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DesFIP -> RE: Introducing vanilla male to a D/s lifestyle... (12/12/2010 4:05:08 PM)
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More info needed op. I don't know if you want to top him or have him top you. I don't know if you want this to be in the bedroom only or what.
Outside the bedroom, you earn the right to be the decision maker by making good decisions time after time and demonstrating the fact that you make damn few mistakes. You learn about things before trying them and screwing up.
Now if you want him to top you, you start with rough sex. You come out naked, drape yourself over his knee and say something saucy like "I've been a naughty girl, Santa" and then squeal in a very girly manner when he spanks you a couple of times, barely hard enough to feel. You then follow that up by jumping on him, squirming, and begging him to have sex with you, sliding to your knees and begging to suck his cock is also a good choice. You follow that with several references to it over the next few days, reminding him how hot it made you, how hot you are now thinking about it, and asking him to do it again real soon, only harder and longer.
You keep this up for about six months, responding positively to what he does. Even if it's painful at the time, if it feels good afterward, you tell him that and beg for a re-occurrence. You also don't expect that a man who has been taught for two or three decades never to hit a girl to overcome this lifelong conditioning in one night. If you aren't willing to wait months while giving consistently positive reinforcement to his exercising his dominance, then walk away now and go look for someone who has already done this.
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