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RE: Happiness is........... - 4/30/2006 4:23:37 AM   
bandit25


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Status: offline 		I suppose, like everyone else, I came looking for some discussion and insights into this lifestyle.  It often helps to find out that other feel the same or, if they don't, why they don't.  I've found very lively discussions here on the boards and, although I wouldn't say I've found any helpful advice, I've read some topics that have given me food for thought.

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RE: Happiness is........... - 4/30/2006 4:46:10 AM   
Padriag


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ORIGINAL: Reasonable

Do you have a special dream,or vision that drew you here?

Just a desire for good conversation.  I'd never heard of this site until a friend recommended it to me, thought I would enjoy the forums here.  I got curious, joined the site and the rest is history.  Like with most things there are times I need a break from it, times when I have no time for it, and times when I'd like to reach through the screen and throttle someone or another.  But most of the time I enjoy the discussions here.

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RE: Happiness is........... - 4/30/2006 4:51:58 AM   
twicehappy


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Reasonable

Do you have a special dream,or vision that drew you here?


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I dreamt of the one who would heal my bleeding heart, a knight on a Milwaukee bred iron horse who would bring me to my knees and keep me at his feet.

I found said sorcerous knight in leather armor who cast his spell with a stainless steel ring on my neck taking me home, to his fairy queen wife who wove tendrils of unending bliss around my heart



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RE: Happiness is........... - 4/30/2006 4:54:03 AM   
givemyall


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Status: offline 		Chocolate!

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RE: Happiness is........... - 4/30/2006 4:56:10 AM   
feastie


Posts: 1793
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Status: offline 		The lifestyle community where I live is very small and, to be honest, one I grew quickly tired of and left.  Well, not that quickly, but after three years of participation, I found myself making excuses not to attend meetings and such.  I joined CM with the hope of finding some likeminded people to talk with and who knows, maybe one day, someone with whom to share my life.  I knew the boards were here, but initially they were just...boring.  They've been re-vamped (good job CM), they added the RSS feed to all the pages and I started reading the boards all the time. 

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RE: Happiness is........... - 4/30/2006 6:20:28 AM   
cuddleheart50


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Status: offline 		There is a wealth of information here, some that I have used, and some I've put aside.  Plus, I have made a few friends here, and thats always a plus.

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RE: Happiness is........... - 4/30/2006 6:33:57 AM   
artglfr


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Status: offline 		I was drawn here by the opportunity to learn and to communicate with submissive females and hopefully eventually meet one . I have done lots of online chatting with ones here but a s yet haven't met any  of them in R/L.

My goal here is to keep reading the awesome information  and eventually meet a female that is close enough to Waco to actually meet. It will happen I am taking it slow and enjoying the ride.

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RE: Happiness is........... - 4/30/2006 7:25:01 AM   
rapture2778


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Status: offline 		i found CM by accident one day...checked it out, liked what i saw, was surprised to see some familiar faces that were in my area in the lifestyle, and i think the message boards are a great to learn more about others, the lifestyle, myself, and to make friends!!!

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RE: Happiness is........... - 4/30/2006 7:30:57 AM   
MistressOfGa


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quote:

Simply put. To make Phoenix happy. He asked me to make a profile on here and interact on the forums and I reluctantly did. Then I relized I did enjoy the discussions on the forums and I see that something silly like a profile on CM made him happy simply because I did what he asked even though I was not comfy with it and didn't understand his reasons.


I love your answer Nika.



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RE: Happiness is........... - 4/30/2006 9:59:55 AM   
Littlepita


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Status: offline 		I'm a message board freak and have several on different topics. Collar Me I got off a link at another BDSM forum and stuck around because I find the people for the most part very respectful and intelligent. I feel accepted here, which is nice considering I’m a newbie to so much. I learn a whole lot from so many of the ones that have really lived this lifestyle and know what they are talking about.

Oh and when I get bored I can go read profiles for the sheer entertainment of it and to see if I can help my best submissive girl friend find a Dom as wonderful as the one who found me.  



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RE: Happiness is........... - 4/30/2006 11:13:18 AM   
MasterRenegade77


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From: Upstate N.Y. (Broome Co.)
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A friend on another site told Me of CM & I should check it out because he knew I was looking ...(Still Am BTW) He also told Me it was free & had many profiles on it so I did, then put up My own Profile... A  couple months ago I posted a thread, I got alot of good advice which I adhered to & alot of encouragement too... Of course I then had the obsession about the Friggin' Ice Cream Cone...(I still hate that fucker) LMFKAO
The rest is History I don't come to the forums alot cause generally by the time I read a thread everything that needs to be said already has been, but I like to read them sometimes & see how the rest of the lifestyle thinks!!!

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RE: Happiness is........... - 4/30/2006 11:33:19 AM   
LadyHugs


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Joined: 1/1/2004
Status: offline 		Happiness is....
1. To find the "one" or "more" slaves that will find me first; as to create a family of my own.
2. A car (domme mobile) that is reliable [sighs-mine won't start today--fuel injector, plugs perhaps needed]
3.  Being able to share what I know with others freely with the hope they will pass the torch to the next generation.
4.  Giving hugs to those who need/want them so much. (I'm a affectionate sort)
5.  Being able to live out my dream career and retire from it alive.
6.  Being owner to 13 beautiful horses that were headed to slaughter or misery, giving them another chance and live happily with lots of love from me.
7.  Being a good Master to my slaves in the past; holding them and loving them (not always sexually); holding a few as they were dying and slip away knowing someone loved them.
8.  Keeping my promises to my father--seeing he was buried in his WWII uniform, military honors and live taps at grave side, even if it was a sung version of "Taps."  Seeing that his foot stone is replaced after being stolen.
9.  (IF I live)...being able to bury my mother and not have to listen to her endless chatter (wish I could gag her but, she isn't into BDSM.  Free from my duties as daughter and care giver.
10. Financial Freedom!

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RE: Happiness is........... - 4/30/2006 12:51:53 PM   
Phoenixandnika


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa

quote:

Simply put. To make Phoenix happy. He asked me to make a profile on here and interact on the forums and I reluctantly did. Then I relized I did enjoy the discussions on the forums and I see that something silly like a profile on CM made him happy simply because I did what he asked even though I was not comfy with it and didn't understand his reasons.


I love your answer Nika.



Thank you.
 
Nika{Phoenix}


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RE: Happiness is........... - 4/30/2006 12:56:37 PM   
unquenchable


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Status: offline 		I was drawn here in hopes to speak openly and without worry of not being completely misunderstood.

Its a good site thus far.

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RE: Happiness is........... - 4/30/2006 3:06:54 PM   
swtnsparkling


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Status: offline 		A friend  who is a member here mentioned CM to me so I came to check it out. Wasn't looking for anything but wrote a profile anyway. I spent about a yr just looking over profiles - being nosy LOL
Then one day another friend suggested I post on the CM message board about an item I was looking for, funny I never knew there was a message board until he mentioned it .I havent been able to leave since.I think I am a CM message board Ho now LOL

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RE: Happiness is........... - 4/30/2006 3:22:49 PM   
truesub4u


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Status: offline 		LOL... sorry I can't resist this... on main board... your post reads... Happiness is.......

All I can think of is Mac Davis.... Happiness is Lubbock Texas is my review window....

Ok... I'll lay off the coffee... and go get some water....
Back to your regularly scheduled threads... LOL


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RE: Happiness is........... - 4/30/2006 3:31:36 PM   
RiotGirl


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quote:

Do you have a special dream,or vision that drew you here?


yeah

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RE: Happiness is........... - 4/30/2006 4:16:22 PM   
TemptingNviceSub


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Joined: 10/1/2005
Status: offline 		Weirdly enough dated this man as a vanilla..then met a Dominant on another site who started talking about BDSM and D/s..peaked my interest, for it answered a lot of what I had held quiet within me for a very very long time.So I did a lot of research discovering more and more trying to find my way through all the information I had accumulated, trying to see where I fit into the scheme of things..then voila!..vanilla man calls me one day we go out to lunch and catch up on the news, when all of a sudden something inside me clicked as he was talking and I knew!..just knew that he was a Dominant..so I just outright asked him..(grin)..and yep! I was right!!..so this not so vanilla man told me about collarme, brought it up on my computer and helped me to just do a basic profile until I was ready to add or delete from it at my will...so Happiness is?...finding CM and all the wonderful people who post upon it!..be well...tempting

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RE: Happiness is........... - 4/30/2006 5:03:03 PM   
swtnsparkling


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Status: offline 		LOL True
maybe I have'nt had enough coffee I am so confused right  now

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RE: Happiness is........... - 5/1/2006 2:53:47 AM   
philosophy


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Status: offline 		...i came here so that i could end up in conversations that included the words 'butt plug' without anyone blushing or phoning the police........

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