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Notions? - 12/14/2010 1:15:12 PM   
Lairaimmortelle


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Status: offline 		I posted a couple few weeks ago on an experience I had, and did not quite expect to have so many responses. Because of that experience itself and of the suggestions from those who responded, I have been re-evaluating my thoughts, notions, and/or beliefs pertaining to BDSM and Dom/Sub relations. Im hoping that maybe perhaps I would be lucky enough to find someone who would be willing to help me further define such things. Not through experiences, but mere discussion. Please and tank you.

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RE: Notions? - 12/14/2010 1:29:34 PM   
anniezz338


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Status: offline 		Hi, I just wanted to throw this in too. Tops/bottoms besides the obvious. How would those be "defined"?

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RE: Notions? - 12/14/2010 1:38:58 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Lairaimmortelle

Im hoping that maybe perhaps I would be lucky enough to find someone who would be willing to help me further define such things. Not through experiences, but mere discussion.



My humble suggestion... do some combing through the old threads. Pick a term you want to define further and do some searches on it. You'll find lots of spirited - that is the nice way to put it! - debates over definitions. Then you can piece together what appeals to you and what makes sense to you.


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RE: Notions? - 12/14/2010 3:55:42 PM   
DomArtist4u


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Status: offline 		your looking for someone else to help you define your thoughts on BDSM?

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RE: Notions? - 12/14/2010 6:20:51 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		What you need to do is not try to define others but to figure out what you need in a relationship and how to get it.

Because it doesn't matter if the next ten subs love to be tickled, if you hate it, then you need that to be respected.


< Message edited by DesFIP -- 12/14/2010 6:21:41 PM >

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RE: Notions? - 12/16/2010 8:01:41 AM   
Lairaimmortelle


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Status: offline 		See I know what I am seeking, just need to find a way to have words put it to justice. 

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RE: Notions? - 12/16/2010 8:15:17 AM   
crazyml


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Status: offline 		Hello there,

I've just taken a peek at your profile, and you seem to be pretty good at articulating what it is you're looking for!

("dissent" ought to be "doesn't" though).



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RE: Notions? - 12/17/2010 7:58:39 AM   
DMFParadox


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Status: offline 		Sent a CM...

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RE: Notions? - 12/18/2010 2:13:18 PM   
crazyml


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Status: offline 		Hey DMF... I'm assuming that was a fast reply and that the CM was sent to the OP?

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RE: Notions? - 12/18/2010 7:01:07 PM   
DMFParadox


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