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Trying to find my place - 12/19/2010 7:15:38 AM

niquefreek

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So I have gone through lots of soul searching lately, and have come to the realization that I am a cuckquean. I get off on the humiliation of having my husband fuck other women, whether without me or in my presence and have him telling me all about it and humiliating me etc. So far its only been not in my presence as we haven't been able to find a woman to let it happen with me there. I have been trying to find more information, but it seems most things out there are for either cuckolds; or for slaves. I don't know exactly where I fit into this whole continuum. Its not a lifestyle, its more of a frequent kink; and I dont enjoy pain at all just humiliation. This all has made it really hard to talk to people in this lifestyle as either I get accused of being a poseur, or not being hardcore enough etc.
Is there anyone out there willing to talk to me about how to make the things that I want happen? Who lives this either as a lifestyle or just a kink that isn't a slave?

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RE: Trying to find my place - 12/19/2010 9:44:57 AM

DarkSteven

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Welcome to collarme!

My suggestion is to rewrite your profile as a man's or couple's profile. The women you seek would be ducking your husband in this scenario, and there's hardly a mention of him at all in it.

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RE: Trying to find my place - 12/21/2010 11:06:05 AM

niquefreek

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Thanks, I didn't think of it that way!

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RE: Trying to find my place - 12/21/2010 11:08:18 AM

DarkSteven

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*Sigh*... "ducking" was the wrong word. Suffice it to say that the D was the wrong letter.

And yer welcome.

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The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

Quit fretting. We men love you."

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RE: Trying to find my place - 12/22/2010 9:28:52 AM

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Welcome to CM.

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