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males holding their orgasm - 12/21/2010 5:05:30 PM

ISOPussySlut

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I just have to know, how do you hold off your orgasm when you're being told you can't cum yet?

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RE: males holding their orgasm - 12/21/2010 5:39:04 PM

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Ask your top to teach you. This is usually done by them seeing the signs that say you're on the edge, or you telling them, and they then hit you with something sufficiently painful that you back down a bit. Have this combined with a phrase such as "don't you dare cum". After a time, the phrase, if it is used every time, will produce a pavlov effect of expecting pain and backing down from that edge. At that point, the phrase alone will stop you.

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RE: males holding their orgasm - 12/21/2010 5:41:04 PM

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Practice, practice practice. (that's the fun part)

My personal record is 5 hours and I' m not a sub. I'm just a dom that likes to make a sub experience someting she hasn't before.

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RE: males holding their orgasm - 12/22/2010 7:15:32 AM

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That's a hard one and it drives me nuts but if the Domme is controlling it you might find something new that your body can do. But it still drives me nuts.

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RE: males holding their orgasm - 12/22/2010 7:54:35 AM

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suck it up...

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RE: males holding their orgasm - 12/23/2010 9:20:19 PM

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for me i can tell if i am getting close and can either change something to allow less stimulation or altered stimulation to let me hang on. but if i have cum earlier i can go much longer. it all depends on what my MIstress wants

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