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RE: Bdsm is wrong - 12/7/2010 12:41:27 AM   
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So your saying your consenting to my stalking of you? Because If I dont here consent then the cops get called and all that nasty stuff.


Only on the boards. And only to parties.

Trust me... there are areas the Ivy Kitten goes where nobody wants to follow...


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RE: Bdsm is wrong - 12/7/2010 12:48:37 AM   
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RE: Bdsm is wrong - 12/7/2010 12:52:46 AM   
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Status: offline 		I don't advise that, Greedy. Last time I tried, I ended up with my back all sorts of out of joint, and the little minx was still two steps ahead of me the whole way. There are some things man was not meant to know...

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RE: Bdsm is wrong - 12/7/2010 12:53:19 AM   
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Status: offline 		I, for one, am grateful for this thread because I have become very educated :)

I learned:

1. All the fun people live in denial :)
2. Both the source and correct usage of eau du anything
3. Aqua is not above using cleavage as a distractionary tactic, even if it doesn't always work (my kinda girl, and hey it's always worth a try!)
4. MisterMonster has beautiful hair
5. And most importantly, Godzilla rules... until the kittehs get called in!

Clearly Steve's thread provided a great deal of useful information!
~s

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RE: Bdsm is wrong - 12/7/2010 12:58:21 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Valyraen

I don't advise that, Greedy. Last time I tried, I ended up with my back all sorts of out of joint, and the little minx was still two steps ahead of me the whole way. There are some things man was not meant to know...


Like what's in my purse!

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ORIGINAL: ownedbyPF

Clearly Steve's thread provided a great deal of useful information!



You know... you may have a point there!

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RE: Bdsm is wrong - 12/7/2010 1:01:30 AM   
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Status: offline 		Val.. I'll take my chances.. I'm an older kitteh than she is ;:)

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RE: Bdsm is wrong - 12/7/2010 1:02:59 AM   
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Status: offline 		Pfft, woman, I can tell you exactly what's in your purse. I have to. I have to find the damn thing for you half the time its not in plain sight!

Wallet, maybe your keys depending on whether or not you've gotten in the car while I'm driving, receipts from Jimmy Johns, your phone, remains of Tic-Tac containers, lipstick, lip gloss, and spare change that hasn't been dumped in the car cupholder yet.

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RE: Bdsm is wrong - 12/7/2010 1:04:20 AM   
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RE: Bdsm is wrong - 12/7/2010 1:09:19 AM   
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RE: Bdsm is wrong - 12/7/2010 1:13:55 AM   
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RE: Bdsm is wrong - 12/7/2010 8:20:45 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Charles6682

Safe,  sane and consensual. Maybe these words have become a "bumper sticker" slogan for BDSM but those 3 words make's [sic!  Should be "make"] all the difference.

Excessive use of apostrophes FIXED!  Blanks inserted appropriately.

Now on to a comment.... yep. SSC is very old.... like 25+ years.  For many "SSC" is too limiting.  Many now use RACK = Risk-Aware Consensual Kink.  "Inventor" of RACK said "SSC what?" LOL!

< Message edited by LanceHughes -- 12/7/2010 8:23:55 AM >

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RE: Bdsm is wrong - 12/7/2010 8:22:03 AM   
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RE: Bdsm is wrong - 12/7/2010 8:23:58 AM   
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RE: Bdsm is wrong - 12/7/2010 8:26:06 AM   
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More like this for me.....................

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RE: Bdsm is wrong - 12/7/2010 8:33:24 AM   
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ORIGINAL: ownedbyPF

I, for one, am grateful for this thread because I have become very educated :)

I learned:

1. All the fun people live in denial :)
2. Both the source and correct usage of eau du anything
3. Aqua is not above using cleavage as a distractionary tactic, even if it doesn't always work (my kinda girl, and hey it's always worth a try!)
4. MisterMonster has beautiful hair
5. And most importantly, Godzilla rules... until the kittehs get called in!

Clearly Steve's thread provided a great deal of useful information!
~s

1. I would like to travel to, and possibly live in, Egypt.  Not sure about the cultural "take" on being gay, much less BDSM.
2. Careful.... de or du depending on male/female of following noun.
Eau de Cologne, but Eau du Vie.
3. Although Kinsey 6, I was once married to a beautiful woman.  I still have an "appreciation" for the feminine form - and the male one, too.  Busy, busy man, I am.  LOL!
4. Yeah, I guess.  Doesn't "do" much for me.... I like No.1 (or No.2) crop - add a 'hawk and we are talking, babe.  We are TALKING.
5.  Sure, yeah..... whatever.

Steve's thread did provide said info, but it took over 200 posts to get to the meat of the matter. LOL!

< Message edited by LanceHughes -- 12/7/2010 8:42:06 AM >

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RE: Bdsm is wrong - 12/7/2010 8:37:48 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Valyraen

Pfft, woman, I can tell you exactly what's in your purse. I have to. I have to find the damn thing for you half the time its not in plain sight!

Wallet, maybe your keys depending on whether or not you've gotten in the car while I'm driving, receipts from Jimmy Johns, your phone, remains of Tic-Tac containers, lipstick, lip gloss, and spare change that hasn't been dumped in the car cupholder yet.


You forgot my lipstick!

Edited cause you didn't... I'm just really tired. But you did forget my pipe and lighter. Also my secret miniature bag of holding.


< Message edited by AquaticSub -- 12/7/2010 8:39:28 AM >

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RE: Bdsm is wrong - 12/7/2010 8:40:39 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LanceHughes
Excessive use of apostrophes FIXED!  Blanks inserted appropriately.

Now on to a comment.... yep. SSC is very old.... like 25+ years.  For many "SSC" is too limiting.  Many now use RACK = Risk-Aware Consensual Kink.  "Inventor" of RACK said "SSC what?" LOL!

Thank you!  I can't speak for other RACK players, but as for Me, I can say I get a little tired of those who want to wave the SSC banner as though it's the pillar of the BDSM community.


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RE: Bdsm is wrong - 12/7/2010 8:49:50 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact
quote:

ORIGINAL: LanceHughes
Excessive use of apostrophes FIXED!  Blanks inserted appropriately.

Now on to a comment.... yep. SSC is very old.... like 25+ years.  For many "SSC" is too limiting.  Many now use RACK = Risk-Aware Consensual Kink.  "Inventor" of RACK said "SSC what?" LOL!

Thank you!  I can't speak for other RACK players, but as for Me, I can say I get a little tired of those who want to wave the SSC banner as though it's the pillar of the BDSM community.

LadyP; You're welcome.

Let 'em wave the SSC banner.  Makes WIITWD more socially acceptable.  People <straights / vanillas inc.> say, "Oh, well.  IF you're doing that, then that's okay.  I can support that."

Meanwhile, that support gives the RACK players an effective cover.  Some nice articles exist about how SSC is too sanitized, too tame, etc.  Just read some a day or two ago.  Forgot links.... left as a exercise for the student,.

But, SHHHHHhhhhh!  Let 'em be.... 'tis an advantage unto us.

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RE: Bdsm is wrong - 12/7/2010 9:11:57 AM   
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ORIGINAL: MisterMonster
Ok, let's talk about something that REALLY matters: Godzilla vs. Cloverfield Monster. Who would win?


Cloverfield, for two reasons. 1) We already beat the Japanese once and we can do it again. 2) Those crustacean insect things that dropped off the monster while he was running around the city. A few hundred bites from those things and Godzilla would go KERPLOOEY!

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RE: Bdsm is wrong - 12/7/2010 9:24:10 AM   
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Status: offline 		Wow, Lance, you have added to my list! I have a new way of looking at that whole SSC thing and will no longer scoff and roll my eyes whenever it gets tossed out there! (I actually mean that.. it always makes me roll my eyes!)

As to the de and du... I am so screwed! I am never going to keep that straight!

Okay, it did take 200 posts, but.. HA! It isn't the first time it's taken that long to get something useful in a thread! :) Some of them never even manage to get there!

mutterring... male noun du, no, wait, de, no.. fuck!

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