" around, but her response has always been very negative. i wish she was a Domme, or at least that she would be willing to let me serve a dom and/or domme with her "blessings." Oh well.

OohAahMrs -> RE: Hello from a male submissive-slave (11/28/2010 5:58:04 AM)
Welcome to CM I'm sure there will lots of girls keen to help you out, only you'll need to contact them and they tend to call themselves; "pro-doms," you catch ma drift?

sub4all2use -> RE: Hello from a male submissive-slave (11/28/2010 1:03:08 PM)
Ohah, thanks for the answer and thanks for the advice, so much to learn :)

tiggerspoohbear -> RE: Hello from a male submissive-slave (11/29/2010 6:52:24 PM)
Welcome to CM and the boards. Most Dommes will not be interested in a married man who's wife is unknowing. You may have hinted around and that will give you up to her. Most Dommes will also want to assure themselves that she does know. If you're told to be in chastity for a week or two how would you explain that to your wife? Not so easy, but good luck in your search.

sub4all2use -> RE: Hello from a male submissive-slave (11/29/2010 11:21:17 PM)
Hello tigger and thank you for the reply. I completely see your point and you may be right, i may not be able to find a DOMME to serve. :( As for the chastity issue i think i can handle that. I previously served a Dom who imposed chastity on me (sometimes for up to 2 weeks). During those times I had some of the longest headaches known to mankind. :) Again, thank you for reading and replying.

BurntKitty -> RE: Hello from a male submissive-slave (11/30/2010 3:38:38 AM)
Welcome to CM. Just curious re: longest headaches- you found it amusing to lie to your wife? Would you feel the same way if she was looking for something on the side as well? No matter. This is greeting section. We'll be kind.

sub4all2use -> RE: Hello from a male submissive-slave (12/1/2010 6:07:52 AM)
quote: you found it amusing to lie to your wife? Would you feel the same way if she was looking for something on the side as well? BurnKitty, you are absolutely right, it was not funny and i wouldn't like it very much if the shoe was on the other foot. i was just trying to make light of what is essentially not a very funny situation. i do love my wife, but i also have a strong (and unfulfilled) desire to be a sub. From her past comments, however, she thinks that people who engage in this type of "behavior" are either sick, deviants or just plain perverted. It makes me sad that a person whom i otherwise love and respect thinks that my secret desires are "sick." So i was just trying to make light of what is, at least to me, a sad situation. BK, i apologize to you and to anyone who was offended by my comment.

RedMagic1 -> RE: Hello from a male submissive-slave (12/1/2010 6:39:13 AM)
This is one of the best threads posted on this site. Please take some time to read it. http://www.collarchat.com/m_1990013/mpage_1/tm.htm

Takeylarose -> RE: Hello from a male submissive-slave (12/1/2010 9:55:00 AM)
Welcome and good luck

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