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superhorny -> i have a questin? (12/2/2010 12:15:55 PM)
how do you know a real dominate male from a fake one?im sure anybody can act like they a dominate male and tell you what to do lol. so im wondering how do you know if there real or not?

Lockit -> RE: i have a questin? (12/2/2010 12:32:39 PM)
Um... once again, dude... a mistress doesn't typically need to know how to recognize fake dominant men. And if we did know, why in the world do you think we would teach you how to fake someone out? lol

lovingpet -> RE: i have a questin? (12/2/2010 12:38:23 PM)
I have an answr. Spelling and grammar. That's all I have to say about that. [;)]

Kana -> RE: i have a questin? (12/2/2010 12:43:37 PM)
Cough, cough, Azeban

lovingpet -> RE: i have a questin? (12/2/2010 12:46:23 PM)
I admit I had to do a google before I did this, but.... giggle That was a good one Kana!

LaTigresse -> RE: i have a questin? (12/2/2010 12:47:20 PM)
[sm=adminwatch.gif] The above is the real twue dominate!!!!!!!!! quote: ORIGINAL: superhorny how do you know a real dominate male from a fake one?im sure anybody can act like they a dominate male and tell you what to do lol. so im wondering how do you know if there real or not?

lovingpet -> RE: i have a questin? (12/2/2010 12:50:30 PM)
....with a questin..... And oddly enough can spell both super and horny flawlessly.

vancraft -> RE: i have a questin? (12/2/2010 3:38:31 PM)
im dyslexic too! [:)] maybe ask him to define how he sees his dominance, his veiws on d/S, kink and all that stuff, see how his answers make you feel that or get a submissive friend to date him first to kinda test out the waters for you

servantforuse -> RE: i have a questin? (12/2/2010 6:23:57 PM)
Are these threads getting more stupid, or am I just getting to old ?

LadyPact -> RE: i have a questin? (12/2/2010 7:17:17 PM)
No, not more. Same level of stupidity. Good way to know...... Anybody who can't tell the difference between dominate and Dominant hasn't got a clue.

sweetsub1957 -> RE: i have a questin? (12/2/2010 7:23:28 PM)
~FR~ What I want to know is why are you asking Dominant women how to recognize Dominant men?? They don't usually need to know that piece of information for Their purposes. Why aren't you asking that question in "Ask a Master??" Plus, the terms "real" and "fake" are subjective at best. Just sayin'. ~sweetsub~

YoungBlondeSlave -> RE: i have a questin? (12/2/2010 7:38:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: superhorny how do you know a real dominate male from a fake one?im sure anybody can act like they a dominate male and tell you what to do lol. so im wondering how do you know if there real or not? Everyone's idea of "real" is different. Figure it out for yourself. Though, i'm more into Dominant Males as opposed to Dominate Males.

CynthiaWVirginia -> RE: i have a questin? (12/2/2010 9:05:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: superhorny how do you know a real dominate male from a fake one?im sure anybody can act like they a dominate male and tell you what to do lol. so im wondering how do you know if there real or not? superhorny, I looked at your profile before answering your questions. Glad to see you discovered all of this and I hope you have fun. You will make less mistakes and learn a lot of practical things if you read SM;101 by Jay Wiseman or The Loving Dominant by John Warren. You are right, many can act "like a Dominant male", especially online. You are looking for a girlfriend to have wild sex with on weekends, right? Nothing wrong with that. I have known a few real Doms in my time. They were responsible, protective, and knew something about leadership. Not the type who grabbed at new toys, broke them, tossed them out and grabbed some more...to break and toss out. Why not read those books (got mine from Amazon.com and ebay), start with some bedroom games with a girlfriend and see where it goes from there. Something sleeping inside of you might wake up and will answer all the questions of why, and what is real. Fakes...I usually think of people coming here and being deceptive about what they really want. If they want to cyber, there are others here at CollarMe in the chatrooms who are into that so they don't need to misrepresent themselves. A lot of people are cutting their teeth on this in a way that makes them feel safe, and to those of us who do this in person...it can be easy to call these people fakes. I have been trying not to, lol. I see nothing wrong with someone saying they are new and not being sure about who they are at first...fakeness comes into play when someone misrepresents themselves or is playing games with others without their consent. The rest is a matter of compatibility, experience, and morals. I am a Domme/switch who chooses not to sub. I do not go looking for Doms, nor try to decide if they are real or fakes. Some are just friends of mine. It is the male subs I have to watch out for, lol, to see if they are sincere, compatible, or are just here to get wank fodder at my expense.

LadyConstanze -> RE: i have a questin? (12/3/2010 6:46:24 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: superhorny how do you know a real dominate male from a fake one?im sure anybody can act like they a dominate male and tell you what to do lol. so im wondering how do you know if there real or not? Usually with a journal entry like the following, they tend to be pretty fake quote: hey everybody im new to this site and new to this community. im just looking for friends with benifits as an every weekend kind of thing were we get together screw each other brains out then hang out for a while. if you live in the nashville,tn close to antioch? then feel free to hit me up anytime. ps i like to dominate so a sex slave would work out just perfect for me. if interested?holla back

superhorny -> RE: i have a questin? (12/3/2010 9:03:23 PM)
i asked because it dosnt seem like something hard to do if you have some common since. if you think about it? im sure if anybody really wanted to be dominate whatever it be male or female. it can get done with the right look and voice tone.

superhorny -> RE: i have a questin? (12/3/2010 9:06:24 PM)
your just getting too old lol.

superhorny -> RE: i have a questin? (12/3/2010 9:08:35 PM)
okay i must say nice response everybody it makes me laught on some of the comments i think ill have to post some more silly questins just to see comments or to see if anybody can actually answer a questin or not? lol this is pretty fun.

poise -> RE: i have a questin? (12/3/2010 9:10:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: superhorny i asked because it dosnt seem like something hard to do if you have some common since. if you think about it? im sure if anybody really wanted to be dominate whatever it be male or female. it can get done with the right look and voice tone. I think you are confusing Dominating with Domineering. You could sound like Barry White for all I care, but if you don't have the strength of character to follow it up with, you'd have a better audience at some karaoke club.

YoungBlondeSlave -> RE: i have a questin? (12/3/2010 9:12:58 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: superhorny i asked because it dosnt seem like something hard to do if you have some common since. if you think about it? im sure if anybody really wanted to be dominate whatever it be male or female. it can get done with the right look and voice tone. It's "be DOMINANT" dammit, not "be dominate"!!!! Dominance isn't something that someone chooses to be. It's something that comes from within. It's like saying that i chose to be a blonde, i didn't. i was born that way. You are oversimplifying the traits that are required to be a good, qualified and respected Dominant. If all you want is a little slap and tickle with your sex, there are probably other places better suited to you other than CM.

october77777 -> RE: i have a questin? (12/3/2010 9:24:16 PM)
@ CynthiaWVirginia: Very well said

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