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RE: colour me pink ? - 12/3/2010 8:41:14 AM

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i thought the phrase was "Beware the Lavender Menace".

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RE: colour me pink ? - 12/3/2010 1:44:32 PM

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no men- no males- men barred-men excluded- girls only-men to the bin-men are blocked-les only-only women , etc etc.. is that the attitude of most females on this site ?
have most females been coloured pink ? COLOUR ME PINK ??

Goodness sake! More nonsense about what someone knows nothing about what they propose. The lesbian friends I know are deeply valued individuals who share within my life a place that no other could possibly share. Imagine that! A heterosexual man saying such a thing, aye! Yes, I surely did, indeed. However, I am not the type of man that judges women as objects for which I have rights’ over due to some misogynistic based illogical assumption about women.

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Alright, fair enough - I bitched about your comment on the other thread, but here - you're right on the button.

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RE: colour me pink ? - 12/3/2010 3:24:51 PM

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Does it bother you that some women on this site only want to be with other women?

Hell no! Those are some of the best profiles to "P&M" to.

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RE: colour me pink ? - 12/3/2010 3:55:47 PM

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Does it bother you that some women on this site only want to be with other women?

No it doesn't bother me at all. And it doesn't bother me that some men are looking for men only. It also doesn't bother me that some married couples are looking for a 3rd (of any gender).

I keep my settings to straight male dominants between 45 - 60 yrs of age.

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RE: colour me pink ? - 12/3/2010 6:08:13 PM

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No it doesn't bother me at all. And it doesn't bother me that some men are looking for men only. It also doesn't bother me that some married couples are looking for a 3rd (of any gender).

I keep my settings to straight male dominants between 45 - 60 yrs of age.

Hmmm....how refreshing. So what you're saying here is that it doesn't bother you that other people want what they want and they're welcome to go look for it- even if it excludes yourself. And that you yourself are looking for someone of a type that you've predetermined is a good match for you and is fairly close to you in age range as well. Amazing.

Are you taking notes here OP? If not let me break it down for you....look actively for a partner within a select group of people who are already determined to be looking for a type such as you and have it be within reasonable parameters. Should give you more success then lusting after the ones you have no chance with.

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RE: colour me pink ? - 12/3/2010 6:17:29 PM

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Well, you have to admit this is a first (at least for me). It's not the usual poor me "Dommes just want my money", or the all encompassing "all females are money hungry bitches". I especially

love to be referred to as a bitch. Last I checked that was a female dog, and I ain't the best lookin chickie around here but I also know I'm not a pooch.

Lesbian? Nope not looking for one as a Domme, because I'm a straight female and know how to check my parameters correctly. Gay men? Nope, not interested since being female might be a problem for them, ok, it will be. Straight male Doms within a reasonable parameter? Yup, that's what I'm looking for. Don't have all my eggs in one basket as this is the internet, but one always keeps one's options open doesn't one?

O, and if either a lesbian, a gay man, or a sub of either gender sends me a message that they're interested? Well, as long as it's polite then I'll reply in such a manner and let them know thanks but no thanks, I'm not interested. Not that it's a habit on their part of course.

And just for the record, I don't care if you're pink, orange, purple, green or plaid. It's who the person is not how they identify as a gender (sorry if it's the wrong word, I have mud-brain tonight) I'm interested in getting to know as a friend.

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RE: colour me pink ? - 12/4/2010 9:46:06 AM

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"Colour (Color?) me Pink?"

Well listen to you! Telling me I can't like something because of the gender preference of the color! You're the color nazi! I'm taking it back, you watch!

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RE: colour me pink ? - 12/6/2010 4:02:36 PM

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after a few weeks,my opinion of this site has been confirmed, as only 3 answers try to respond to my question, and they were all from ladies, thank you ladies [ to those three , I would say that yes, i have been using my filters, but my question was about the high proportion of female profiles that were barring males these days, as compared to a few months ago, in my opinion, which could unbalance this whole site and have it become a gay only site ]; the rest is a mixture of sarcasms and irony, a lot of members here are not mature at all... sorry, guys, i have been here for several years under several names, and i wasn't born yesterday either , your reactions smell of disdain and arrogance,you are not the only ones to have the 'right 'opinion .... come on, now, that should bring some more sarcasms...is that the way you encourage members to take part into any discussion ??

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RE: colour me pink ? - 12/6/2010 4:19:26 PM

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Sour grapes much? You ask obnoxious questions and then bitch about not being taken seriously and people not answering your question. Sorry. I've got no sympathy for you.

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RE: colour me pink ? - 12/6/2010 4:29:38 PM

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Hello there,

I'm sorry you've had this experience. I can't speak for other countries, but there are very very few sub-fems who have "Dominant Men" in their "looking for" section who say "No men".

I don't think that there's been a dramatic influx of lesbians to the site, I think it may just be that you're having a bad day.

If it helps at all - there's a really good chance that a significant proportion of those hawt 21 year old lesbeens are really dudes, looking for some lesbeen cyber, which - ironically - will probably be with another dude who is also pretending to be a 21 year old lesbeen

You just need to focus, hop out of those whiney-boy knickers and into some daddy-pants, then man up, and get back to searching!

[Edit to add - my spelling of "Lesbians" as "Lesbeens" was deliberate and intended to be humorous]

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RE: colour me pink ? - 12/6/2010 4:58:36 PM

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after a few weeks,my opinion of this site has been confirmed, as only 3 answers try to respond to my question, and they were all from ladies, thank you ladies [ to those three , I would say that yes, i have been using my filters, but my question was about the high proportion of female profiles that were barring males these days, as compared to a few months ago, in my opinion, which could unbalance this whole site and have it become a gay only site ]; the rest is a mixture of sarcasms and irony, a lot of members here are not mature at all... sorry, guys, i have been here for several years under several names, and i wasn't born yesterday either , your reactions smell of disdain and arrogance,you are not the only ones to have the 'right 'opinion .... come on, now, that should bring some more sarcasms...is that the way you encourage members to take part into any discussion ??

Okay. When I read your original post, I was confused whether you were objecting to lesbians either existing, or being on this site. Now it seems like your objection is not to the number of lesbians on the site, but that fact that in your opinion, the percentage of women on the site claiming to be les, is increasing. In other words, not the quantity but its derivative. Being clear about your viewpoints is NEVER a bad idea.

I have personally not kept stats, so I don't know what the percentage of lesbians was or is. However, I have not noticed any increase or decrease. I'm not claiming that there HAS been no change, but it's not like the percentage went from 10% to 80% or something drastic.

As crazyml stated above, not all lesbians are genuine females. I'd be more concerned about the site being overrun by fake women than by lesbians, but that's just me.

I'm nor sure exactly where your concern is coming from. Is it that it's harder to meet straight sub women on this site than you'd like it to be, and you blame this on the lesbians? If so, the one of the marks of a mature Dom is isolating what he DOES have control over (women being les isn't one of them), and fix those things. For starters, unhide your profile. I can personally attest to the fact that there ARE available women on this site!

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RE: colour me pink ? - 12/6/2010 5:00:49 PM

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If it helps at all - there's a really good chance that a significant proportion of those hawt 21 year old lesbeens are really dudes, looking for some lesbeen cyber, which - ironically - will probably be with another dude who is also pretending to be a 21 year old lesbeen

*Ahem*

Y'what now?