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LadyPact -> RE: how do you tell a mistress that they're not strict enough? (12/21/2010 8:03:24 AM)
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ORIGINAL: SexyBossyBBW
I disagree. I think a lot more information would need to occur, before you could say that.
Micromanaging is not everyone's cup of tea, and simply because we allow you a say, does not mean, you have equal say. As a dominant, it's easy to say, you will always do what I want 100% of the time. As a human being however, I do derive some satisfaction in being in a relationship with an enthusiastic sub/servant, so I do consider whether we are compatible, when he admits to enjoying things that I'm averse to. It's a relationship, even if we name it and M/s one. M
This is where I think I see this differently than some. I am a high protocol person and I tend to run obedience based dynamics. I don't consider what I do to be micromanagement. Once a standard is in place, I shouldn't have to harp on someone years later about how a certain thing gets done. The only time I should have to deal with that is if someone isn't performing up to the standard.
I do tend to think this is an area where folks should look at compatibility. For example, I match well with folks who crave a lot of structure, rather than a more laid back situation.
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