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hausboy -> RE: gettin ready to pack it up (12/3/2010 3:11:42 PM)
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I've lived in two other places that you might want to consider that were extremely trans-friendly.
San Fran: There was very easy access to trans healthcare, therapists and tons and tons of TG/TS resources, not to mention so many transfolk that it was truly a mundane thing to most. In fact, at the place where I worked, whenever anyone had a hoarse voice, the question was usually "Do you have a cold or have you started hormones?' The down side of course--with so much trans visibility, it could actually be harder for many to pass. The other harsh reality of living in San Francisco: very expensive. More pluses? They have extensive anti-discrimination laws AND city employees' insurance covers hormones and SRS.
Albuquerque: I was actually shocked when I moved to New Mexico--I was expecting very close-minded, backwards folks, and instead, found a very accepting, openly gay community and a regularly meeting trans group (both men and women) that was very active, social and pleasant to attend. The State passed anti-discrimination laws a few years ago (including trans) AND surprise, surprise, it was just a short drive away from Trinidad, CO.
Most major metropolitan cities in the United States (I've traveled all over the country and lived in several different major cities) have transgroups that meet regularly.
Personally, select a city that meets your overall needs--transportation, cost of living, employment, housing, climate as well as lifestyle and pace. Trans community is fine and dandy, but take it from someone who has started new in cities several times over--there are a lot of factors that can make or break your successful adjustment to a new city. It's great to have friends and community, but if the job, environment, and overall feel of the city doesn't suit you, you'll find yourself surveying a map in no time.
Good luck with your move and your transition
frederich
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