RE: New and curious -- show me the ropes?

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DarkSteven -> RE: New and curious -- show me the ropes? (12/9/2010 12:39:45 AM)
Easy. A slave is a sub, just more so. There is some kind of definite demarcation between the two, and everyone has a different idea of where that dividing line is. But everyone agrees that a slave is more "extreme".

Kinai -> RE: New and curious -- show me the ropes? (12/9/2010 12:56:25 AM)
To me the choice to became a slave was practically my last choice to make. :) And ofcourse it isnt a stupid question!You cant ask any in my opinion.Just go with the advices the others already gave you, be patient, read alot, talk to different kind of people and trust your gutfeeling. And remember; having these feelings does NOT mean you have to obey to everyone.(And there are so-called-Doms that will try to get you to do that).

Kinai -> RE: New and curious -- show me the ropes? (12/9/2010 1:04:44 AM)
O...I just read that there has been millions of topics and fights about those stupid labels, haha!So I wont go there :P It doesnt really matter anyway I think. My Master for excample is a true Master to me, yet He has never read anything on bdsm in His life and isnt interested in forums or things like that.And I am.It doesnt matter. Also, its very good that you think about things you wouldnt be comfortable with.If you want an exclusive relationship, then you shouldnt get involved with someone who wants a poly-household.Theres nothing wrong with that. We all have hard limits, and they should be respected.First of all by yourself.

GotSteel -> RE: New and curious -- show me the ropes? (12/9/2010 11:59:38 AM)
As others have pointed out there's plenty of kink going on in florida. Google is your friend, with a 2 second search of florida bdsm I found this resource for clubs and munches : http://www.sarasotasociety.com/flclubs.html Collarme is the best online kinky dating site that I've found and this half collarchat tends to be a lot about relationship advice and rather light on the nuts and bolts of bdsm. If you'd like to learn more about how things physically work from gear like chastity belts to forms of play like forced orgasm torture the site I'd recommend is http://fetlife.com/ Fetlife is slit into groups based on interest. I'd recommend finding the group for your area, for instance I belong to a New England group where people post the info for the various munches, parties and events going on in New England.

AquaticSub -> RE: New and curious -- show me the ropes? (12/9/2010 5:12:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven Easy. A slave is a sub, just more so. There is some kind of definite demarcation between the two, and everyone has a different idea of where that dividing line is. But everyone agrees that a slave is more "extreme". Not everyone dear. [:)]

GotSteel -> RE: New and curious -- show me the ropes? (12/9/2010 8:26:54 PM)
I agree, I can't say that a slave is necessarily anything more than a sub that calls themselves a slave.

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