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Favors for Master - 12/24/2010 3:25:24 PM

ldslave

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I am new to this so need to know how and what favors I can do for my long distance Master. I am in a sexless marriage and a great friend is willing to be my long distance Master.

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RE: Favors for Master - 12/24/2010 4:02:53 PM

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imo...biggest favor you can do for him....tell your husband about your interest or get divorced.

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RE: Favors for Master - 12/24/2010 4:05:55 PM

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Sorry.....not an option at this time due to kids, money, etc.... My master loves me the way I am.

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RE: Favors for Master - 12/24/2010 5:04:54 PM

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You mean unfaithful and deceptive?

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RE: Favors for Master - 12/24/2010 5:24:56 PM

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Come on, that's like asking * What present should I buy my Mum* ....... The answer is BOUND to be * No idea*. Think about it.

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RE: Favors for Master - 12/24/2010 5:40:44 PM

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So, You are saying I can't be his sub cause I am married???

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RE: Favors for Master - 12/24/2010 5:58:31 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: ldslave

So, You are saying I can't be his sub cause I am married???

Not at all.

No idea where you got that from, as I'm the LAST person to care about whether you are married or not. (I have people for that)

I'm saying you're asking a bit of a stupid question. Don't be silly, or get a grip, whichever applies.

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RE: Favors for Master - 12/24/2010 6:00:30 PM

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ORIGINAL: ldslave

So, You are saying I can't be his sub cause I am married???

Interesting that you picked the only person that DIDN'T mention your married status, to question. hah!

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RE: Favors for Master - 12/24/2010 6:17:43 PM

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I am new.....I will figure it out!!!! Thanks!!

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RE: Favors for Master - 12/24/2010 6:55:53 PM

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So, You are saying I can't be his sub cause I am married???

That is a choice you make. We pity your clueless husband. How would a group of strangers know what sort of favors your master enjoys? We do not know him or his likes/dislikes. Why don't you ...........................................................ask him?

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RE: Favors for Master - 12/24/2010 7:09:30 PM

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True. I will ask him. Please dont judge me unless you know my life. Thank you

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RE: Favors for Master - 12/24/2010 7:12:48 PM

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Please dont judge me unless you know my life.

Please don't post on a message board if you don't like being judged. Thank you.

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RE: Favors for Master - 12/24/2010 7:24:34 PM

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Who is the male in your profile? Your husband or your long distance master? Seems odd to set up a LD couples profile (?)

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RE: Favors for Master - 12/24/2010 7:25:44 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

You mean unfaithful and deceptive?

Friend speaks my mind.

Be careful. Like attracts like.

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RE: Favors for Master - 12/24/2010 7:29:54 PM

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I guess the truth hurts. Sorry. Dumb question. I have alot to learn!!!!!

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RE: Favors for Master - 12/24/2010 8:45:13 PM

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ldslave, I'm sorry, you're right. I do NOT know your situation. But regardless, you will be torn in two directions. You have made your choices, and it will be a hard life.

That said, the man is more an individual than a Master for this kind of thing. The obvious answer is to do whatever favors he wants, and he knows that better than we do. No Harry and David Master Favor of the Month Club.

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RE: Favors for Master - 12/24/2010 8:49:03 PM

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ORIGINAL: ldslave

I am new to this so need to know how and what favors I can do for my long distance Master. I am in a sexless marriage and a great friend is willing to be my long distance Master.

My two comments:

A. if you are in a sexless marriage, either work on it or get out
B. how is a long distance Master going to satisfy your sexless marriage. won't that be sexless as well?

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RE: Favors for Master - 12/24/2010 9:22:12 PM

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He's the Master. Seems like he would tell you what he wants.

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RE: Favors for Master - 12/24/2010 10:34:32 PM

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Idslave... I'm with DarkSteven on this one... cause you will find yourself becoming torn in two directions. In terms of what favors you can do for your friend/Master, you and him need to have some conversations about that and figure it out between yourselves. Good luck

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RE: Favors for Master - 12/24/2010 11:56:16 PM

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you have to get to know him and what feels right no one can tell you and each person is different. i was in thinking of divorce but still living with my now ex when i met my first master, it was very very difficult to maintain both as there were always things i wanted to do to please master but couldnt as i was in the marrage still

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