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Courageouscrusoe -> protocol regarding admirers (12/15/2010 9:12:42 AM)
if a submissive has a dominant admirer is it appropriate to make contact?

LadyHibiscus -> RE: protocol regarding admirers (12/15/2010 9:14:44 AM)
It's a free internet, if someone added you as a favorite, go on and write them. Maybe they liked your pictures.

stef -> RE: protocol regarding admirers (12/15/2010 9:17:02 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Courageouscrusoe if a submissive has a dominant admirer is it appropriate to make contact? Why wouldn't it be? If you want to make contact, do it. ~stef

DarkSteven -> RE: protocol regarding admirers (12/15/2010 11:45:18 AM)
Screw Dominant and submissive. It's appropriate to make contact if you feel a connection. If she added you to an Admirers list WITHOUT making contact, I'd say that you have an open invitation to contact her. Just keep your wits about you. I've had women Admire me who were scammers. It was easier for them than writing a message to me.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: protocol regarding admirers (12/15/2010 3:28:29 PM)
That's right! All Steven's real admirers send cookies! [:D]

Dnomyar -> RE: protocol regarding admirers (12/16/2010 8:38:58 AM)
True LH. I sent Steven cookies. Its the cell phone he is holding that turns me on.

Dnomyar -> RE: protocol regarding admirers (12/16/2010 8:41:12 AM)
OP if you have a dominate admire beware. Your suposed to admire them. Unless of course your another dominate.

Courageouscrusoe -> RE: protocol regarding admirers (12/22/2010 9:57:27 AM)
thanks to everyone for the advice. Turns out to be a camsite. Oh well, was nice to think about....

DarkSteven -> RE: protocol regarding admirers (12/23/2010 7:32:58 AM)
Sorry to hear that, but I did have a hunch that it might be something like that.

sexyred1 -> RE: protocol regarding admirers (12/23/2010 7:41:49 AM)
Jeez...now scammers are putting you guys on Admirers? That is desperate.

DarkSteven -> RE: protocol regarding admirers (12/23/2010 7:44:29 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sexyred1 Jeez...now scammers are putting you guys on Admirers? That is desperate. It takes them less time than sending a message.

PeonForHer -> RE: protocol regarding admirers (12/23/2010 7:51:33 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven I've had women Admire me who were scammers. It was easier for them than writing a message to me. Yep, I've had more than a few of those. In fact, I think there's been an increase in them during this run-up to Christmas.

YoungBlondeSlave -> RE: protocol regarding admirers (12/23/2010 7:52:46 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus That's right! All Steven's real admirers send cookies! [:D] We have to send them, or else he'll steal them. Steven, what kind would you like? [:D] OP, it doesn't much matter who is listed as an admirer, just read their profile and see what they have to say. You can usually pick out a scammer right off the bat because they have lots of "tells". Dominant or submissive has nothing to do with it, i have lots of Doms who put me on that list randomly. What drives me bonkers is when they don't make contact. Just read their profile and decide if you want to speak with them.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: protocol regarding admirers (12/23/2010 8:10:13 AM)
It's true, I have all sorts of admirers that I have never met, from other countries, other states, nd they never write. I am generally grateful for that.

sexyred1 -> RE: protocol regarding admirers (12/23/2010 8:24:03 AM)
I always wonder why someone does not write. I have a bunch of admirers and no one ever says anything yet they look all the time.

Daddysredhead -> RE: protocol regarding admirers (12/23/2010 8:35:21 AM)
I have several admirers who have never written the first word, and they look at my profile often. I don't mind, doesn't bother me at all. If they want to be a lookie-loo forever, that's ok. Like Hibbie, the fact that they don't write suits me just fine.

barelynangel -> RE: protocol regarding admirers (12/23/2010 8:40:51 AM)
I have a lot of people who add me as admirers and don't make contact. I turned off my profile for a long time because i wasn't into making communication with people, so many times their not contacting me is fine. However, the option is always open and to me the favorite list simply may be used as a reminder status of who you found attractive or saw interest in their profile -- doesn't mean to me that you necessarily are ready to have full out communication with them. I also when i browse profiles come across one i like for some reason will add them as a favorite and many times don't contact them right away. I use my favorite list more as a reminder of those who have caught my interest because many times while i may browse profiles, it doesn't mean i have a lot of time to engage in the get to know you aspect, and sometimes i may just admire them -- doesn't mean i really want to talk with them. Some i do contact. angel

AquaticSub -> RE: protocol regarding admirers (12/23/2010 1:38:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sexyred1 Jeez...now scammers are putting you guys on Admirers? That is desperate. It's an interesting approach. I wonder if it works. ponders it from a marketing standpoint... As for the OP... meh. Contact 'em if you want. I've rarely, if ever, contacted the people who have added me. Every now and then I'll send someone I know from the forums a "Caught you peeking!" message if they viewed my profile as a bit of silliness. That's about it. I occasionally add interesting profiles to my little list but not it's a "Gee I hope they message me" situation. If I want to talk to them, I'll just send them a quick message and see if they want to talk to me. [:)]

LadyPact -> RE: protocol regarding admirers (12/23/2010 3:23:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven quote: ORIGINAL: sexyred1 Jeez...now scammers are putting you guys on Admirers? That is desperate. It takes them less time than sending a message. Also keeps them from being nailed by the spam filter.

Politesub53 -> RE: protocol regarding admirers (12/23/2010 5:04:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sexyred1 Jeez...now scammers are putting you guys on Admirers? That is desperate. You would be surprised how many ladies looking for pay piggies view my profile Red. It isnt as though I look rich is it. [;)]

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