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Dom/Domme, sub /sub relationships - 4/30/2006 10:39:42 AM

barbiealto

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curiosity is getting the better of me!!

Is there anyone out there in a Dom/ Domme or sub /sub relationship and if so how does it work? I have known of one Dom/Domme couple who were vanilla together but each had their own subs, but I have never come across a sub/sub relationship

thanks
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RE: Dom/Domme, sub /sub relationships - 4/30/2006 10:52:10 AM

Proprietrix

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ORIGINAL: barbiealto
I have never come across a sub/sub relationship

If you find them, send them my way. I'm looking for a sub/sub couple. :)

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IMO, IMHO, YMMV, AFAIK, to me, I see it as, from my perspective, it's been my experience, I only speak for myself, (and all other disclaimers here).

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RE: Dom/Domme, sub /sub relationships - 4/30/2006 12:56:12 PM

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I know a sub/sub couple casually that I have met at play parties a couple of times. They seem to be happy and to have a good relationship.

From what I can gather, the male is seeking a Female Dominant, and the woman is seeking a Male Dominant, so they do not serve together.

The male approached Me about regular one-on-one play sessions with Me at My home, but that's not what I'm looking for at all, so I told him he'll just have to catch Me at parties

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I also occasionally get applications from sub couples who want to serve together, even though I specifically state in My profile that I'm not interested in that.

Lady Topaz

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RE: Dom/Domme, sub /sub relationships - 4/30/2006 2:12:06 PM

MsElle

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My partner and I are both Dominant - neither of us ever switches - and it works just beautifully for us. We take on both male and female slaves who serve us together (we are not so hung up on the whole boy/girl thing and have found that the notion of serving both Master and Mistress of the house is a very appealing one to many submissives regardless of sexual orientation) and would love to find a submissive couple to serve us.

So far we haven't found the right ones - but you let us know if you find 'em first! *wink*

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RE: Dom/Domme, sub /sub relationships - 5/1/2006 4:09:29 AM

barbiealto

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If anyone knows of any in england please let me know!!!

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RE: Dom/Domme, sub /sub relationships - 5/1/2006 7:07:56 AM

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My wife and I both ID as switches but we'd like to sub together if we could find the right Domme. It would be hard because our true commitment is to each other and we aren't really interested in 24/7 or non-sexual BDSM.

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