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RE: What makes a Dom a Dom? - 12/14/2010 1:06:16 PM   
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Though, seriously, if my joking offended you Lance, I am very sorry. While the chair is hot, I think I'd be confused by the guy. Would I be expected to lace up his pants for example? Does he want me for my ass or just my lacing skills?

It's a serious question damn it...




Lets be clear here, i want you for your ass, I can lace my own chaps, and I got a sexy chair.....






This chair is less sexy than previously indicated... Is there a cushy rug?


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RE: What makes a Dom a Dom? - 12/14/2010 3:07:08 PM   
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Status: offline 		I dont need nothin to be a Dom....
well I need this chair..... oh and I need this hat..... oh and a cushy rug... and thats ALL I need...oh and sub.
I just need the chair, the hat, the cushy rug and the sub... oh and this riding crop, I need that!

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RE: What makes a Dom a Dom? - 12/14/2010 3:09:15 PM   
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RE: What makes a Dom a Dom? - 12/14/2010 3:31:13 PM   
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http://cgi.ebay.com/Mahogany-Gothic-Carved-Leather-Throne-Lion-Arm-Chair-/280541920658?pt=US_Chairs&hash=item415199fd92

http://cgi.ebay.com/Carved-Mahogany-King-Lion-Gothic-Throne-Chair-Silver-/330391554969?pt=US_Chairs&hash=item4cecdf0b99

http://cgi.ebay.com/Carved-Mahogany-King-Lion-Gothic-Throne-Chair-Gold-Red-/350369058853?pt=US_Chairs&hash=item51939f9025

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RE: What makes a Dom a Dom? - 12/14/2010 3:40:12 PM   
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Status: offline 		The middle one. Plus the silver would look totally hot with steel, chrome and silver on a naked girl. You've got to know how to accessorize!


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RE: What makes a Dom a Dom? - 12/14/2010 3:47:36 PM   
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RE: What makes a Dom a Dom? - 12/14/2010 3:54:28 PM   
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I want. So bad.


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RE: What makes a Dom a Dom? - 12/14/2010 4:04:03 PM   
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There you go, proper dom on proper chair...

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RE: What makes a Dom a Dom? - 12/14/2010 4:07:52 PM   
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*squeals and hurries her to proper subservient position*


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RE: What makes a Dom a Dom? - 12/14/2010 4:10:10 PM   
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OMG!!!! KITTY-DOM!!!

*squeals and hurries her to proper subservient position*



*curls up on her back while she's kneeling and takes a catnap* Good girl.


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RE: What makes a Dom a Dom? - 12/14/2010 4:44:24 PM   
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RE: What makes a Dom a Dom? - 12/14/2010 6:17:44 PM   
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Status: offline 		I have to agree with Lance, anybody toting their own chair, especially one that looked like that would get thrown out of the bar.

You're dominant if you need to be the leader in your relationship. Doesn't mean you're worth following, doesn't mean you make smart choices, just that you need to be in charge. The worth following, smart choices stuff is how you get someone to follow you.


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RE: What makes a Dom a Dom? - 12/14/2010 6:44:58 PM   
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I have read quite a few and heard quite a few stories about self titled "Masters" and "Dominates" since my return to CM that I am here late night thinking, "What makes a Dom a Dom"? I have my own opinions but I would like to hear from the community in words not links please what you think makes a Dom a Dom. What qualities should that person possess, what kind of temperament, etc... I know there is no cookie cutter formula its just something I was thinking about and well like all good hmmmm thinking about something moments thought I would share the question and see what others have to say.


sofldan,

simply put.......his/her mental attitude.

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RE: What makes a Dom a Dom? - 12/14/2010 7:58:13 PM   
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Status: offline 		yeah I figured as much but was in a musing mood last night and quite entertained on where this topic went. I admit to laughing my ass off at some of the pictures.

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RE: What makes a Dom a Dom? - 12/14/2010 9:25:08 PM   
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There you go, proper dom on proper chair...




they make a throne for Kitty DOm too




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RE: What makes a Dom a Dom? - 12/14/2010 9:28:30 PM   
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Who knew that was Rob Halford?  NOT ME!

Had to google what a "Rob Halford" is or was.  Okay, so he was in Judas Priest and there are some even better shots of him being all Domly-n-such.  LIKE:




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RE: What makes a Dom a Dom? - 12/15/2010 12:25:07 AM   
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Status: offline 		For me, it's simple sexual preference. Submission turns me on. Dominant women don't. All other things descend from that, in this context.

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RE: What makes a Dom a Dom? - 12/15/2010 4:48:32 AM   
DomArtist4u


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Status: offline 		cmon Lance, I thought Rob Halford was some sort of DemiGod to the leather scene? I mean he DID write the theme song...

here he is in all his Domly Leather-Godlinesshttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=45EJ1oYAqKw

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RE: What makes a Dom a Dom? - 12/15/2010 5:00:01 AM   
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which do you think will make me more "Dom"?


Mahogany Gothic Carved Leather Throne Lion Arm Chair, for sure!

Thanks for the Rob Halford hijack, LMAO. Next time I'm in MA I'd like to check out your music collection.

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RE: What makes a Dom a Dom? - 12/15/2010 6:41:37 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LanceHughes

As to pic above: ROF,LMAO!

Who knew that was Rob Halford?  NOT ME!

Had to google what a "Rob Halford" is or was.  Okay, so he was in Judas Priest and there are some even better shots of him being all Domly-n-such.  LIKE:





Glad I'm not the only one who didn't know (or care) who this was.
He's in some heavy metal band so he wears a lot of dark clothes, leather and chains as part of his concert costumes. So what?


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