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SlaveOwnerDave -> RE: lost (12/28/2010 12:35:43 PM)
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Greetings bruisedbittentoy,
First, I do not understand your statement, "i'm developing a horizon that i think he's not into"---this is not common usage, in My life.
Second:
you say He has been in the lifestyle for a year. How long has He known Himself to be Master?
I ask this, because, when I came out---to Myself---as Master, I thought, given My history of setting Myself to and completing tasks, that I would have a slave in two years. This kind-of happened.
What I was most certainly not expecting was the astonishing amount of personal growth which occurred as a result. In some ways, I am a different person. I developed in myriad tiny ways, and changed, in some large ways.
The point here, is that He is still developing, and growing. I suspect "i'm developing a horizon" means you are growing, too.
The two of you need communication. He, and likely thee, needs more exposure to Master/slave culture.
I recommend these books:
Master/slave Relations, by Robert Rubel,
Manual Creation, by Machelle Kindle, and
Ask the Man Who Owns him, by david stein and David Schachter. Book review
These books do not give blueprints for a new life, but they will give the two of you the starting points, and much supporting information, for discussions for building your own life the way you want it.
I wish you the best,
Master David Goodmen
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