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FreesiaBlooming -> Seeking to hand over... (12/12/2010 12:45:34 PM)
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What does it take, besides time and patience, to meet a Man that would allow for a whole relationship?
Loaded and somewhat undefined question so I will address this more closely with my definitions and if it so happens that you agree, fantastic! What a great place to start.
My definition of the Man I would be most inclined to develop a relationship with;
Possess an independence in thoughts, actions, behavior, and desire.
Does not have the need for approval for what he chooses to do in His life, and the one/s He makes decisions for.
There is no need to keep up with what the community has set for the latest acceptability, whatever that is, if he is involved in the "community" at all.
One that understands and accepts personal accountability as the norm, versus the exception.
One that has more than a passing interest in having total control and decision making in the relationship, and feels that that type of relationship is more the norm on a daily basis.
Thick skin!
I have always had a problem with respecting "authority". If you need to start all authoritative, chances are really good I'll end up pointing my finger and laughing at you. That could be embarrassing, so that's where the thick skin comes in.
My definition of a "whole relationship" is one that is NOT defined through "titles", but instead is defined through the intimate relationship chosen of free-will and personal accountability.
B.D.S.M., humiliation, degradation, pain, blood, the "it" factor, et al, just what would limit a relationship if free-will opened it all up?
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