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Introduction, and a question - 12/3/2010 11:43:28 AM

badboymichael

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Hello. I am a 39-year-old submissive bisexual man in Cuyahoga Falls, Ohio. I love a good spanking and scolding, as well as dildos and ass play. I've been told by many people that my oral sex is excellent. I have a question regarding the "interests" sectionof my profile. When it says "hard limit," does that mean it's something that I like, but just to an extent, and it must be stopped as soon as I ask for it to be stopped? Today was my first experience with cbt, and I want to say "hard limit" on that, if that's what it means.

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RE: Introduction, and a question - 12/3/2010 12:30:44 PM

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hard limit is a don't even go there. not open for discussion, more or less. you are thinking of what is called safewording.

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RE: Introduction, and a question - 12/3/2010 1:49:06 PM

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Welcome and ditto on what he said up there above me

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RE: Introduction, and a question - 12/3/2010 5:56:58 PM

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Welcome to CM and the boards.

A soft limit (though not included) is a maybe and of course the requisite safe word. A hard limit is as explained above, no go ever.

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