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cavaleirojustica -> Actually it is reasonable to expect find a slave (or whatever you are seeking) on internet? (12/18/2010 5:26:27 PM)
Actually it is reasonable to expect find a slave (or whatever you are seeking) on internet? And it is still reasonable to find one that live really far away? If I search for example in my country, I find mostly whores (literally, no offense here) or already taken people. Not only on this site, but almost anyone that I tried, even vanilla ones. Also the scene here is rather limited, the amount of sub females (what I seek) is really small (most of the women here are actually Dommes, or WAAAAAAY older than me, like the difference between our ages being the double of my own age...) so I am searching on internet, but I am doubting it is feasible at all. (feasible is different from possible, I know it is possible...)

poise -> RE: Actually it is reasonable to expect find a slave (or whatever you are seeking) on internet? (12/18/2010 5:45:07 PM)
Seja bem-vindo. Uma boa mulher é difícil de encontrar, mas não desista. Ela está lá fora esperando por você. Boa sorte em sua busca!

DMFParadox -> RE: Actually it is reasonable to expect find a slave (or whatever you are seeking) on internet? (12/18/2010 6:26:57 PM)
Offer your services as a pimp. Serious answer: It's pretty difficult for men and women online, no matter the context, to form a relationship. I have a few brazilian friends that do ok, but they've invested a lot of time and effort into their online presence. Plenty are doing it, but if you want faster and more assured results your best bet is to go out and just meet people.

Hillwilliam -> RE: Actually it is reasonable to expect find a slave (or whatever you are seeking) on internet? (12/18/2010 7:17:58 PM)
Remember, All you need is ONE good one.

cavaleirojustica -> RE: Actually it is reasonable to expect find a slave (or whatever you are seeking) on internet? (12/18/2010 7:28:46 PM)
I forgot to say, I am planning to move, thus if I find someone here it might be a problem if they don't want to go with me (and by move I mean, go to other country, permanently.)

DMFParadox -> RE: Actually it is reasonable to expect find a slave (or whatever you are seeking) on internet? (12/18/2010 7:37:48 PM)
Sounds like an opportunity, actually. Find someone in the place you plan to move to. If nothing else, the search will grant you a little familiarity and understanding of your new home.

cavaleirojustica -> RE: Actually it is reasonable to expect find a slave (or whatever you are seeking) on internet? (12/18/2010 7:58:27 PM)
Now that you understood me, I wonder: Searching in the places where I want to go with internet make some sense? Or searching there physically would be better? (even if even more unlikely to happen now)

ThatDamnedPanda -> RE: Actually it is reasonable to expect find a slave (or whatever you are seeking) on internet? (12/18/2010 9:22:29 PM)
Hi, Cavaleir. Good questions, questions that a lot of other people have wrestled with - and, for some of us, still wrestle with every day. quote: ORIGINAL: cavaleirojustica Now that you understood me, I wonder: Searching in the places where I want to go with internet make some sense? Or searching there physically would be better? (even if even more unlikely to happen now) Make sense? Yes, absolutely. Many people do exactly that. Why not do both? If you know where you're moving to, you can use the internet to search for possible partners in that area, and get to know them by e-mail. I read your profile, and you seem like a very sincere, interesting, and communicative man. I'm sure you'll have no trouble getting to know people that way; and you seem like the type who will be honest about your intentions, so it seems likely that any friendships you form that way will be quite positive and constructive. Make some friends that way, and then take a trip to where they live and meet them in person. Good luck. Where are you planning to move, anyway? Maybe we could arrange some sort of trade. The United States can trade me to Brazil for you. Do you like snow?

cavaleirojustica -> RE: Actually it is reasonable to expect find a slave (or whatever you are seeking) on internet? (12/18/2010 10:02:42 PM)
Heh, you sure you want to come here? I am leaving Brazil because I got nearly killed too much and I don't want to die young... (I lived in several locations, and in several of them I had bullets waking me up at night, or one time just flat out a city-wide terrorist attack with several arsonists, bombers and heavy weapon shooting against buildings and any people that worked for government). But I wonder if I like snow, I never saw snow before :P (I was thinking about going to Canada, heard that there snow is something that will be hard to avoid)

Twoshoes -> RE: Actually it is reasonable to expect find a slave (or whatever you are seeking) on internet? (12/18/2010 10:46:46 PM)
It's not the snow that's hard to avoid. It's the bone-chilling cold.

BKSir -> RE: Actually it is reasonable to expect find a slave (or whatever you are seeking) on internet? (12/18/2010 10:51:30 PM)
I certainly think it is. I had a wonderful pet for a couple years whom I met on the internet. Alas due to border issues, we're no longer together. I've met another as well, who will be with us soon, and we won't have to worry about those silly governmental lines in the dirt. I couldn't ask for two more wonderful people to know in my life either.

Kana -> RE: Actually it is reasonable to expect find a slave (or whatever you are seeking) on internet? (12/18/2010 11:04:17 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: cavaleirojustica Actually it is reasonable to expect find a slave (or whatever you are seeking) on internet? And it is still reasonable to find one that live really far away? Nah. It's never happened, like the moon landing,the Piltown Man, The Cardiff Giant and the reptilian shapeshifting agenda. But hey, they told the Wright Brothers that flying was impossible...

DarkSteven -> RE: Actually it is reasonable to expect find a slave (or whatever you are seeking) on internet? (12/19/2010 3:42:17 AM)
Okay. The question is, where are you moving TO? And snow itself isn't that bad, although it takes a while to get used to driving in it. If you're not used to snow and cold, then Canada would be a shock to your system. There's a huge difference between somewhere where the temps drop down to 20 degrees F at night in December with a dusting of snow, and somewhere where is stays below 20 F for a month or two and can drop well below 0 F, with come serious snowstorms. But if you want to continue to look in a place that has no active scene, just date vanilla women, and see if they're amenable to light topping at first.

sunshinemiss -> RE: Actually it is reasonable to expect find a slave (or whatever you are seeking) on internet? (12/19/2010 6:35:36 AM)
Great profile! You are charming. Come to Korea. They'll be all over you... like flies to honey....[;)]

Missokyst -> RE: Actually it is reasonable to expect find a slave (or whatever you are seeking) on internet? (12/19/2010 8:55:36 AM)
I couldnt handle all that snow for sure.. lol but when I read about living in a country where bullets go flying my first thought was I'll bet that doesnt happen much in Canada.

cavaleirojustica -> RE: Actually it is reasonable to expect find a slave (or whatever you are seeking) on internet? (12/19/2010 9:22:44 AM)
My profession is make games, the top places for that is Canada, Japan, Scandinavia and some other locations in Asia. (US is... hard to explain).

LadyPact -> RE: Actually it is reasonable to expect find a slave (or whatever you are seeking) on internet? (12/19/2010 9:29:44 AM)
I don't know how reasonable it is. It isn't impossible, but it isn't highly likely, either. It's My understanding that the percentage of long term dynamics/relationships is relatively small. It happens, but not nearly as often as folks would hope. In My personal opinion, the internet is just a tool and depending on if you use the tool in the right way is going to have a lot to do with your success. I'd definitely say it would be a good idea to look in whatever location that you decide will be your new home. It will give you a jump start to meeting people for when you actually get there.

kalikshama -> RE: Actually it is reasonable to expect find a slave (or whatever you are seeking) on internet? (12/19/2010 9:33:22 AM)
South Florida has an active BDSM Scene, no snow, and lots of Latin Americans. I have no idea about the gaming industry. Best of luck to you!

thishereboi -> RE: Actually it is reasonable to expect find a slave (or whatever you are seeking) on internet? (12/19/2010 9:45:08 AM)
I met me ex on aol. We were together for 3 years and 10 years later are still good friends. That said, I think I was just really lucky. I had only been talking to her for about a week and one night she was hungry and I offered to buy her dinner. When I decide I am ready to look again, I will probably go to local parties, but will definitely keep my eyes open on here. While I have proved to my self that it is not impossible to find people online, I think it is a lot harder than doing it face to face. I don't look for anyone who isn't local. I know that cuts down the playing field, but I have no intention of moving from the area so I don't see the point. A very close friend of mine told me the best way to meet people in the lifestyle is to go to events and parties and volunteer to help. And she was so right. In fact that is how she met her partner and how I got to be part of a really awesome leather family. What more could a boi want[:)]

phoenixmoonn13 -> RE: Actually it is reasonable to expect find a slave (or whatever you are seeking) on internet? (12/19/2010 12:17:39 PM)
i met my master in secondlife were now living together i moved countries to be with him. it can happen juust meetin the right person is the issue. i was ;lucky to meet the one so to speak but many get hurt and a few llike me it works out for

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