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looking for attention.... - 12/25/2010 3:59:43 PM   
malc


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Status: offline 		hello , 10 dommes 10000000 subs. how can I stand out?
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RE: looking for attention.... - 12/25/2010 4:05:05 PM   
SylvereApLeanan


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Status: offline 		Start by reading the FAQ (http://www.collarchat.com/m_3057130/tm.htm) and pay special attention to the links dealing with Profile Help and CMail Help.  If you follow the tips included in those three documents, you will have much more success.

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RE: looking for attention.... - 12/25/2010 4:19:45 PM   
malc


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Status: offline 		ty for your reply ...... without trying to be rude I read those before I made the post and i asked for real not meant to be rude

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RE: looking for attention.... - 12/25/2010 4:29:14 PM   
SylvereApLeanan


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Status: offline 		If you've read the Profile Help and CMail help threads and still don't know how to stand out, no one here is going to be able to help you.  The forum regulars collaborated to put together the information in those threads.  You've got our best advice already.  There isn't a lot more we can do.
 
Edited to add:
 
After viewing your profile, it's pretty obvious you have not read the Profile Help thread.  If you did, you haven't taken any of the advice offered in it.  Apparently, you want to stand out by establishing your reputation as someone who is lazy and/or a liar.  If that's how you roll, fine, but don't expect the women here to let it slide.  We will call you out on it.  Just sayin. 
 
Now, if you're serious about finding a dominant woman for a relationship - whether you're looking for something long-term or just for casual play - then go read Profile Help and implement the suggestions we've given you.  Once you update your profile and photo, you may come back and request a profile critique.  We'll help you, but we're not going to spoon feed you information we've already gone out of our way to provide in the FAQ. 

< Message edited by SylvereApLeanan -- 12/25/2010 4:38:51 PM >

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RE: looking for attention.... - 12/25/2010 4:30:26 PM   
Kana


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RE: looking for attention.... - 12/25/2010 4:35:12 PM   
SL4V3M4YB3


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RE: looking for attention.... - 12/25/2010 4:45:28 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		No offense meant back to you, but it's really not our job to pay attention to you.

I know the FAQ section can be a lot to digest, as the folks who put it together tried to make sure there was a lot of information in there.  At the same time, there's a lot of good stuff in there that should answer most reasonable questions.  If you really read all of the threads connected with it, you'll see some common things that we tell people.

Join discussions here.  Treat us like people, rather than fantasy Dommes.  Get to know us on a friendly basis.  Don't make common mistakes that so many males tend to do (such as assume that we're here for your entertainment or to fulfill kinky wish lists).

Do those things, along with following simple etiquette, and you'll be just fine.


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RE: looking for attention.... - 12/25/2010 5:02:00 PM   
poise


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Kana

Post pictures of your massive Johnson

Or a frisky little kitty cat.

Malc, some of the best information on how to present yourself is posted in those FAQ
threads. Also keep in mind, should you gain the attention of a Dominant woman, she
will see what your forum post history is...so please keep yourself polished and respectful.

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RE: looking for attention.... - 12/25/2010 5:23:14 PM   
malc


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Status: offline 		basicly i fubared... i am sorry was not done for kicks i just screwed up sorry

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RE: looking for attention.... - 12/25/2010 5:37:41 PM   
poise


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Status: offline 		No malc, you haven't screwed up...........yet!
I was thinking more along the lines of you taking heed to what
the lovely ladies have already mentioned, and acting on it.
That will show that you can follow direction, which is always a plus.

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RE: looking for attention.... - 12/25/2010 9:36:53 PM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		malc, I have found that the easiest way to get along with women here, sub or Domme, is to make sure that they would enjoy a conversation with you.  Browse profiles and find ones that appeal to you, and then write the owners and tell them why they appealed to you.  Read a journal entry of theirs or a comment they make in the forums and mention it. 

Also, keep in mind that online is fun but not as effective as in person.  Check to see of there are any munches by Brighton.


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The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

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RE: looking for attention.... - 12/25/2010 9:51:55 PM   
ThatDamnedPanda


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quote:

ORIGINAL: malc

hello , 10 dommes 10000000 subs. how can I stand out?



One way would be to not even think in terms of trying to stand out. Just be who you are, and be the best "you" you can be. Be someone who does what he does and says what he says not to score points, but just because that's who he is and that's what comes naturally to him. As the months pass by, people will come to know you, and if you're a likable guy, they'll come to like you. If you're not, they won't.

That's pretty much it, from my perspective. Good luck, man, and welcome to the forums.


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RE: looking for attention.... - 12/26/2010 2:21:09 AM   
allthatjaz


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Status: offline 		I'm being serious. If you want to stand out on these boards then become a regular sensible contributor. Male subs that stand out to me on sites such as this are the ones who can write intelligently, independently (without brown nosing to every dominant) enthusiastically and most importantly, have a sense of humor. Write to the boards and join in, have fun and be accepted for what you are first and foremost, a man.

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RE: looking for attention.... - 12/26/2010 5:04:52 AM   
LadyConstanze


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Status: offline 		You may want to change your profile...

quote:

I am on here for fun and experimentation


How's that going to attract anybody?

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Those who do and those who don't!

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RE: looking for attention.... - 12/26/2010 10:49:44 AM   
brown09


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Status: offline 		your post has received attention. Good advice posted here and in FAQ. Good luck with your search.

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RE: looking for attention.... - 12/26/2010 2:11:45 PM   
chiaThePet


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Ten million seeking subs on the wall,

Ten million seeking subs,

You take one down and run him town,

Nine million nine hundred and ninety nine thousand nine hundred and ninety nine seeking subs on the wall.


Nine million nine hundred and ninety nine thousand nine hundred and ninety nine seeking subs on the wall,

Nine million nine hundred and ninety nine thousand nine hundred and ninety nine seeking subs,

You take one down and run him from town,

Nine million nine hundred and ninety nine thousand nine hundred and ninety eight seeking subs on the wall.


Nine million nine hundred and ninety nine thousand nine hundred and ninety eight seeking subs on the wall,

Nine million nine hundred and ninety nine thousand nine hundred and ninety eight seeking subs,

You take one down and <SLAP> owwwwwwww

Okay fine!

You take one down and buy an Uzi from town,

One smarter then they were seeking sub on the wall.

chia* (the pet)



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RE: looking for attention.... - 12/27/2010 1:13:10 AM   
SexyBossyBBW


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Status: offline 		Your profile says that you are on here for fun, and experimentation.   I would think you are the perfect candidate, to join BDSM groups, be a gentleman, be helpful, make friends, and the rest will take care of itself.
Good luck,   M


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