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sunshinemiss -> RE: Hair Cuts (12/1/2010 5:00:48 AM)
My hair tends to fall out more if it gets longer - hypothyroidism and it's very heavy. I miss my long long hair and I miss the feel of twisting it up into a big bun on top of my head. But I rather like not being bald. No thanks. I know what works for me.

Kana -> RE: Hair Cuts (12/1/2010 5:32:46 AM)
Laughs Kana's rule for hair-It need be long enough to wrap around my hand at least once for yanking purposes (and cuz gals w/long hair are hot), but, seeing how she's gonna be spending the majority of her "free time" on her knees, not long enough to brush the floor. Course, one of the reasons that long hair is hot is that it's utterly frivolous. Long hair means she has to take extra time purely for the purpose of looking ornamental. Dear Gawd, I love objectification)

Aynne88 -> RE: Hair Cuts (12/1/2010 6:26:23 AM)
This probably sounds bitchy but I don't care what he wants, I am not ever going to have short hair. No no no no no. [;)]! However since he attended the same school of hair that Kana did apparently, I am not going to worry about it..lol.

mbes -> RE: Hair Cuts (12/1/2010 6:59:51 AM)
I have very strong feelings about my hair. I want it long, and it's more practical that way since I can put it up and get it off my neck, or wear it down. I also have very strong feelings about him. If he wanted it cut, cut it would be. It would mess with my head, but I'd adjust. Happily, he likes it long as well. Yay!

CerVeza -> RE: Hair Cuts (12/1/2010 7:01:05 AM)
I shave my head with home barber shop. Saves money... no shampoo, no combs, no inflated barber prices. All good.

IronBear -> RE: Hair Cuts (12/1/2010 7:31:11 AM)
I make the decision regarding the hair length which I have a preference for long hair, but I also love the short spiky hair style on a woman too. It has to suit her so would rather spend the couple of hundred dollars to have it styled to my liking from a top professional.

DaddysInkedSlut -> RE: Hair Cuts (12/1/2010 7:48:47 AM)
There was a point in my life it was down to my knees, another point where I took a straight razor to my scalp, i have had it to every length inbetween as well. Now I keep it short, but it is long enough to grab and hold onto or pull. My hair has been several colors from jet black to white. It is a reflection of me, where I am at in my life. Plus the reality is I dont want to be micromanged by my owner. To me that isn't powerful, its not sexy. Although before doing something drastic I will always tell my owner or partner what my plans are. Lol

HK47 -> RE: Hair Cuts (12/1/2010 11:28:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mandmlv Reading the postings on Hair Pulling has promted me to ask the opinion of anyone who cares to post to express their feelings on the act of a Dom or Domme taking their sub to have the sub's hair cut to suit the Dom. Personally I find it a very powerful act. agreed

SpiritedRadiance -> RE: Hair Cuts (12/2/2010 12:07:47 AM)
When My partner has been in my life longer then Ive spent growing my hair out and maintaining it.... currently, nearly 10 years, he can have a choice....until then me and my hair which is currently past my waist, have had a longer relationship with me.

OsideGirl -> RE: Hair Cuts (12/2/2010 7:28:05 AM)
I've always had longer hair. Master would prefer it be down to my waist but he's realistic about life too. I have thick, heavy hair that holds water. So, even with it at shoulder length it takes half an hour with a blow dryer. If I don't blow dry it will be wet until 4 or 5 hours later. Master has decided that he'd rather I spend time with him rather than time alone in the bathroom with my hair, so he allows me to choose the style as long as it doesn't go above shoulder length.

NuevaVida -> RE: Hair Cuts (12/2/2010 8:19:22 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mandmlv Reading the postings on Hair Pulling has promted me to ask the opinion of anyone who cares to post to express their feelings on the act of a Dom or Domme taking their sub to have the sub's hair cut to suit the Dom. Personally I find it a very powerful act. I can imagine in the right context it could feel powerful. I've had short hair once. I looked awful in it, and it wasn't just me who thought that. So it was one of the many questions I asked, when getting to know the Man. He likes my hair length and wants to keep it there. Works for me. That said, he would like it blonde, rather than it's current dark color. This kind of freaks me out. My hair stylist says she won't do it, ha ha ha. She knows I'll look horrible and washed out. The man says it can wait for now. Like Aqua said, he has....um...."different" fashion tastes than I do, which has left me feeling slightly frantic on more than one occasion while shopping together. So...my hair style will remain...it's color...well...might not.

ResidentSadist -> RE: Hair Cuts (12/2/2010 8:40:38 AM)
Shave their monkey, trim or shave their head . . . it all pretty much the same act of control. If you "own it", you can have any style you want.

petmonkey -> RE: Hair Cuts (12/2/2010 9:10:29 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub when I change my hair directly reflects my growth and change. When I needed to remake myself, I dyed it a crazy out of nature color. When I needed to shed my past, I cut nearly two feet from it. Seeing it's change in the mirror is an every-day reflection of the woman I am now. I need that outlet for self-expression. To mark my changes and the stages of my life and growth. This, mostly. i have changed my hair for another, to represent that this other person's source of pleasure was "who i was now" and even at the ending of a relationship changed my hair style to represent that this other person's source of pleasure was not "who i was now". Note the locus of control (Hey, language buff-arinos, am i using this term correctly, loosely?) Mr. Lance Hughes, gee whiz, that picture gave me a clit-on. Thanks!

petmonkey -> RE: Hair Cuts (12/2/2010 10:14:25 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist Shave their monkey Sounds terribly itchy.

hematitan -> RE: Hair Cuts (12/3/2010 1:32:58 PM)
I can see how it can be powerful, but I don't think it would be for me. I'm way too picky about my hair and would be no fun about it. And I'm not willing to let anyone dictate my appearance in general, so there's that, too. Now, if they had a head-shaving kink, I'd probably be cool with that. I have a thing about keeping my hair as short as I can, so we'd probably be a good match.

Dragonspinkkitty -> RE: Hair Cuts (12/3/2010 10:45:54 PM)
I am not allowed to get my hair cut other than a bit trimmed from the end when needed. I have hair that reaches my butt. My Sir insists I wear it long. However when we go out in public I have to put it up in a clip to hide it's length. He doesn't like other men seeing how long my hair is and admiring it. Whatever floats his boat. lol

txurinal -> RE: Hair Cuts (12/4/2010 8:21:53 AM)
When i first met my 2 MASTERS, my hair was shoulder length and was often pulled back in a pony tail. Probably the 1st order they ever gave me was to get a buzz cut. The joke was THEY did not want my hair getting stuck in a zipper. Went right to the barber and never gave it a second thought

NocturnalStalker -> RE: Hair Cuts (12/4/2010 1:53:30 PM)
Hair-cuts? Don't talk to me about hair-cuts.

crazyml -> RE: Hair Cuts (12/4/2010 2:54:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SpiritedRadiance When My partner has been in my life longer then Ive spent growing my hair out and maintaining it.... currently, nearly 10 years, he can have a choice....until then me and my hair which is currently past my waist, have had a longer relationship with me. Interestingly, I say the same about my cats.

SpiritedRadiance -> RE: Hair Cuts (12/4/2010 3:11:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: crazyml quote: ORIGINAL: SpiritedRadiance When My partner has been in my life longer then Ive spent growing my hair out and maintaining it.... currently, nearly 10 years, he can have a choice....until then me and my hair which is currently past my waist, have had a longer relationship with me. Interestingly, I say the same about my cats. I adore cats....

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