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LadiesBladewing -> RE: Mentor and Protector (5/2/2006 3:34:09 PM)
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ORIGINAL: mistoferin
What about Dommes, surely you don't think that Dommes are better equipped to handle a predator than a submissive?
Actually, because of where local events are held in the city we live in, and because of the hours of the events and things like choice of clothing and distance of parking from the event facility and the fact that SR and I aren't trained in martial arts and don't attend events armed (believe me -- not as outrageous as it sounds in some of the neighborhoods downtown here), when SR and myself attend local events (both of us as dominants, but also as females), we typically request escort from the security provided by the event organizers for things like going from the event to our car afterwards (especially if we've stayed late to talk to folks, and most of the event crowd has gone), or going outside for a smoke. Sometimes, we take one of our more physically adept friends (male or female) with us, sometimes we ask event security to provide escort -- but being safe is just plain -smart-. It doesn't intimate that we're weak or helpless... just that we have really -good- common sense.
Lady Zephyr
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