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RE: Bdsm is wrong - 12/6/2010 2:22:27 PM

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Pineapple or knife?

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RE: Bdsm is wrong - 12/6/2010 2:24:35 PM

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He's also been divorced like six times........Hey, I ain't no fuckin day at the beach but....I would think a relationship guru could hang on to a skank for more than a couple weeks, just with bullshit and lies (I know I could).

Just sayin'

I wasn't aware that he's been divorced a few times, give him a break, the guy is filthy rich and a relationship guru, his theories obviously work, I mean he gets women to marry him, just when they get to know him they divorce him ;)

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RE: Bdsm is wrong - 12/6/2010 2:26:15 PM

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he hooks up with money dommes? who would have thought that this thread would go there....................shock to me as well
lol.

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RE: Bdsm is wrong - 12/6/2010 2:39:30 PM

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There you go throwing logic into the whole conversation, Aqua. Now what have we told you about that? This is supposed to be a proper thread for blissful ignorance and truly righteous indignation to flourish. *shakes head in disappointment*

I know... I'm a bad monkey... *grins*

Do I even want to read through the rest of this?

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RE: Bdsm is wrong - 12/6/2010 2:52:51 PM

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That's fine, however, theres a lot of people on here very young, some in their teens even, they should be taught the truth about the reasons they are attracted to bdsm, I can uderstand it an older person who maybe doesn't feel it's worth the effort to change, but people can be helped out of this way of life and it's important they should knwo that. Any person in their teens or 20's on here is in need of help and should be given it if they want it, i would genuinely fear for them.

Lemme tell you a story. About twenty years ago a little girl began to realize that she REALLY liked the parts in movies when people were tied up. When she was 16, she never had patience for anyone 'boring'. She liked people who were into the 'weird stuff'.

She was never abused, her parents love her to this day and will drive 5+ hours to get to her if she needs them. When she was 18 she got involved in the kinky and community and realized there were names and labels for what she liked. It was AWESOME.

Today she's still happily involved in the kink community, still hasn't been abused and plans to continue in the kinky community. Although she is noted for having a green hue online...

The moral of the story? Don't worry us babe - we youngin's have things under control.

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People can only be helped if they want to, sadly for many they are in denial.

Someday I hope you realize the irony in this. And that I'm there to see it.

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I'm sure you are a very nice woman but I feel your in denial about this lifestyle, although if it's a big part of your life I can understand you being defensive about it so I respect that, but if you answered honestly why you feel the need for control so much i'm almost 100% certain there'd be a big reason behind it and if you dealt with that at some point you would stop coming on here.

And why are you here? Ooo... right... to 'help us'. Like the pastor in the strip clubs. He's only there to hand out Bibles. Mmhmm.

Face it bub - you've come online to make judgements about people you know nothing about. If you are going to play this game, at least go out into the kink community and meet people face-to-face. Know the person whose life you are dismissing.

But that would... you know... take balls.

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RE: Bdsm is wrong - 12/6/2010 2:58:49 PM

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There you go throwing logic into the whole conversation, Aqua. Now what have we told you about that? This is supposed to be a proper thread for blissful ignorance and truly righteous indignation to flourish. *shakes head in disappointment*

I know... I'm a bad monkey... *grins*

Do I even want to read through the rest of this?

Bad monkey with cute ferrets and no, you don't want to read the rest of this. Unless of course you have a fetish for EuDeTroll like I do.

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RE: Bdsm is wrong - 12/6/2010 3:01:11 PM

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Although she is noted for having a green hue online...

Don't let her fool you. It's not just online. But fortunately, green is one of my favorite colors.

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RE: Bdsm is wrong - 12/6/2010 3:04:43 PM

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Only when I'm in the Ivy outfit and have leaves spirited gummed all over me!

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RE: Bdsm is wrong - 12/6/2010 3:05:41 PM

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*giggle*

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RE: Bdsm is wrong - 12/6/2010 3:26:43 PM

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Like i've said though, if people dont want to change thats fine with me, but if people are uncomfortable with being dominated and im sure theres a lot out there if there being honest, then it can be changed with lots of emotional work, if people are not emotionally blocked at some point in there life then they wouldn't be here, sorry if thats harsh but its true.

I'd be interested in seeing your sources for this statement. I have done three years of therapy with a phd (psychologist), and he gave his blessing to my submissive nature. In fact , he went so far as to say it wasn't abnormal, but a normal sexual variant. Considering he has been practising more years than you have been alive, i would tend to go with his wisdom, rather than yours.

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RE: Bdsm is wrong - 12/6/2010 4:09:37 PM

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i'm afraid

I think this sums it up!

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RE: Bdsm is wrong - 12/6/2010 4:12:50 PM

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Pineapple or knife?

Ricardo Montalban es mas macho.

As Khan Noonian Singh. Totally.

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RE: Bdsm is wrong - 12/6/2010 4:14:55 PM

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I've always wanted to tell a girl. "Blow me, in my rich corinthian leather pants...."

es mas macho, si?

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RE: Bdsm is wrong - 12/6/2010 4:16:18 PM

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Is that the same as lederhosen???

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RE: Bdsm is wrong - 12/6/2010 4:22:11 PM

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No but both are good for blowing.

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RE: Bdsm is wrong - 12/6/2010 4:23:51 PM

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LOL......when I saw that up in the scroll, I thought Ron wrote it!!

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RE: Bdsm is wrong - 12/6/2010 4:24:55 PM

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Rich corinthian leather pants make me puddle. Just sayin'.

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RE: Bdsm is wrong - 12/6/2010 4:28:26 PM

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LOL......when I saw that up in the scroll, I thought Ron wrote it!!

*checks her green boobies*

I think this is the first time I've been mistaken for Ron... I'm not sure how I feel about this. Ron, how do you feel about this?

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RE: Bdsm is wrong - 12/6/2010 4:34:09 PM

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Ok I have read through all of this thread and noticed a few things.

He wants to save the teens and 20 somethings from this "wrong" life, he's 28 and yet he is here.
Anger is only healthy for men, not women. I'm sure I'm not the only woman here who gets angry.
The op said he does some sort of therapy, wonder what kind.
I'm sure there is more, but these caught my eye.

We have a saying. Buy them books, send them to school and they still can't spell.

On that note have a good one everyone.

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RE: Bdsm is wrong - 12/6/2010 4:59:25 PM

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BDSM is wrong? Well, I'm glad someone finally cleared that up for me. I knew it was, there is some real wack jobs out there.

And when a woman says no, she really means yes. I am completely convinced this is correct also.

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