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Najakcharmer -> RE: Pay? (4/30/2006 8:40:29 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Beatmehrdr
The big problem is that there is no way for a sub to tell who is a pro and who isn't. If a proDomme states it up front, fine, no problem. However, if she leaves it up in the air with a big giant question mark(which far too many proDommes do here), that is something else entirely. The only way I'm able to tell is to examine the picture and profile in detail. If the profile has a picture or profile that is "too good" that sends up a flag. "Too Good" meaning photographed in a studio, no age/height/weight/lifestyle limits, laundry list of fetishes that is longer than the rest of the profile, etc. Pluses are profiles that complain about subs with laundry lists/oneliners, profiles that talk about the dynamic rather than the activity, and pictures that are attractive but not professionally posed, or profiles with no picture at all. Yes, as a member of the male species eye candy works for me, but a profile with no pic says volumes about the priorities of the Domme in question.
Moderators....is there a rule against "stealth pros" on Collarme? If not, there definitely needs to be. If there is, the answer is "report them when you find them":
Straightforward and honest pro dommes can be a huge asset to the community. "Stealth pros" are just a pain in the ass to everyone.
If you click on my profile, the second pic is a Glamour Shot that a girlfriend persuaded me to have done at the mall. The front profile pic is me about 40 lbs heavier than I am now (prior to taking up weight lifting and hardcore body recomposition nutriton), dressed in plain everyday clothing, no makeup. I keep them switched that way on purpose because I got absolutely sick of getting drool emails from men who'd liked the photo and never bothered reading the profile.
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