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MidnightKat5000 -> Too quick to orgasm. (12/22/2010 4:08:29 PM)
Does anyone have any ideas or suggestions regarding ways in which to help with prolonging the ole male orgasm? This question is dealing with plain sex. My boy is extremely sensitive and cums at the drop of a hat. The hands-free cumming whilst being penetrated is certainly incredible, but it ends up cutting sex short.

itsmeinLV -> RE: Too quick to orgasm. (12/22/2010 4:23:55 PM)
I can't offer any advices or suggestions but just wanted to say I am VERY jealous of that ability of his! [8D]

DesFIP -> RE: Too quick to orgasm. (12/22/2010 4:26:21 PM)
How long till he can go again? Because usually the second one won't be so fast. So if he needs an hour recovery, you could have him cum at 5 and then at six he should be ready to go again and able to wait for you. Beyond that, small bits of pain when he's on the edge can do it. Along with a stern voice saying "don't you dare cum" or some such phrase. A wooden spoon on the inner thigh always brings me back when I don't think I can hold it. And then you return him to the edge, and do it again and again. Eventually the phrase you say each time should be sufficient to keep him from cumming.

kalikshama -> RE: Too quick to orgasm. (12/22/2010 4:27:10 PM)
Climaxagen: http://www.climaxagen.com/

81song -> RE: Too quick to orgasm. (12/23/2010 11:08:56 AM)
I would say time and practice. If he is younger that I do understand but it does take training and maybe just have him on his own have him masturbate but hold back. If one does this enough time he will find he can control his orgasm. But it all starts with him and him wanting to try it. I think there is a book about it somewhere.

lickenforyou -> RE: Too quick to orgasm. (12/23/2010 7:18:12 PM)
Yeah, I'd kill to be able to climax from penetration.

xssve -> RE: Too quick to orgasm. (12/24/2010 9:52:40 AM)
Be very gentle - like teaching woman to have multiple orgasms, if you have huge orgasm/ejaculation, you'll just fall asleep - if you can get him just to the edge, the longer you keep him there the better, which might mean backing off completely for a bit, then doing it all over, repeatedly - the extreme sensitivity of this state however, means it doesn't take much to send him over the edge, but if you can master this, he'll not only stay hard longer, but the refractory period will be shorter. I'd be careful of orgasm denial altogether, the prostate can only hold so much and if you don't drain it, it could result in an infection, which is difficult to cure, and involves frequent ejaculation. I just recently learned of the practice of prostate milking, which involves ejaculation without orgasm, you might google that.

xssve -> RE: Too quick to orgasm. (12/24/2010 9:56:26 AM)
I personally find it almost impossible to orgasm from a blowjob, so if I'm getting too close and I want to keep going, I can just fuck her face for a while, and your mouth is more sensitive and easier to control than any of your other holes. If it happens to be an assfuck and shes not into ATM, a babywipe can come in handy - that or a lot of condoms.

xssve -> RE: Too quick to orgasm. (12/24/2010 10:05:29 AM)
Oh, deep breathing might help too - most people tend to hold their breath during orgasm - it's a technique I learned as a younger man with a demanding girlfriend - I'd be fine till she started getting close, buckin' and snortin', and workin' it hard, lol.

dreamerdreaming -> RE: Too quick to orgasm. (12/24/2010 11:21:38 AM)
For me, the sex is done when I'm done. Not when he is. I'm the dom. OP: Whether, or when your male orgasms, should not "cut short" the sex. Unless he's the dom. Just sayin'. If its an issue of really needing something hard in you at a time when he's soft- that's what strap-ons, or dildos, etc. are for. There's no need for you to wait on him, or cater excessively to his penis. [:)] Wow, I'm just so snarkaliciously helpful today. I love me. [:D]

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