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WeeIttyBitty -> Re-writing the profile. (4/28/2006 9:01:23 PM)
Quote: Mostly here to check the forums. Interested in Chastity, prolonged bondage (cages - isolation, etc) & fun stuff, but always interested in meeting new people and learning new things. Perhaps playing a new “game”. Fairly experienced play at the deeper end of B&D, I would like to expand my limits. Up for Kidnapping – interrogations - breath/smoke (once trust is established) and general rough or inhumane treatment. Willing to try almost anything once. Frequently travel to Edmonton & Abbotsford-Vancouver areas. (Live in Calgary if thats not clear anywhere) /end Quote. I know its easier to write a profile or a want ad, if you know what you want. Iam not entirely sure what I want. So any suggestions to clarify the want ad for a guy who doesnt know what he wants, would be helpfull - maybe you can tell me what I want. Thanks

WeeIttyBitty -> RE: Re-writing the profile. (4/28/2006 9:02:30 PM)
Oh, I also uploaded pictures of me yesterday, but I dont see them anywhere... Is there away to check on the approval process?

MsMacComb -> RE: Re-writing the profile. (4/28/2006 9:45:09 PM)
List words of things or activites you are interested in, your location (roughly) age, height, weight, anything you are very opposed to, your "vanilla" interests and then tie it all together. Having photos accepted is a long and very odd process that no one can really explain. Just keep trying and being patient and good luck. [:)]

AAkasha -> RE: Re-writing the profile. (4/28/2006 9:49:13 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: WeeIttyBitty Oh, I also uploaded pictures of me yesterday, but I dont see them anywhere... Is there away to check on the approval process? Make sure if you play ice hockey you include pictures of you in your GEAR. Akasha

WeeIttyBitty -> RE: Re-writing the profile. (4/28/2006 11:42:34 PM)
I havent played in years. I only watch it now. The photo is of me, in a really neat mummification ...

ServiceNTucson -> RE: Re-writing the profile. (4/28/2006 11:48:34 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MsMacComb Having photos accepted is a long and very odd process that no one can really explain. Just keep trying and being patient and good luck. [:)] To paraphrase Robert A Heinlein, "God, girls, government and collarme.com move in strange and mysterious ways and it is not given of man to understand them."

AAkasha -> RE: Re-writing the profile. (4/29/2006 1:39:17 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: WeeIttyBitty I havent played in years. I only watch it now. The photo is of me, in a really neat mummification ... "Enough about my fetishes. So what do YOU think about my fetishes?" Akasha

WeeIttyBitty -> RE: Re-writing the profile. (4/29/2006 8:58:38 PM)
I like your fetishes. but then I like everyone's fetishes... well ok maybe not that roman stuff... I re-submitted my photo this morning ... My profile went 'pending approval' my profile is now back but still no picture... Time for a new keyboard - Ive worn this one out..

gooddogbenji -> RE: Re-writing the profile. (4/29/2006 9:08:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AAkasha "Enough about my fetishes. So what do YOU think about my fetishes?" Your fetishes are good, but I really do want to try mummification.[sm=banghead.gif] Yours, benji

WeeIttyBitty -> RE: Re-writing the profile. (4/29/2006 11:15:04 PM)
Its a lot of fun... Get all wet & sweaty... work up quite a sweat just squirming around on the floor.

GoddessDustyGold -> RE: Re-writing the profile. (5/1/2006 12:22:13 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AAkasha quote: ORIGINAL: WeeIttyBitty I havent played in years. I only watch it now. The photo is of me, in a really neat mummification ... "Enough about my fetishes. So what do YOU think about my fetishes?" Akasha Just a quick interjection here. I am reading Aakasha's post to indicate that you seem to be only interested in *your* fetishes. In vanilla language: "But enough about me...Tell me, what do you think about my idea for blah, blah, blah...." indicating initially that you are now ready to move the conversation to focus on the other party, but you still make it about you. Got it? She made a comment about including a photo of yourself in hockey gear, to which you replied you no longer play but added that your photo was a really cool "mummification" photo. Frankly, to Me, your profile reads like a "will travel for kink". I don't see anything regarding a relationship or any dedicated submission that doesn't scratch your own fetishy itch. That is fine, if that is what you seek, but you are unlikley to find a lifestyle Domina who is open to that sort of "when I am town, let's play" mentality. If this is what you are after, you may still wish to invest some time in a friendship of sorts, so that the Lady is open to occasional casual play. I am not sure a mummification pic is going to be approved. You might want to consider a nice, candid G-rated photo. Save the mummification shot for a Lady who is interested and willing to accept such as an attachment to an email.

WeeIttyBitty -> RE: Re-writing the profile. (5/1/2006 1:44:24 PM)
Thanks, Thats a fair assessment. I am willing tobe serious and think about them scary life altering and life long committments, but I dont know how to express that without sounding like a mail order bride ... I really would like to have someone to wake upto each day... Iam almost 40 and never married, Ive been alone most of my adult life, and Ive long ago gotten tired of being alone. Ideally I would like to be able to meet someone for dinner or drinks - whatever - and make friends. If that develops into a play relationship, thats fine, if not, Ive meet someone new, who hopefully will become a friend. Ive been too focused on finding a play partner, rather than a partner I can play with. Thanks for your critism, I'll try not to be self-absorbed...

WeeIttyBitty -> RE: Re-writing the profile. (5/2/2006 5:31:31 PM)
How does this strike you: Looking to make new friends, as events unfold, we'll find the label for it. I am single, no kids, no baggage, standard emotional scarring from normally traumatic life. Willing to make those scary life altering commitments should events warrant. I am a computer nerd, so technical pursuits tend to absorb most of my free time. -As far as activities I enjoy? As long as I am spending time with my friend, the activity really doesnt matter. Fairly experienced play at the deeper end of B&D, I would like to expand my limits. Up for Kidnapping – interrogations - breath/smoke (once trust is established) and general rough or inhumane treatment. Willing to try almost anything once. Frequently travel to Edmonton & Abbotsford-Vancouver areas. (Live in Calgary if thats not clear anywhere) // your input is truely appreciated.

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: Re-writing the profile. (5/2/2006 6:15:25 PM)
Well ServiceNtucson, I hope they put up your new pics again soon, because no one is going to pick you up for your looks with this one... LMAO wondering where you found this avatar. It's a good thing you have the brains and sense of humor going for you. [8D] M

LoneGoddess -> RE: Re-writing the profile. (5/2/2006 10:53:20 PM)
I don't know ladies but this thread itself is starting to sound like his "DO ME BOY" personal ad... or did ya'll miss that? He's already giving us his travel itineraries. LG~

Wulfchyld -> RE: Re-writing the profile. (5/2/2006 11:00:22 PM)
You might want to include “On your knees you domme bitch!” That is if you’re a masochist looking for a beating. Tongue firmly in cheek

yourMissTress -> RE: Re-writing the profile. (5/2/2006 11:03:17 PM)
Reads to me like he's afraid that no one is reading his profile on the other side so he thought he would post it here....

WeeIttyBitty -> RE: Re-writing the profile. (5/3/2006 7:41:28 AM)
I was looking for constructive critism to make the profile more likely to meet someone. What happens durring or after that meeting, I'll take my chances. But I'd like that chance. If you dont have contructive critism, dont offer sarcasm and stupidity. Thanks.

GoddessDustyGold -> RE: Re-writing the profile. (5/3/2006 7:57:00 AM)
Honestly, WeeIttyBitty, this new version doesn't sound much different from the original. I see a bit of humor and feistiness creeping in, but it reads like a telegram or a personal ad where you are trying to save money by dropping anything conversational. Still on the "friends track", as opposed to being serious about a relationship that inlcudes your submission. You remain focused on the fun and play. A final note would be that a defensive reaction and a dismissal of the the other Ladies comments, regardless of how you take those comments, indicates you are still on the fast track to fun, fun, fun, as opposed to submission, submission, submission. I am always wary of a boy who has a need to bite back. But you should do your own thing. Good luck.

WeeIttyBitty -> RE: Re-writing the profile. (5/3/2006 8:16:01 AM)
Thanks. Its a tough bit of writing, more so, when my thoughts about a long term relationship really havent crystallized into a definitive picture of what that relationship would look like. Sometimes I feel like a zombie, where my whole life disappears into a haze, while the few hours playing here and there constitute the whole of my existence. And its that existence, that I want to over-write the zombie zone with. I'll have to think more about what I want in a long term relationship.

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