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RE: Another new dom - 12/8/2010 8:27:08 AM

shivermetimbers

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ORIGINAL: LEGALLYxBLONDE

very

Sorry for the thread hijack, but I just couldn't help but notice, this person has been a member for 7 months, and this is what her first post consisted of.

Now THAT's keeping it short and to the point.

OP, all I have to say is, I have nothing to add with what has already been said seems sage enough advice, and welcome to CM.

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RE: Another new dom - 12/8/2010 10:45:23 AM

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ORIGINAL: crazyml

Lance,

Quality response.

I really liked "The bottom sets the direction, the top sets the speed" as an idea - I think it would be a really good discussion topic in its own right.

As for ..

"I wear a yin / yang ring to remind me that one needs to keep the relationship flowing. Each feeds the other."

It's a real treat to see some of the new-age "tree-hugging" hippy side to your persona ;-)

Thanks for the kind words.

As to "hippy side" - Give me a BREAK! I saw Hair when it first hit a Chicago stage. I protested the Viet Nam war.....

The yin/yang symbol has been in existence since 300 AD - or so I see from some research, trying to learn which is "male energy," making the other "female energy."

Long, not very pleasant nor profound story re the ring.

Toodles.... have to go get my hair trimmed.... I'm growing it out. I figured a 60-year old man can always clain 2nd (or 3rd or 4th) childhood. LOL!

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RE: Another new dom - 12/8/2010 11:35:06 AM

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ORIGINAL: BurlyBill
Practice. A lot of what we do can be dangerous and it's quite possible to really hurt your sub. If you don't know exactly where the flogger is going to land, you probably shouldn't be using it until you do. I practiced on pillows.

When I started reading your post, this was the very FIRST thing that came to mind. I have certain toys and implements that I actually HIDE when playing, because I don't trust the user's knowledge on how to actually use it. Different implements have different sensations on the body. If you don't believe me, try whacking yourself with them. Or, let her do it.

Positions also have an effect on the feel of the implements, ie flat on a bed versus bent over a chair......looser muscles take a good swat easier than the tightened ones. Alot of it is experimentation, and learning what makes her feel good, too. She should be enjoying what it being done to her, not just simply enduring it.

It's great that you came here to ask for advice...there are alot of folks here who have it to offer. They have pretty much said anything else I'd have to say. There are lots of great books and other resources to be found.....and porn is NOT it!

Welcome to the insanity here that we call collarme......it's always a fun ride!

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