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My not so Vanilla boyfriend - 4/29/2006 6:46:08 PM   
slaveladyj


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had a wonderful surprise for me today. First an email, with instructions to shower, insert butt plug, get all dress up, and leave the house to go to the store. NOT wearing a bra. This girl always wears a bra. That was not easy for me to do. But I was off to buy Saran Wrap. Seems he's leaving vanilla behind.
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RE: My not so Vanilla boyfriend - 4/29/2006 6:47:52 PM   
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And what a nice start too!!

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RE: My not so Vanilla boyfriend - 4/29/2006 7:06:18 PM   
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Looks like the both of you are breaking new ground.  Good luck!

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RE: My not so Vanilla boyfriend - 4/30/2006 3:10:28 PM   
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Aren't pervs grand?  Especially when they come in the form of decent people! 

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RE: My not so Vanilla boyfriend - 4/30/2006 3:46:02 PM   
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It's a dream come true!

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RE: My not so Vanilla boyfriend - 4/30/2006 3:50:44 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Raethepain

It's a dream come true!


<smiles>  IT IS!

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RE: My not so Vanilla boyfriend - 5/1/2006 6:49:29 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Raethepain
It's a dream come true!

It's a hot date...we'll see what happens in the long term.

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RE: My not so Vanilla boyfriend - 5/1/2006 6:52:08 AM   
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That is great to hear best of luck.

Matt's  littleone

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RE: My not so Vanilla boyfriend - 5/1/2006 9:18:44 AM   
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ORIGINAL: slaveladyj

...NOT wearing a bra. This girl always wears a bra. That was not easy for me to do...


good for you!!! a hot date AND a pervert who is concerned about your breast health!!!
 
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beth, you just called your Master a pervert! I'm honored! However, I'm trying to determine if you subliminally "toped from below" by manipulating me into not allowing you to wear a bra for the past 3 years. I thought it was for my pleasure and preference???? Is there the same "healthy" rationalization regarding the no pantie rule too? We'll have to chat about this later...


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"The main reason why bras are bad for breast health is because they restrict the lymph flow in your breasts. There are numerous lymph pathways and lymph nodes in the armpits, under the breasts, and in between the breasts. Normally the lymph fluid washes out waste materials and other toxins away from the breasts, but bras (and especially push-up bras) inhibit this action, so toxins can start to accumulate in the breast, and that can help cancer to develop...

In the early 1990s Singers studied 4,500 women in 5 cities across the U.S. about their habits in purchasing and wearing bras. Though his study did not take into account other lifestyle factors, the results are too striking to be denied:




3 out of 4 women who wore their bras 24 hours per day developed breast cancer.
1 out of 7 women who wore bras more than 12 hour per day but not to bed developed breast cancer.
1 out of 152 women who wore their bras less than 12 hours per day got breast cancer.
1 out of 168 women who wore bras rarely or never acquired breast cancer.

    So the difference between 24 hour wearing and not at all was 125-fold!

    The lymphatic system in the breast only develops fully during pregnancy and breastfeeding, so women who wear bras everyday and postpone having children, and those who do not breastfeed, could be at higher risk of breast cancer."
    http://www.carlsoncarlson.com/angie/archives/002633.html

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    The authors have been criticized for their work. And it is true that no reliable scientific evidence shows a direct link with bra wearing and breast cancer. So let's see a scientific study then. After all, for years people denied that smoking caused lung cancer. Now we are banning smoking in public places
     
    http://www.thebreastsite.com/bras/bras-breast-cancer.aspx

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    RE: My not so Vanilla boyfriend - 5/1/2006 9:24:04 AM   
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    i've been allowed a shelf bra for years, i still bounce but their held high

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    RE: My not so Vanilla boyfriend - 5/1/2006 2:26:19 PM   
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    And just think of all the fun things he can e-mail you to do using said Saran Wrap ! * nod nod wink wink*

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    RE: My not so Vanilla boyfriend - 5/1/2006 2:41:47 PM   
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    The email was just the beginning instructions. He had quite a night plan for me. And this is real time, I'm not sure why he didn't just tell me instead of sending the email, but it doesn't matter. I had a great night of serving, being confined, whipped and a few other interesting things.

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    RE: My not so Vanilla boyfriend - 5/1/2006 3:25:07 PM   
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    quote:

    ORIGINAL: slaveladyj
    The email was just the beginning instructions. He had quite a night plan for me. And this is real time, I'm not sure why he didn't just tell me instead of sending the email, but it doesn't matter. I had a great night of serving, being confined, whipped and a few other interesting things.

    It's easier to organize your thoughts and get it all down if you write them.  It also allows you to read them in private and let your mind go crazy without having direct feedback. 

    I send my partners emails all the time, even if I'm going to see them in a few hours- we tend to check it more often than we do our voicemail.

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    RE: My not so Vanilla boyfriend - 5/1/2006 11:11:16 PM   
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    Seems he's leaving vanilla behind.


    Sounds like the mentoring is paying off.

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    RE: My not so Vanilla boyfriend - 5/2/2006 12:13:50 AM   
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    Oh lucky you *s* I bet that was a fun shopping trip!


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