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humbleslaveslut -> RE: what do I need to know about financial domination? (12/20/2010 2:32:29 PM)

i would love to have someone hold that kind of control and power over me....




LadyConstanze -> RE: what do I need to know about financial domination? (12/20/2010 2:34:06 PM)


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ORIGINAL: humbleslaveslut

i would love to have someone hold that kind of control and power over me....


I think you would want to know the person really well because you don't want your life truly to be ruined. Sorry to be a spoilsport...




kalikshama -> RE: what do I need to know about financial domination? (12/20/2010 2:47:45 PM)

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i would love to have someone hold that kind of control and power over me....


Tried it. Was fun at first but got old real fast. Now:
[sm=hardlimit.gif]




Kana -> RE: what do I need to know about financial domination? (12/22/2010 8:46:23 PM)

Hey, people giving me money is a kink now?
I think I like this fetish....




BDSMLearner -> RE: what do I need to know about financial domination? (12/23/2010 3:20:02 AM)

My Master controls every cent and manages all my money. I do not receive money without him knowing. I do not spend without his permission. Aside from the BDSM benefits, there have been financial benefits too. I don't owe any money now before meeting I owed a large amount and struggled to manage.




tarkanas -> RE: what do I need to know about financial domination? (12/27/2010 5:00:21 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Kana

I'm not positive, but in many states you have to have some sort of licensing to give financial advice if you charge for it.
Some common tests include series 7,63, 65 and 66 and for most of those, you need to be sponsored in by a corporation.



Your partially right, you can give all the advice you want that is NOT related to securities. I actually think there may be a way to make this work (speak to a lawyer because I have general knowledge but am not a lawyer) Basically all you are doing is the same thing that every bank out there wants you to think their bankers can do, get you on a more disciplined financial schedule. I don't see anything wrong with you telling someone how to spend their money and how much to invest (by invest I mean put somewhere to grow IE stocks, bonds, cd's, savings). The way to CYA would be to refer them to a true financial adviser for the actual investing but you would handle the part of making them put it in a savings acct.

If you actually wanted to do the investing part (could get sticky but may be possible) you would just have to go get a company to sponsor your 7 and 66 (6 and 63 are lower then this and not really worth getting, I got them first and they are useless).




Need4Squeeze -> RE: what do I need to know about financial domination? (12/28/2010 4:51:34 PM)

I'm yet to get my head around this 'financial domination' business. It seems like an incredibly foolish thing to consider doing over the internet...
It's as if some people have never been scammed before and feel like they're missing out on something.
"Here are my banking details. Please take all my money and give me nothing in return... yes, that sounds like a good idea" [sm=banghead.gif]




tarkanas -> RE: what do I need to know about financial domination? (12/28/2010 5:57:31 PM)

Would you think differently if I told you that I'm a nigerian prince?


I think that you are probably right for the most part. If this were going to work I envision it as being similar to a financial advising session now. It would be in person and the only difference is that the adviser blatantly uses their sexuality and dominance to get the results rather then salesmanship




RLMK -> RE: what do I need to know about financial domination? (12/28/2010 6:03:27 PM)

A) As his fiduciary, you would have to act in HIS best interests - so the money would have to be separate from you, and you'd have to increase it for him - which you know - does the sub? You absolutely do not want to benefit from his investments, aside from a typical commission.

B) As you get older, you may have to worry about any "undue influence" concerns - this is where gay partners used to/still often are blocked from inheriting.

(Not a lawyer... yet - BAR in Feb.)




Artemis711 -> RE: what do I need to know about financial domination? (1/1/2011 3:18:03 PM)

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ORIGINAL: RLMK

A) As his fiduciary, you would have to act in HIS best interests - so the money would have to be separate from you, and you'd have to increase it for him - which you know - does the sub? You absolutely do not want to benefit from his investments, aside from a typical commission.

B) As you get older, you may have to worry about any "undue influence" concerns - this is where gay partners used to/still often are blocked from inheriting.

(Not a lawyer... yet - BAR in Feb.)


I am not sure that this would cross into being a fiduciary (unless you actually did investments rather then just referred them to a FA with the money you forced them to save). I am looking at this as a very simple transaction. The dom uses their control to force the sub to budget and put money away into a savings acct. Then they force the sub to meet with a FA who tells them how to invest it. If this crossed the line into fiduciary responsibility then every personal banker at all off the major banks would be liable for it. Because when they convince you to open that savings acct they do not have your best interest at heart they want the sale and management knows that it is likely to cause you an overdraft when you do an auto transfer (they used to count on the revenue before the banking overhaul). The banker knows full well that this will happen to you but keeps their mouth shut.

I may be looking at this the wrong way and if I ever were to do it I would make sure my E&O insurance was up to date but for the most part banking laws are SUPER lax until you get involved with securities.




Prinsexx -> RE: what do I need to know about financial domination? (1/1/2011 4:31:18 PM)

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ORIGINAL: BDSMLearner

My Master controls every cent and manages all my money. I do not receive money without him knowing. I do not spend without his permission. Aside from the BDSM benefits, there have been financial benefits too. I don't owe any money now before meeting I owed a large amount and struggled to manage.

What you describe is consensual financial management and not financial domination




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