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SAMHAIN09 -> What makes a good Dom? (12/22/2010 1:09:03 AM)

I feel that it's respect and love. I also feel that those who trample (metaphorically speaking) on their slaves/subs and completely disregarding their safety those types of Doms in my opinion aren't even worthy of being called human.




YoungBlondeSlave -> RE: What makes a good Dom? (12/22/2010 1:14:44 AM)

i think it's different for everyone. One i'm speaking to right now keeps telling me he's new and wants to learn...i don't think i would have known hadn't he told me. He's got it all, and he's humble. i think, he is already a great Dom and i am excited to see how much better he gets as he learns more about it.




DesFIP -> RE: What makes a good Dom? (12/22/2010 5:50:33 AM)

Competence is enormously important. If you want the right to make the decisions, then you must demonstrate competent decision making. If you have a history of screwing up, then no one with any sense would allow you to screw up their life also.




osf -> RE: What makes a good Dom? (12/22/2010 8:41:46 AM)

she makes him a great dom




RCdc -> RE: What makes a good Dom? (12/22/2010 12:23:36 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: SAMHAIN09

I feel that it's respect and love. I also feel that those who trample (metaphorically speaking) on their slaves/subs and completely disregarding their safety those types of Doms in my opinion aren't even worthy of being called human.


Let's dsect your statement...

I feel that it's respect and love. I also feel that those who trample (metaphorically speaking) on their partners and completely disregarding their safety those types of people in my opinion aren't even worthy of being called human.

What you described has nothing to do with being a good dominant, but everything to do with being an alright human being.




agirl -> RE: What makes a good Dom? (12/22/2010 3:00:14 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: RCdc

quote:

ORIGINAL: SAMHAIN09

I feel that it's respect and love. I also feel that those who trample (metaphorically speaking) on their slaves/subs and completely disregarding their safety those types of Doms in my opinion aren't even worthy of being called human.


Let's dsect your statement...

I feel that it's respect and love. I also feel that those who trample (metaphorically speaking) on their partners and completely disregarding their safety those types of people in my opinion aren't even worthy of being called human.

What you described has nothing to do with being a good dominant, but everything to do with being an alright human being.


Ditto. I'll add that love doesn't have to have a jot to do with it. Being an *alright human being* rates pretty highly.

agirl







osf -> RE: What makes a good Dom? (12/22/2010 3:03:52 PM)

dominants can be assholes too




agirl -> RE: What makes a good Dom? (12/22/2010 3:05:39 PM)

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ORIGINAL: osf

dominants can be assholes too


Anyone can be an arse-hole.

agirl




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