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dominatrixfemale -> MISTRESS looking for fem sub (12/10/2010 11:41:31 PM)
Hi I am mistress Grace desperately hoping to find a submissive female. My search has come up with fakers, wannabes etc! HELP [image]local://upfiles/1123973/CEA13E1AD8404601B0976F56DEB630C1.jpg[/image]

MadamesezSTFU -> RE: MISTRESS looking for fem sub (12/11/2010 12:11:46 AM)
Let's see...you joined TODAY(supposedly), your profile reads profile not found, and you do not like fakers and wannabes.........welcome to the forums[sm=applause.gif]

DarkSteven -> RE: MISTRESS looking for fem sub (12/11/2010 5:34:30 AM)
And since you asked for constructive criticism, Grace (or at least you should have): 1. Your pic shows a grimace. Use a pic with a confident smile. 2. Desperation is NOT a good quality, especially in a Master/Mistress that should be showing calmness and self control.

Dnomyar -> RE: MISTRESS looking for fem sub (12/11/2010 9:07:21 AM)
Wat to go Steven. Now I have to quit being desperate.

Ambyant -> RE: MISTRESS looking for fem sub (12/11/2010 9:24:04 AM)
Is there a classifieds this thread should be moved to? Or, is there already threads about how to set up a profile, what to look for/tell if sub is a fake and then get a submissive female? Just wonderin' is all -seems the OP is pretty distracted and needs all the help.

dominatrixfemale -> RE: MISTRESS looking for fem sub (12/11/2010 7:25:43 PM)
i asked one question is all............thanks for the help.....not a faker....just new here looking for guidence not criticizm grace

DarkSteven -> RE: MISTRESS looking for fem sub (12/11/2010 8:44:00 PM)
What specifically is the question you asked? I took your post to ask how to change things so your search would be more successful, but evidently that wasn't it.

SylvereApLeanan -> RE: MISTRESS looking for fem sub (12/11/2010 9:55:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: dominatrixfemale Hi I am mistress Grace desperately hoping to find a submissive female. My search has come up with fakers, wannabes etc! HELP Is there a question here? I'm not seeing one. However, if you are serious about requesting and taking advice, I suggest you view the FAQ (http://www.collarchat.com/m_3057130/tm.htm). Pay special attention to the sections regarding common complaints and profile help. While the profile help thread is geared toward male subs trying to attract a dominant woman, many of the tips can be used by anyone. Once you have updated your profile, including your photo, you may post here and request a profile review. Some of the forum regulars will make suggestions for further improvements, if they are needed. After that, it is simply a matter of time and patience. It took over two years to find my girl but I did find her. You should also consider participating in the forum discussions. My girl and I became friends here before we transitioned into a dating relationship. In the meantime, you have a golden opportunity to make some good friends.

dominatrixfemale -> RE: MISTRESS looking for fem sub (12/12/2010 12:59:42 AM)
what I meant was I asked for help. It was not a very nice welcome for a newbie to this site. I tried to upload a nice pic but its too large, I will continue on my quest on my own. I was trying to be serious, not desperate...if it sounded that way i am sorry. Anyway good luck I will look elsewhere. grace

DarkSteven -> RE: MISTRESS looking for fem sub (12/12/2010 7:51:29 AM)
Well, Grace, I'm sorry you got a negative feeling. But you're an attractive lady and I suspect you'd do better in person - going to munches, groups, etc., as opposed to online. Google "BDSM <yourarea>" and see what comes up. At least in person you won't have to worry about men posing as lesbians. Good luck with your hunt and of any of the wimmins turn out to be straight, toss 'em my way.

dominatrixfemale -> RE: MISTRESS looking for fem sub (12/12/2010 1:37:11 PM)
Thankyou for the advice.....have a nice day. :) grace

tiggerspoohbear -> RE: MISTRESS looking for fem sub (12/12/2010 6:13:01 PM)
Welcome to CM and the boards. It's a search you'll have to do on your own, no one else can do it for you. As for help, read the boards, newer and older threads. There's lots of good advice to be had. And participate, use the search feature top right hand corner of this page for any subject. If you don't find it available, or it's a thread that's older than say 6 or 7 months, then ask the question to which you're specifically looking for an answer. Start a new thread in the appropriate forum. Be prepared to have thick skin, there's the occasional smartass on the board who's going to peeve you off to no end. Ignore that and go with the advice that makes sense. Your gut instinct is also great to go with.

LaTigresse -> RE: MISTRESS looking for fem sub (12/12/2010 6:16:51 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: dominatrixfemale Hi I am mistress Grace desperately hoping to find a submissive female. My search has come up with fakers, wannabes etc! HELP [image]local://upfiles/1123973/CEA13E1AD8404601B0976F56DEB630C1.jpg[/image] quote: POOHBEAR or HONEYPAWS. Please and thank you. Welcome I wish you the best of luck.

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