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RE: i have a questin for any master that has exp? - 12/3/2010 2:24:33 PM

kiwisub12

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I don't know about anyone else, but when i call someone Sir, i'm not expecting anything. It is a form of address , nothing more.

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RE: i have a questin for any master that has exp? - 12/3/2010 3:15:02 PM

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ORIGINAL: poise

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ORIGINAL: DMFParadox

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ORIGINAL: YoungBlondeSlave

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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

Okay, superhorny, let me explain.

1. Your screen name suggests that you equate D/s with kinky sex, and ignore the mental aspects of it altogether.
2. You say that you've found a prospective slave. After one day online. To put this into perspective, I've been looking for a couple of years, and haven't quite found the proper fit yet.3. A genuine, experienced slave is much more likely to respond to someone with experience and knowledge in the lifestyle. He or she is literally putting their life in someone's hands. If you're not sure how to respond to someone calling you "Sir", then you have a long way to go.
4. There are numerous scammers who try to get would-be Doms interested, then hit them up for relocation money. Chances are outstanding that you have connected with one of them.
5. I just checked out your profile. You have expertise in television, web surfing, cartoons, and games, and want a sex slave just for weekends. Get the hell off the Internet and join local groups and see what real D/s is, and if you really want to take part.

Why you hatin'?!

Note the 12 thousand posts Steven wrote before this one. That part should be bolded too.

There is nothing more intoxicating than a man that can offer quality AND quantity,
such as Steven does, although I hardly think he needs any spotlight in order for him to shine.

I second that :)

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RE: i have a questin for any master that has exp? - 12/3/2010 5:34:17 PM

MasterMusashi

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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

Okay, superhorny, let me explain.

1. Your screen name suggests that you equate D/s with kinky sex, and ignore the mental aspects of it altogether.
2. You say that you've found a prospective slave. After one day online. To put this into perspective, I've been looking for a couple of years, and haven't quite found the proper fit yet.
3. A genuine, experienced slave is much more likely to respond to someone with experience and knowledge in the lifestyle. He or she is literally putting their life in someone's hands. If you're not sure how to respond to someone calling you "Sir", then you have a long way to go.
4. There are numerous scammers who try to get would-be Doms interested, then hit them up for relocation money. Chances are outstanding that you have connected with one of them.
5. I just checked out your profile. You have expertise in television, web surfing, cartoons, and games, and want a sex slave just for weekends. Get the hell off the Internet and join local groups and see what real D/s is, and if you really want to take part.

What is nessessarily wrong with having expertice in television, webserfing, cartoons, and games? I understand the "only weekends" part but are you saying people who like the rest cannot be or are not real D's? If so that is very closed minded and ignorant which is funny coming from someone in a fetish community where one would think it common knowledge that people have different tastes outside of the norm.

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RE: i have a questin for any master that has exp? - 12/3/2010 6:50:48 PM

YoungBlondeSlave

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ORIGINAL: anniezz338

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ORIGINAL: poise

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ORIGINAL: DMFParadox

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ORIGINAL: YoungBlondeSlave

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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

Okay, superhorny, let me explain.

1. Your screen name suggests that you equate D/s with kinky sex, and ignore the mental aspects of it altogether.
2. You say that you've found a prospective slave. After one day online. To put this into perspective, I've been looking for a couple of years, and haven't quite found the proper fit yet.3. A genuine, experienced slave is much more likely to respond to someone with experience and knowledge in the lifestyle. He or she is literally putting their life in someone's hands. If you're not sure how to respond to someone calling you "Sir", then you have a long way to go.
4. There are numerous scammers who try to get would-be Doms interested, then hit them up for relocation money. Chances are outstanding that you have connected with one of them.
5. I just checked out your profile. You have expertise in television, web surfing, cartoons, and games, and want a sex slave just for weekends. Get the hell off the Internet and join local groups and see what real D/s is, and if you really want to take part.

Why you hatin'?!

Note the 12 thousand posts Steven wrote before this one. That part should be bolded too.

There is nothing more intoxicating than a man that can offer quality AND quantity,
such as Steven does, although I hardly think he needs any spotlight in order for him to shine.

I second that :)

i'm afraid no one knew i said that in a joking manner (damn computer can't convey body language), i think DarkSteven is a wonderful person who i admire greatly.

< Message edited by YoungBlondeSlave -- 12/3/2010 6:51:35 PM >

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RE: i have a questin for any master that has exp? - 12/3/2010 7:08:33 PM

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Hello Musashi -
I don't think there is anything wrong with having expertise in those things. However, they do tend to smack of horny net geek (especially considering the name and the fact that he's found a "slave" within a day of joining the site).

The *spirit* of Steven's post as I read it was that he needs to make sure he sees himself being involved with a real live person rather than an ideal that he may have encountered online / on television - read "porn".

Best,
sunshine

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RE: i have a questin for any master that has exp? - 12/3/2010 8:50:40 PM

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well i am new to this community so im just trying to gain some knowledge from a few people that may have a better perspective on this kind of exp then me. to be honest its something im still exp with so that i can get better. but hats for the smart answer anyhow.

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RE: i have a questin for any master that has exp? - 12/3/2010 8:53:53 PM

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okay thanks for the replyes everybody incase a few people didnt realize this by now? im new to this and i know when its comes down to it? its a game to find the right person for you and sometimes somebody may not know the right things to say. sooo i though masters might be able to help out a little bit.

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RE: i have a questin for any master that has exp? - 12/3/2010 8:56:54 PM

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well i never did say that i found this person on this site. i guess some people just assume stuff. but no big deal it happens i guess lol. and i just put the name that i did people i dont give a fuck. i say whats on my mind and not afraid or scared to say so.

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RE: i have a questin for any master that has exp? - 12/3/2010 8:59:35 PM

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ORIGINAL: superhorny

okay thanks for the replyes everybody incase a few people didnt realize this by now? im new to this and i know when its comes down to it? its a game to find the right person for you and sometimes somebody may not know the right things to say. sooo i though masters might be able to help out a little bit.

Monopoly is a game, spending time looking for the man that i want to give myself to and spend the rest of my life with is not a game.

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RE: i have a questin for any master that has exp? - 12/3/2010 10:18:32 PM

sunshinemiss

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well i never did say that i found this person on this site. i guess some people just assume stuff. but no big deal it happens i guess lol.

In the absence of actual information that you, as the OP, chose not to clearly give, people made certain presumptions based on what you said. Reading between the lines it is called. If you find inaccurate information about you because you have been remiss in clarifying, you might want to rectify that situation. Or you can just shrug it off and say oh well. It's a choice.

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and i just put the name that i did people i dont give a fuck.

If this were the case, why are you asking us? Do you really want to come into a room of strangers and say "Hey I'm superhorny, and I don't give a fuck what you think." That is in essence what you did. This is the internet. We don't know you except what you present in a bunch of pixels. Friendly question - Is this the impression you want to give?

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i say whats on my mind and not afraid or scared to say so.

Neither is the great majority of us. And I believe we have... however there is a marked difference in the way people post. We learn what we do about each other by interacting.

You are not endearing yourself to folks with your attitude. That of course is not necessarily what you want to do anyway. But *you* came to the people here to ask a question. You might want to consider a certain standard when you ask something of others.

good luck,
sunshine

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RE: i have a questin for any master that has exp? - 12/4/2010 6:11:40 AM

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ORIGINAL: superhorny

im new to this community and ive already found a possible slave. she keeps calling me sir which is really nice to hear. so im wondering is there a certain way that im supposed to respond to her calling me sir?or is she waiting for me to say something that most masters would say after calling me sir?

No there isn't. It's actually better she varies the form of address, ie sometimes calls you by your actual first name, others by "Sir", and then "Master", so that way you can guage whether she is showing the proper respect to you (at whichever point on the scale the circumstances are at that particular time).

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