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MaamJay -> December roll call (11/30/2010 5:12:07 PM)
Yee ha! I finally get to be the one to start this! It's already Dec 1st here downunder. Update for Me: November was busy with PhD work but it's going along really well, I'm about 2 months ahead of schedule. YAY! Travelwise we managed to visit outback Australia (usually hot, dry, brown and desert) after so much rain it's really green! The oddest thing was not being able to take a paddle steamer ride on the Darling River (one of Australia's great rivers) because it was ... too wet! That seemed a bit odd until it was explained that the river was so high that the boat wouldn't clear overhead wires. Dayum! Then we stopped at another town to see an ancient wonder, 40,000 yo Aboriginal fish traps ... to find they too were deep under water. Fortunately there was a video ... Now we're stuck in mud in another little town while the rain tumbles down, it's being a very strange spring here. But not panicked, not needing to be anywhere on a schedule at the moment, so we may as well stay put till the weather clears. It has at least been a pretty spring with flowers everywhere and nearly every town has had wonderful displays of jacaranda trees, one of my favourites with their purple-blue flowers. Bdsm wise, chatting with more subs in places we are heading towards so hopefully will get some more play in the future. Hope all's well for all you good Dominant ladies ... and for everyone else who contributes to this board. Maam Jay aka violet[A]

SweetDommes -> RE: December roll call (11/30/2010 10:05:41 PM)
I turn 33 years old in 4 days. Not doing anything special that I know of, but that's ok with me at this point. Right now, I have a massive headache and all I want to do is sleep anyway (just waiting until I can take my meds, then I'm crashing). Talking to a couple of boys - kind of random as to when they are around or not around, so not sure if either of them will work out. Honestly not sure if I care anymore - we're doing ok as we are.

pyroaquatic -> RE: December roll call (11/30/2010 10:33:29 PM)
I am alive and living near Staunton, VA. I am not taken OR on the market. It is more like I am being tested. Probation. I have to work hard for my collar and I don't want it any other way. A second chance to be with the one that got away. After five years we still love each other. I made a mistake (men are idiots, i am an idiot, thus i am a man) but have been given a second chance do to circumstances. Finally started my own business. Not what I originally wanted to do but hey.... if I am going to be a scullery maid slave... thing.... being.... errr. whatever the hell I am I better make money from it. From other people. It is something I am good at, I work hard at, and don't mind if I do it for fourteen hours. I am not going to do it for the rest of my life but it is a stepping stone for other things I am really excited to do. I have also been play testing a game I created a few months ago. I do not plan on making any money with it. Would be quite surprised if I do. Makes me chuckle.. I love virginia. I can see mountains... the nearest populous is an hour away and at night I can see stars. Perfect for me. I had to get away from my family and from florida. Florida is a nice place. Beautiful. I saw dolphins on the property I was living at (being, of all things a butler). Not everyone can say that. My medication has been cut in half. Turns out I was way over medicated and when it came time to pay for it on my own (without the assistance of the place i was originally getting it from) it totaled up to 600 dollars a month. I have a slight sleeping disorder, not dementia. So dosing down from my one medication has caused me to have horrid hallucinations. People blinking in and out of existence, mutated baby faces, four hours seeming like nine months while spirits are draining my life force, severed heads talking to me on the floor, rain that is not there, moving walls. I keep a light on. The darkness seems to make it worse. A second opinion is in order. I do not trust the doctors in florida. A specialist this time. Despite those... things I am doing great. I have been feeling better now that I am away from the dense population, pill heads, muggings, police sirens, fire trucks wailing, loud neighborhood quarrels, constant theft of my property, not being able to find a steady job because I do not want to trick people in telemarketing or because I am not a truck driver or nurse. I should have been born a woman but my lady says I would be flat chested. Ah, she keeps me out of trouble and safe. Bless her heart. and no she does not want to put me up for auction. I miss all of the ladies here. Looking forward to reading up on y'all.

LaTigresse -> RE: December roll call (12/1/2010 7:10:40 AM)
Pyro as always, it is wonderful to see you posting. As for my world....Thanksgiving, my favourite holiday, has passed. It was nice, but less wonderful due to a family member being out of country. Because of this, I am looking forward to Christmas, and a wonderful family gathering at the farm. I've got most of my shopping done, just a few bits and pieces here and there left. And the photo projects, which should get finished this weekend and ordered. In a week or two I will do the grocery shopping for all of the holiday cooking. I give many gifts of food as it is something I enjoy, I love to do, and it seems to be greatly appreciated. Winter has definitely come with a vengeance. We got our first dusting of snow yesterday afternoon/evening. It's cold and windy out. Definitely curtailing my lunch time hike around Iowa City. Fortunately the health club membership kicks in today. Kinky stuff.........I have several girls coming to visit in January.

Dnomyar -> RE: December roll call (12/1/2010 8:04:48 AM)
Im another year older tomorrow. Happy birthday SweetDommes.

LadyPact -> RE: December roll call (12/1/2010 8:53:14 AM)
Happy Birthday in advance to both! December looks to be a busy month for Me. I'm one of five tops that will be involved at an event called December Tastings. The concept is based on something like speed dating, but instead with trying out different types of play. I'm scheduled to be the wax person. I figure that will be a lot less work than doing a full demo so it won't be as involved as the stuff that I normally do. Plus, I really enjoy visiting the folks in Fresno. My son is officially at his deployment station in Germany. The visit that happened during November was nice, but it is rough thinking that this will be his first Christmas away from home. Speaking of military events throwing a wrench in the works, we may not be going where we had intended geographically after this. I'm not going to post the details on that, since it's not entirely set. I'm having MP see what he can do to pull strings first. Otherwise, things are good. Busy, which is always a plus. Plenty of things set up with kinky folks, so I'm happy.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: December roll call (12/1/2010 10:34:06 AM)
Happy Birthday, Rayray and SweetDomme!! PYRO! I am glad that you have landed somewhere different---now go get a proper diagnosis mmmkay? It is DECEMBER, I am told. I am startled, appalled, generally displeased. There is SNOW on the ground. Not much, just a dusting, none on the concrete... but I HATE WINTER. The heavy clothes, the cold, the icy roads, the morons who forget that we get icy roads every year, this is the freakin NORTH, etc etc. Also, the holidays, a festival of stress and hating. Yeah, a new tax season. MY LAST AT THE GREEN SQUARE. It is so utterly time to leave the company. My PERSONAL GOAL, for which you all may light candles, burn incense, and/or sacrifice chickens and small goats, is a NEW job for May 15. Yes, I still live in SE Michigan. The economic upturn that you may have heard of has not reached this area, nor will it. I really don't care what I wind up doing, if it's career #3 in another field, or still crunching numbers. I just need to land somewhere for the NEXT twenty years or so. RESTASIS IS THE DEVIL!! Mom is STILL recovering from her treatment in early September. I know that her reaction is not super common, but after the fact we read of many women whose health was trashed and even died from it. So, you ladies Of A Certain Age, PLEASE do lots of research before embarking on osteoporosis treatment. BDSM-wise, my toybag is neatly packed away. I am not leaving the scene by any stretch, but there so little for me here, and I am so tired of the politics, the cliques masquerading as leather families, the protecting of predators (and I mean here men and women who have engaged in prosecutable crimes) that I am going back to the community service angle, and working to educate newbies. I know, FUCK THE NEWBIES, it's been my motto forever, but I was not sent out into the scene without backup. Oddly enough, aside from my haters (which truly are few) I have a reputation for being moderate and commonsensical, and cutting through the BS. Go figure. I let everyone know that the emperor has no clothes, whether that is a popular bit of news or not. ARTOMAT RULES!! Yepper, my art is out in the machines, kerplunking! I was at an opening of a local show and I got to see reactions---yay!!! This is so silly, it's not like I haven't sold my work before, but this whole project is very exciting to me. www.artomat.org.

LaTigresse -> RE: December roll call (12/1/2010 11:36:27 AM)
Yay and Happy Birthday for all applicable!!! (I am TRYING to work the positive mental attitude angle to stave off the "I FUCKING HATE WINTER!!!!!!!!" attitude......how it works, to be continued....)

SweetDommes -> RE: December roll call (12/1/2010 11:45:49 AM)
LT, I find that laughing at the antics of the critters in the snow (from the nice, warm house, of course) helps greatly with the appreciation of winter. Dnomyar - happy birthday to you too [:)]

pyroaquatic -> RE: December roll call (12/1/2010 12:49:52 PM)
I must be an idiot. Who moves from florida in the winter? and... don't hate winter... bundle and snuggle. It brings us closer I swear. :D post more lurk less i guess.

SylvereApLeanan -> RE: December roll call (12/1/2010 12:52:36 PM)
November (and October for that matter) did not go as planned. In fact, both were Not. Fun. on the family front and I wasn't online for most of the past 6-8 weeks. I'm still working on getting back into what I consider to be my normal mental space. However, the cold and the shadow of the impending holidays, including my upcoming (40th) birthday, are not helping matters. Bah. Humbug. Natal felicitations to those who enjoy their birthdays.

YSG -> RE: December roll call (12/1/2010 1:06:34 PM)
Happy bday to SweetDommes and Dnomyar So, Ive got a date tonight (nilla, but a damn cute one). Im thinking we're going to hit up a few spots here in Cleveland and look at christmas lights, before having dinner at a nice resturant. Aside from ticking off the local union chapter president, its been a pretty quiet month for me here. Its cold and snowing, finals are next week, and Im trying to figure out what to get various friends and family for christmas. Oh, btw, Ill be bringing around hot chocolate and ginger snaps for all the "depressed about winter" people [:)]

Iholdthestrings -> RE: December roll call (12/1/2010 1:18:56 PM)
December... I woke up this morning, and My yard was white. Joy. I hate the cold. I feel for Hib, being 'norther' than I am. Oh, and it's still snowing. In 3 days, Hubby will be 39. The white hairs have begun taking over his face. I'm diggin' it. The poppet tripped, fractured her ankle, and then spent the better part of a week doing everything you're not supposed to do on a fractured ankle (prior to casting). Now, it's thoroughly broken and she gets to wear a cast and boot for 6 months. Lesson? I think so. Not diggin' that so much. Our little angel is a year old. So beautiful. She has My bed-head, poor thing. Last month, I met a new boy. The connection between us is astounding. Combine the right empathic submissive with Me (the empathic live-wire), and the results are otherworldly. That said, something's happened in his life, and he's shielding Me from whatever it is so I won't feel the pain. I'm really worried. The UM has a couple grades I'm not particularly fond of this grading period, but it's an improvement from having a page full of them not very long ago. He's asked Me to look into getting him on something for depression. I've known it was coming for years, I just hoped I was wrong. I'm nervous about that and whatever the solution is, I hope it doesn't require too much trial-and-error to find. Wishing happy birthdays to Miss Karen, RayRay, and Sylverë!

Wheldrake -> RE: December roll call (12/1/2010 1:47:05 PM)
So, this post marks the end of my Roll Call virginity. Dramatic moment. Here in Beijing it's been not only cold, but also more polluted than usual. Over the last few days the air has tasted of smoke and ash. Tonight, on the other hand, there was a mild, cleansing wind, and the unpleasant taste seemed to be gone. In one sense this is bad timing, since tomorrow I'll be getting on a plane anyway to spend a few days in a far more warm, clean and southerly part of Asia. The woman I'll be seeing there is someone who has gone from being a lover to being a Mistress to being, at the moment, a lover with dominant moods. I expect I'll be making the return journey with a few marks on my body and a few interesting memories. The trip will also be a much-needed respite from work, where I've been struggling frantically with a project that should have been finished months ago (fortunately, I'm in a field where deadlines tend to be strictly theoretical). Time enough for that when I get back. Happy Birthday to SweetDommes and Dnomyar. And to Iholdthestrings' Hubby, of course. I turned 34 just a couple of weeks ago myself.

MrKicia -> RE: December roll call (12/1/2010 5:50:40 PM)
December marks my 25th year on this earth. The last few months have been great. I seem to be accomplishing so much that I have been putting off for the last three years. November was a busy month for my business and we are picking up more work everyday. I feel like my wife and I are becoming closer and closer with each day. Things just seem to be going right.

MasterFireMaam -> RE: December roll call (12/1/2010 6:34:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SweetDommes I turn 33 years old in 4 days. Happy Birthday! We turn 40 in 23... or is that 23 in 40? And Happy Birthday to all the other December babies! We are getting geared up for Southwest Leather Conference in January. It is unclear if the boy will be able to go with Us or not. We have a girl who is now in service and she might be coming for New Year's Eve, but We haven't fully decided that. We've met some of the people in the BDSM community in our new city and state. Haven't found other Master/slave couples yet, but they're probably around somewhere! Mostly, We are VERY excited because Our second (of two) shipments of personal belongings arrived from AZ and this batch includes TOYS! Master Fire

ShaharThorne -> RE: December roll call (12/1/2010 7:05:11 PM)
I am doing well...chats/cmails with a friend. Medially, I am shot. Had 2 sleep studies that suggested that I had sleep apnea and I have to get a cpap monitor for a further study where I will be hospitalize during the first week of January. During this stay, I will be working on a few afghans. Will be gone (not offline)for the holidays. Nieces and nephew is driving my SIL crazy. Lizard will get a Hot Topic card. A lot easier for me so I don't have the energy to Christmas shop at the mall.

FriendlyMuppet -> RE: December roll call (12/1/2010 7:06:46 PM)
I'm doing great. Although it started snowing today, so not so great in that capacity as I'm not a fan of the cold, but otherwise, all is great. Not owned or with anyone at the moment, but that doesn't define one's happiness specifically. So I'm going with great.

StrictnSaucy -> RE: December roll call (12/11/2010 4:53:26 PM)
Here in Ireland we have had some unusual heavy snow falls and very cold weather. Alot of people are complaining about it but I wake up every morning, look out and am amazed at the beautiful landscape. The trees are shimmery and white and very beautiful and the fields are one white blanket. I am really looking forward to christmas. We have the privilege of having Santa visit us on xmas morning so there is massive excitment about that. We are busy making handmade gifts and delicious food to share with our family and friends. Of course we cannot ignore the fact that the general economy is f*cked and Ireland is likely to be in recession for some time so we are researching moving country. Scary and exciting but no decisions until the new year. Happy christmas everyone!!

sunshinemiss -> RE: December roll call (12/11/2010 5:25:38 PM)
Happy Birthday everybody! November was tough - No. Korea bombed So. Korea, and a lot of people were worried (although western media made it much bigger than it was here). That was the biggest thing that happened. I started writing a book for National Novel Writers Month and completed the full 50,000 words! YAY! now I'm in the process of editing and adding. This is the hard hard hard part. I've also written some academic this's and that's - lesson plans to share with other teachers and such... I'm enjoying having so much free time to write. I've been studying Spanish and Salsa dancing (separately) ... and that has been a real joy here in Asia. And most importantly? I'm going home for a visit! YAY! best, sunshine

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